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==Questions and Answers==
===My boyfriend has a busy day at work. What are some sweet texts I can send him?===
'''''Here are 7 sweet messages you can send your busy boyfriend when he's at work:'''''

* I know you're busy with work, but I thought you could use a smiley :)
* I'm proud of you. Proud to love you, and proud to be yours.
* I was thinking that you might be tired, so there's a nice back rub waiting for you when you come home.
* Sometimes I think you need a vacation from all that hard work you do. Maybe you come home to me tonight, and I'll make you a cheeseburger in paradise?
* Some mornings, I want to make you late for work. Hurry home darling. XOXO
* Hi Honey. I know you're pretty busy at work, I just want to say hi and I hope you get through this day with a smile on your face. I love you.
* I love that you work hard, but I love it even more when you play hard

===Hi, my boyfriend is very busy in his work, I do understand his job is very hectic but sometimes we don't talk for 2 to 3 days. Missing him a lot but due to ego I don't message him or call him much.===
''I am not expressive. I love him and trust him a lot but sometimes some incidents make me doubt him. Don't know what to do. Please help me.''

People can feel secure in a relationship to the point that if they are super busy they do not feel that they have to be in contact with their significant other because they know that the person will be waiting for them when they can finally take a break. 
Messaging him with a quick SMS of any of the options above in this wiki is a great way to just let him know that you are missing him. Because he seems to be so busy a message a day will make him feel loved.

===Sweet messages to busy boyfriend===
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'''''We've got more than 100 sweet messages for your busy boyfriend.'''''

Even when your boyfriend is busy at work, school, or anywhere else, he will appreciate getting a text from you reminding him that he's loved. A sweet text from a girlfriend can brighten anyone's day!

When you know your boyfriend is busy, avoid bothering him with petty things.  If you need to leave a message, make sure that you keep it brief and concise on what you really want to say. Leave the parts that are unimportant for later on when he's not busy anymore. Just let him know you love him, or are thinking of him, and leave him with a smile.

'''''Here are 13 sweet messages you can text your busy boyfriend:'''''

* Like that song says, "All I need is the air that I breathe, and to love you." I miss you baby. Can't wait to see you when you get home.
* I'm thinking about you!
* There's never enough time for me to show you how much I love you, but when you come home tonight, I'll try to show you again.
* Hope you're having a good day Sweetie. I can't wait to see you today!
* All day I think about you, and then all night I get to sleep next to you. It's such a wonderful way to be.
* I can't decide if the best part of my day is waking up next to you, or going to sleep with you. Hurry home so I can compare the two again.
* The best part of my day is you. I can't wait to see you tonight.
* I was thinking about you. Hope you are OK today and I will talk to you later. Love you <3.
* Sometimes I get frustrated at how hard it is to find the right words to express just how much you mean to me.
* Forever might be a long time, but I'd love to spend it by your side.
* I'm so lucky you're my best friend.
* Thank you for being you.
* Miss you, , miss you, want to kiss you!

Sometimes you're feeling a little more playful than sweet. Even if your boyfriend can't be there to share the love, a saucy playful text is a great way to keep some spice in your relationship.

===Sickeningly Sweet Messages to Send Your Boyfriend===
'''''These are a little over the top. Use with care!'''''

*The only time I really feel complete is when I'm next to you.
*Every time you pause in your work, that's a moment I want to fill with my love for you.
*You're my world, my sunshine, and the man I'm most proud of on this earth. Thanks for all you do to take care of our family. I love you.
*I wish I had more time to tell you how much you mean to me, but you're always so busy, and then when I see you, I just get lost in your eyes. I miss you.
*The best parts of my day are the ones where I get to spend time with you. Even if it's just sitting next to you, it makes me feel whole to be with you.
*Without you, I feel like a like a princess without her crown. Come home soon and rescue me, my sweet prince.
*I've been thinking about you all day, but then, when you're not here, all I can think about is when I'll get to see you again. Love you!
*Good Morning (Good Afternoon, Good Noon, and Good Evening) my sweetie (the nickname that you call your boyfriend), I know that you are so busy but still I want to know if you are fine and I just want to tell you that I love you so much sweetie, take care always cause I care. Love, girlfriend (your name or nickname).
*Sweetie, a beautiful day to you, I just want to tell you how much I love you, I know that you are very busy so please take good care of yourself and have some snacks. I love you and God Bless. Love, your supportive girlfriend (your name or nickname).
*Hello love (his nickname), don't forget to have a snack and don't skip lunch or dinner.
*It seems like I kiss you, then I miss you, then I kiss you. I kiss you before you go to work, then I miss you, then I kiss you when you come home. :)
*I can't stop thinking about you. The harder I try, the more I want to cry. I miss you, my love.
*You work so hard, and you do so much to take care of me. I never thought I'd find a man as wonderful as you. Thank you for all you do.
*You are the greatest man in the world, and one day, I suspect you'll also be the greatest dad too.
*There's never enough time for me to show you how much I love you, but when you come home tonight, I'll try to show you again.
*There's nothing in the world I wouldn't do for you. You just need to come home, and I'll show you. :)
*I never expected to be as proud of the man I loved as I am of you. Your hard work and dedication to our family make me proud to love you, and proud to be yours.
*Like the song says, "There's no one like you. I can't wait for the nights with you." Hope you have a good day, because it's going to be a great night.
*Love was one of those things I thought I understood until I met you and you showed me what it really was.
*Hope you're having a good day sweetie. I can't wait to see you today!
*I was thinking that you might be tired, so I prepared a back massage - I just need you to be here. :)
*Some people change your life, but the ones that matter most are your life. Thanks for being my life.
*All day I think about you, and then all night I get to sleep next to you. It's such a wonderful way to be.
*I can't decide if the best part of my day is waking up next to you, or going to sleep with you. Hurry home so I can compare the two again.
*The best part of my day is you. I can't wait to see you tonight.
*I was thinking about you. Hope you are OK today and I will talk to you later. Love you <3.
*The funny thing about dreams coming true is that they're so much better than you ever imagined they would be. I love you, and I love being with you.
*Even when you irritate me, I still like the fact that I'm getting attention from you.
*I was about to wish you sweet dreams, but then I figured I could just invite myself over, and make sure they were sweet. See you tonight!
*The best part of falling for you is that you're always there to catch me.
*I don't need fashion. Your arms are my favorite thing to have wrapped around me.
*When you read this, know that I love you.
*Spending the rest of my life with you is a dream come true. Thank you. <3
*All my life I never knew what I was missing, until I found you. You're the best.
*A very wonderful day for my love (his nickname), I miss you so much. Hope you are doing great there.
*Sometimes I have to pinch myself just to make sure I'm not dreaming. Not always though. Living with you, I kind of get used to living in a dream.
*I was thinking that I might start cooking a little early today, and make your favorite dinner, followed by a back rub, and maybe a hot bath. Could you bring some wine home with you?
*It's strange how empty the house seems when you're not around. Somehow your presence and your laughter just fills the house, and it also fills me with joy. I miss you. I miss your footsteps. <3
*Hi,, just thinking of you. I do that, you know. Miss you!
*I know you're busy with work, but I thought you could use a smiley :)
*I spend all night with you, and then think about you all day. Miss you!
*Most of the time I love you more than anything else. The other times, well... you bring me flowers and chocolate. What's a girl to do?
*Hi Honey. I know you're pretty busy at work, I just want to say hi and I hope you get through this day with a smile on your face. I love you.
*Hi, good looking. Let me know if you need a designated driver. I'm free tonight. <3
*Hope you're OK. If you need anything, or anyone, let me know and I'll be right there.
*I can't stop thinking of you. Maybe it's because I know how bad you dress when I don't pick out your clothes. Miss you! :)
*If you decide you'd rather sleep with me than on the couch at your friend's place, just let me know. <3
*I like that you spend time with your friends. It gives me a chance to miss you - so hurry home. Love you baby!
*A good day for my love (his nickname), even you are busy, please don't forget to take good care of yourself.
*Whenever I'm not in your arms, I feel a little less safe. Hurry home my love.
*To my sweetie, It seems that you are very busy so please take good care of yourself, don't skip breakfast or lunch and I love you so much sweetie. Hugs and kisses.
*Being with you makes me feel like the luckiest woman in the world.
*You work so hard, and you do so much. How about you come home to me? I'll do all the work and let you relax. <3
*I know it's been a hard day's work, but when you come home to me, you'll find the things that I do, they'll make you feel alright. :)
*Sometimes I think you need a vacation from all that hard work you do. Maybe you come home to me tonight, and I'll make you a cheeseburger in paradise?
*You're the best man in the world. I feel so safe with you, knowing how hard you work, and it makes me want to do so much for you. I love you baby. Thank you for all you do for our future together.
*Thinking of you, but then I always do. Hope you're well.
*You're always so attractive when you're focused on something. I wish I could see you right now.
*Hi baby was just saying I love you and have a great day.
*It's kind of a turn on when you're so busy with work. See you tonight. ;)
*Looking forward to seeing you tonight when you finish up.
*One of the things I love most about you is your dedication to everything you do. Hope you're having a great day! <3
*Hi,, I was just letting you know I was thinking about you.
*Couldn't stop myself from smiling when I was thinking of you.
*I'm always amazed at how energetic you are when you see me, because I know how hard you work. Miss you.
*I just wanted to let you know I miss you. See you soon. Love you.
*I love that you work hard, but I love it even more when you play hard. Hurry home, I miss you!
*Hope you're having a great day! Can't wait to meet up later today when you finish up.
*If there were more hours in the day, I'd bring you lunch and make sure every day was a good day for you. Love you.
*It really makes me feel so loved when you bring me flowers, chocolates, or even just a smile.
*Nothing you do says I love you more than when you play with my hair.
*In all the world, the sweetest words to show me your love are the ones you write to me in letters.
*When you kiss me on the forehead, I know it means you love me. Thanks baby. I love you too.
*The little Emoji you send me with hearts and stars just make my day. It's sweet how you say 'I love you' like no one else.
*You're the only man who's ever really said I love you with a gift. Your gifts just lift me up, because I know it's how you show your love for me. Thank you baby.
*Hi, babe, just letting you know that there's always space next to me too if you get tired of all that space without me. Hope you're OK.
*I'm here if you need me, even if not being next to you is the only thing I can do for you right now. When you're ready to come home, let me know. I'll still be here.
*I know it's not easy being you, even if I don't always understand what you're going through. Whatever it is though, I am here for you when you're ready to come home.
*I hope you're OK, and that you're in a place where you can sort out the things you need to. I just wanted to let you know that I care, and I support you.
*Even though you said you wanted to be alone, I didn't want to let you go. I don't like being alone, and I was afraid to leave you alone, but I'm trying my best to respect your wishes.
*You've always been there for me, so it's very hard for me to not be there for you, because that's what you said you needed. I love you, and even if I don't understand what you're going through, I support you.
*I love you, and I'll be next to you in a second if you need me. Just ask. Otherwise, I'll keep eating ice cream and missing you. <3
*Each day that passes, I feel this fire inside of me burn more with the need to be in your arms. How I long to whisper my love in your ear. Will you not come to me?
*I imagine leaning into your arms, wrapped tight in your embrace, as I whisper this love I've not yet been able to tell you in person. All I ask is one moment to make this wish true.
*The hours of the day all blend together when I'm away from you, for there's no reason to count the time, save the moments you're with me, and I can share my love for you.
*I love you. I need you. This fire consumes me, and it can only be quenched when I've let this passion free and expressed my love for you. Come, please, that I might share this with you.
*In all the world, there is no one who yearns to love you as I do. It consumes my every waking moment, yet you are always busy. Have you not even a single evening, that I might make my love for you known?
*For days and weeks on end, I've patiently waited to speak with you. All the while my love has been building, and now I fear it will break free and consume us both. Please, I beg of you, come to me.
*I need but a moment. Just your ear, at the bottom, where my cheek might press against yours, and my lips murmur these words of love I've so long held close, but never shared. Give me just this moment.
*The only time I feel safe is when your arms are around me. Right now I don't feel safe, because I can't feel your arms around me. Please, hold me. I miss you, and I need your love.
*I used to feel your love like the sun. You were so sweet, and I felt so warm with you, but lately I feel cold, and you're so distant. I love you. Please, come back to me.
*In all the world, I only wanted to be yours, and I was, but now I feel like you don't want me anymore. I feel cold, and lonely. Where are you my love? What happened to your sweet caresses?
*It's so hard to be next to you when I feel like I'm so far away from you. Once upon a time you were so sweet and kind, but you've grown cold. What can I do to warm you sweetheart once more?
*Just one man has ever touched my heart, and that was you. Your kind, sweet, and gentle way opened my soul, and I fell so in love with you. Now I feel that you're more distant, and I just want to bring you close to my heart once more. I love you.
* I was just looking at this great pink shirt that reminded me of you. Not because you like pink, but because one day I'll end up turning your shirt pink when I wash it. Miss you!
* Sometimes I feel like a flower on a cloudy day. I see you, and the sun is shining. You're gone, and the sun is hiding. I can't wait for more sunshine today! Have a good day at work.
* When I say I miss you, that's my way of blaming Cupid for not shooting you more often with those poisoned arrows, and making you spend more time with me.
* My favorite part of the day is the time I get to spend not missing you. So, you know, if you finish early or anything, I'll be here waiting to not miss you. <3
* There are a lot of reasons I could be missing you. It might be because I want a kiss, or maybe because I need a hug, or... well... you'll just have to come see. Miss you!
* Whenever I miss you, I have this uncontrollable urge to eat. I hope you still recognize me when you get back.
* I was just about to tell you how much I loved you, but then I remembered how much I miss you too, so now I can't decide whether I miss you or love you more today! Hurry home and help me decide!

'''''Finally, there's one thing you can text that can make a guy's day any time:'''''

Sometimes, you don't even need words to express your love.

===Playful texts to send to my busy boyfriend===
'''''Here are 16 flirty, playful messages you can text your busy boyfriend:'''''

* I know you're busy, and you know I'm lonely. How about you come home and let me do the work for a little while baby?
* Hope you have a good d because it's going to be a great night. ;)
* You look delicious today. I just want to eat you up!
* I love the way you run your hand through my hair.
* I was about to wish you sweet dreams, but then I figured I could just invite myself over, and make sure they were sweet. See you tonight!
* Imagine my lips on yours - Just wanted to help you get through your day faster! :P
* There's a you-shaped hole in my bed. Will you help me fill it?
* Guess what color bra I'm wearing... or better yet, why don't you find out firsthand tonight?
* I don't know how you do it, but you always make me feel like I'm on top of the world. 
* Thank you for catching me when I fell in love with you!
* I can't wait to see you, baby. Hurry up and get home!
* It's a nasty gloomy day, the kind of day where all I want to do is stay at home under the covers and snuggle with you. 
* Everyone has their own motivation to get up in the morning and face the day. You are mine.
* I can't believe a guy as sweet as you is mine. 
* You're the best thing that's happened to me in a long time.
* I know you're busy but I just had to tell you that when I'm with you, I'm the happiest person in the world. Have a great day!

=== What should I say to my boyfriend had an accident and I want to send him my best wishes by I am not good at texting? ===
'' He had an accident because of me. When I called him he was riding his bike, he tried to take my call but the accident happened and he hurt his leg. His family doesn't like me so I couldn't go to visit him. I want him to get better and want to be there. It is different because I can't be with him I want to let him know I am there for him even when we are far apart ''

Text him that you are sorry that this accident happened but that you appreciate the fact that he was trying to hear your voice when it happened. Tell him that this shows his commitment towards you. Let him know that because his family does not like you, it is best to stay away so he can recover with less familial drama.

===What can you text to your boyfriend to brighten his day and get him to think about you?===
'''''How to make your boyfriend smile through sweet messages:'''''

Making him smile is one of the best gifts you can give your boyfriend, and is sure to brighten his day. We've added a few sweet and funny cute things you can send to him below. You can also view our [[A heart touching good night text message to my boyfriend to make him smile before going to bed|heart touching and text messages to make your sweet boyfriend smile before going to bed]] for some suggestions on what to send him at night too.

'''''10 Sweet messages to brighten your boyfriend's day and make him smile because of you:'''''

* I wish I had more time to tell you how much you mean to me, but whenever I see you, I just get lost in your eyes.
* The best parts of my day are the ones where I get to spend time with you. 
* I always dreamed of a man I could love and never leave, but you're so much better than the dream!
* I love when you smile for no reason (but it's even better when the reason you're smiling is me!)
* A hug and a kiss, for the Mister, from the Miss. XOXO
* I was just thinking about our last date, and now I can't stop smiling. Let's do it again soon!
* If nothing lasts forever, can I be your nothing?
* I met someone. He's amazing and good-looking, and he makes me want to spend every waking moment with him. That man is you.
* Hi, baby, let's make a pillow and blanket fort and spend the evening in our own little world.
* I don't know if you're aware, and this is important: I'm in love with you.

'''''Sickeningly sweet messages to send your boyfriend - use with care!'''''

* The only time I really feel complete is when I'm next to you.
* Every time you pause in your work, that's a moment I want to fill with my love for you.
* You're my world, my sunshine, and the man I'm most proud of on this earth. Thanks for all you do to take care of our family. I love you.
* I wish I had more time to tell you how much you mean to me, but you're always so busy, and then when I see you, I just get lost in your eyes. I miss you.
* Without you, I feel like a like a princess without her crown. Come home soon and rescue me my sweet prince.
* I've been thinking about you all day, but then, when you're not here, all I can think about is when I'll get to see you again. Love you!
* Good Morning (Good Afternoon, Good Noon, and Good Evening) my sweetie (the nickname that you call your boyfriend), I know that you are so busy but still I want to know if you are fine and I just want to tell you that I love you so much sweetie, take care always cause I care. Love, girlfriend (your name or nickname).
* Sweetie, a beautiful day to you, I just want to tell you how much I love you, I know that you are very busy so please take good care of yourself and have some snacks. I love you and God Bless. Love, your supportive girlfriend (your name or nickname).
* Hello love (his nickname), don't forget to have a snack and don't skip lunch or dinner.
* It seems like I kiss you, then I miss you, then I kiss you. I kiss you before you go to work, then I miss you, then I kiss you when you come home. :)
* I can't stop thinking about you. The harder I try, the more I want to cry. I miss you my love.
* You work so hard, and you do so much to take care of me. I never thought I'd find a man as wonderful as you. Thank you for all you do.
* You are the greatest man in the world, and one day, I suspect you'll also be the greatest dad too.
* There's never enough time for me to show you how much I love you, but when you come home tonight, I'll try to show you again.
* There's nothing in the world I wouldn't do for you. You just need to come home, and I'll show you. :)
* I never expected to be as proud of the man I loved as I am of you. Your hard work and dedication to our family makes me proud to love you, and proud to be yours.
* Like the song says, "There's no one like you. I can't wait for the nights with you." Hope you have a good day, because it's going to be a great night.
* Love was one of those things I thought I understood, until I met you and you showed me what it really was.
* Hope you're having a good day sweetie. I can't wait to see you today!
* I was thinking that you might be tired, so I prepared a back massage - I just need you to be here. :)
* Some people change your life, but the ones that matter most are your life. Thanks for being my life.
* All day I think about you, and then all night I get to sleep next to you. It's such a wonderful way to be.
* I was thinking about you. Hope you are OK today and I will talk to you later. Love you <3.
* The funny thing about dreams coming true is that they're so much better than you ever imagined they would be. I love you, and I love being with you.
* Even when you irritate me, I still like the fact that I'm getting attention from you.
* I was about to wish you sweet dreams, but then I figured I could just invite myself over, and make sure they were sweet. See you tonight!
* The best part of falling for you is that you're always there to catch me.
* I don't need fashion. Your arms are my favorite thing to have wrapped around me.
* When you read this, know that I love you.
* Spending the rest of my life with you is a dream come true. Thank you. <3
* All my life I never knew what I was missing, until I found you. You're the best.
* A very wonderful day for my love (his nickname), I miss you so much. Hope you are doing great there.
* Sometimes I have to pinch myself just to make sure I'm not dreaming. Not always though. Living with you, I kind of get used to living in a dream.
* I was thinking that I might start cooking a little early today and make your favorite dinner, followed by a back rub, and maybe a hot bath. Could you bring some wine home with you?
* It's strange how empty the house seems when you're not around. Somehow your presence and your laughter just fills the house, and it also fills me with joy. I miss you. I miss your footsteps. <3
* I spend all night with you, and then think about you all day. Miss you!
* Most of the time I love you more than anything else. The other times, well... you bring me flowers and chocolate. What's a girl to do?
* Hi Honey. I know you're pretty busy at work, I just want to say hi and I hope you get through this day with a smile on your face. I love you.
* Hope you're OK. If you need anything, or anyone, let me know and I'll be right there.
*I can't stop thinking of you. Maybe it's because I know how bad you dress when I don't pick out your clothes. Miss you! :)
* A good day for my love (his nickname), even you are busy, please don't forget to take good care of yourself.
* Whenever I'm not in your arms, I feel a little less safe. Hurry home my love.
* To my sweetie, It seems that you are very busy so please take good care of yourself, don't skip breakfast or lunch and I love you so much sweetie. Hugs and kisses.
* I know it's been a hard day's work, but when you come home to me, you'll find the things that I do, they'll make you feel alright. :)
* Sometimes I think you need a vacation from all that hard work you do. Maybe you come home to me tonight, and I'll make you a cheeseburger in paradise?
* You're the best man in the world. I feel so safe with you, knowing how hard you work, and it makes me want to do so much for you. I love you baby. Thank you for all you do for our future together.
* Couldn't stop myself from smiling when I was thinking of you.
* I'm always amazed at how energetic you are when you see me, because I know how hard you work. Miss you.
* If there were more hours in the day, I'd bring you lunch and make sure every day was a good day for you. Love you.
* It really makes me feel so loved when you bring me flowers, chocolates, or even just a smile.
* Nothing you do says I love you more than when you play with my hair.
* In all the world, the sweetest words to show me your love are the ones you write to me in letters.
* When you kiss me on the forehead, I know it means you love me. Thanks baby. I love you too.
* You're the only man who's ever really said I love you with a gift. Your gifts just lift me up, because I know it's how you show your love for me. Thank you baby.
* You've always been there for me, so it's very hard for me to not be there for you, because that's what you said you needed. I love you, and even if I don't understand what you're going through, I support you.
* I love you, and I'll be next to you in a second if you need me. Just ask. Otherwise, I'll keep eating ice cream and missing you. <3
* Each day that passes, I feel this fire inside of me burn more with the need to be in your arms. How I long to whisper my love in your ear. Will you not come to me?
* I imagine leaning into your arms, wrapped tight in your embrace, as I whisper this love I've not yet been able to tell you in person. All I ask is one moment to make this wish true.
* The hours of the day all blend together when I'm away from you, for there's no reason to count the time, save the moments you're with me, and I can share my love for you.
* I love you. I need you. This fire consumes me, and it can only be quenched when I've let this passion free and expressed my love for you. Come, please, that I might share this with you.
* In all the world, there is no one who yearns to love you as I do. It consumes my every waking moment, yet you are always busy. Have you not even a single evening, that I might make my love for you known?
* For days and weeks on end, I've patiently waited to speak with you. All the while my love has been building, and now I fear it will break free and consume us both. Please, I beg of you, come to me.
* The only time I feel safe is when your arms are around me. Right now I don't feel safe, because I can't feel your arms around me. Please, hold me. I miss you, and I need your love.
* Just one man has ever touched my heart, and that was you. Your kind, sweet, and gentle way opened my soul, and I fell so in love with you. Now I feel that you're more distant, and I just want to bring you close to my heart once more. I love you.
* I was just looking at this great pink shirt that reminded me of you. Not because you like pink, but because one day I'll end up turning your shirt pink when I wash it. Miss you!
* Sometimes I feel like a flower on a cloudy day. I see you, and the sun is shining. You're gone, and the sun is hiding. I can't wait for more sunshine today! Have a good day at work.
* When I say I miss you, that's my way of blaming Cupid for not shooting you more often with those poisoned arrows, and making you spend more time with me.
* There are a lot of reasons I could be missing you. It might be because I want a kiss, or maybe because I need a hug, or... well... you'll just have to come see. Miss you!
* Whenever I miss you, I have this uncontrollable urge to eat. I hope you still recognize me when you get back.

Finally, there's one thing you can text that can make a guy's day any time:

* <3

Sometimes, you don't even need words to express your love.

===Should I expect my boyfriend to text me Goodnight when out with friends?===
'''''If he's busy, should I disturb him, or just let him have his fun with friends? What if I'm busy? Should I expect him to send me a text message?'''''

It depends on the character of you and your boyfriend. If your boyfriend is the loving and caring type, he will text you from time to time. Sometimes he'll text you just to make sure you're doing well. Of course, there are also guys who prefer to not frequently text their girlfriends. This is so their girlfriends have enough time and space to enjoy their friend or alone time.

Your own personality can also affect how often your boyfriend texts you. If you prefer for your boyfriend to constantly send you SMS messages, you should make that clear. Let him know that you would appreciate it if he texts you to say goodnight, if you're not together or he's with his friends.

On the other hand, if you prefer not to get constantly texted by your boyfriend, especially when you are out with your friends, then communicate that to him. Let him know you need your space! Just remember that if you don't like him to message you when you're out with your friends, then you shouldn't expect him to message you when he's out with his friends.

'''''Here are 5 example messages you can send him when he's out with his friends:'''''

*Hi, good looking. Let me know if you need a designated driver. I'm free tonight. <3
*If you decide you'd rather sleep with me than on the couch at your friend's place, just let me know. <3
* Even though I won't be seeing you tonight, I'll be thinking of you. 
* It'll be hard for me to fall asleep without your warmth next to me. Good night, my love!
* Laying in bed, thinking of you.

Even when your boyfriend is at work or school, getting a text from you can help him get through the day. Give him something to look forward to at the end of the work day.

===I have a boyfriend who was sweet with me before but now he's changed. I miss the guy I used to know. How can I talk to him?===
'''''How can I talk to a boyfriend who's changed from loving to cold?'''''

It sounds like he needs some assurance of your love. He needs to know that you have passion and fire in your heart for him, and only him. If he was so sweet before, then maybe he feels that your love has grown cold. You will need to show him with words and actions how you really feel about him. One way to start is by sending your boyfriend sweet love messages.

'''''These 4 passionate messages for your boyfriend can help him understand how much you miss the man he used to be:'''''

* I used to feel your love like the sun. You were so sweet, and I felt so warm with you, but lately I feel cold, and you're so distant. I love you. Please, come back to me.
* It's so hard to be next to you when I feel like I'm so far away from you.
* Once upon a time you were so sweet and kind, but you've grown cold. What can I do to warm you sweet heart once more?
* My favorite part of the day is the time I get to spend not missing you. I'll be here waiting to not miss you. <3

These messages should let him know how you feel, and that you love him. He will hopefully warm back up to you, and you can rekindle the fire in your relationship. You can also see more than 100 other sweet messages you can send your boyfriend by reading the other parts of this article.

===What kinds of messages I can send him and when is the appropriate time?===
''I am not sure about his schedule. He always has many plans. His world is different from mine, full of friends and fantastic works outside. My health is not good now. I am a stubborn and doubtful girl. I don't know what kind of text I can send him. My words are just to blame him because I thought if he misses me, if he thinks I am his love, he has to care about me, text me first, not all the time but must be more than 2 or 3 texts. I am always missing him but I don't want to tell him. I am stuck and fighting with myself.''

Don't be afraid to tell him you miss him in your text. Let him know how much it brightens your day when you hear from him. It is possible that he is just truly busy and has little time to text, and you shouldn't take it personally. Some people simply do not like to text, and they may not have much to say, anyway. You can ask him if he would mind texting with you more often. If he says he would like to text with you more but just doesn't have the time, you should just take his word for it. If he gets angry when you ask him about it, or if he acts like you're clingy just for mentioning it, then he is probably someone who needs a lot of space. If that's the case, you will need to decide if that's the type of person you want to be with. If he doesn't want to compromise, it's up to you if you want to stick with him.

===What if my boyfriend will not say "I love you"? back===
'''''I always tell my boyfriend how much he means to me, and that I love him very much. I tell him every single day, and I never hear it back from him. He only smiles at me.'''''

Some people have a hard time expressing their emotions with words. Instead, they show their love with gestures, gifts, expressions, or by their actions. Telling someone you love them is very difficult for some people.

This doesn't mean he doesn't love you. It just implies that he might have a different way of saying it. Sometimes the strongest overtures of love are the ones that do not get expressed with words. Does he take special care and attention of you? Is he the kind of guy who gives you poetry, or devotes a significant portion of his free time to be with you? If he does, then it's likely he loves you.

'''''Here are 12 more sweet messages to text your boyfriend when he's busy:'''''

* I know that you're busy, but I wanted you to tell you that I love you!
* I hope you're having a beautiful day!
* I was thinking that I might start cooking a little early today and make your favorite dinner, followed by a back rub, and maybe a hot bath. Could you bring some wine home with you?
* It's strange how empty the house seems when you're not around. I miss your footsteps. <3
* Hi, just thinking of you. I do that, you know. Miss you!
* Hi baby was just saying I love you and have a great day.
* The little Emoji you send me with hearts and stars just make my day. It's sweet how you say 'I love you' like no one else.
* I was having a terrible day, but then I thought of you and now my day is full of sunshine.
* I want to share a popcorn while cringing at terrible movies together. You turn the worst things into the best.
* I love you to the moon ...and back.
* I want to show you off to all my friends, so they can all be jealous of me.
* You always make me smile. Just thinking about you as I write this is bringing a big smile to my face.

===Can you help me? I am maintaining grades and my boyfriend too. we have no conversation?===
''I miss my boyfriend. Two months no conversations, I'm busy studying and he is too..maintaining grades? we're in top 1 and we need to maintain it...we have no time for chatting, calling or bonding. I want a message that makes our life complete''

"Though we are apart now, we are strengthening our futures. I can't wait until I can be in your arms again!" Try sending him one message a day and hopefully he can respond with a message. This will help keep your relationship current.

===Is it OK to send a text when a guy needs space?===
'''''I want to send my boyfriend a text message, but he said he needs space. What can I do?'''''

This is a difficult question. It's usually best to let your boyfriend take some time and order his thoughts before disturbing him with messages. It all depends on the kind of person he is.

However, if you just want to send him short messages that don't require an answer, there's probably no harm in sending him an occasional message. By not asking him anything directly, you're not putting him in a position to have to answer you. You're just letting him know that you care, or that you hope he's OK.

'''''Here are 4 sweet messages you can send your boyfriend when he wants some space:'''''

* Hi, babe, just letting you know that there's always space next to me too if you get tired of all that space without me. Hope you're OK.
* I know it's not easy being you, even if I don't always understand what you're going through. Whatever it is though, I am here for you when you're ready to come home.
* I hope you're OK, and that you're in a place where you can sort out the things you need to. I just wanted to let you know that I care and I support you.
* You've always been there for me, so it's very hard for me to not be there for you. I'm here if you need me.

===Hi, I met a doctor in an official meeting, after few days we again met in an official meeting after which we started chatting. He called me yesterday and before hanging up he specially mentioned how happy he is after hearing from me. Does this show that he likes me?===

''How will I get to know his feelings for me?''

If he said he was happy hearing from you, it could be a sign that he likes you. If he makes an effort to be around you or talk to you more often than is necessary for official matters, it's likely that he's interested in you. As a doctor, he is probably quite busy, so if he takes out time to be around you, he must hold you in high regard. If you contact each other a few more times and he still shows interest, you may want to ask him if he would like to have lunch or get a coffee with you in a casual meeting and see where it goes from there.

=== How do I start flirting with someone that I think may be a good choice as a partner (husband) for me? ===
'' How do I start flirting with someone that I think may be a good choice as a partner (husband) for me. The guy is really traditional and seems to be too involved with research. The article is for someone already a boyfriend or a girlfriend
I am looking an answer for someone who is not yet a boyfriend. ''

All you have to do is begin a conversation with him and be yourself. Do not force or try flirting with him. Let the conversation flow and smile while establishing eye contact.

===How can I tell him that I love him?===
'''''How can I tell my boyfriend that I love him even though he's always busy? What can I say to grab his attention?'''''

Love, as Shakespeare once said, " Is a spirit all compact of fire." (Venus and Adonis, 151). So let your love burn. Light the fire, and let him know your love. If you're afraid to tell him in person, you can send him some sweet messages. Express your love. He's sure to notice your messages, and if he shares your love and passions, then you'll be able to capture his heart.

'''''Here are 7 messages you can send him to express your love and grab his attention:'''''

* Being with you makes me feel like the luckiest woman in the world.
* The fire of your passion is so hot it melts my heart.
* I need but a moment. Just your ear, at the bottom, where my cheek might press against yours, and my lips murmur these words of love I've so long held close, but never shared. Give me just this moment.
* When you whisper your love into my ear, my heart and soul are the ones that hear you.
* Your eyes burn with such a passion. When you look at me, I feel my whole body turn hot.
* I thought I'd be over it by now, but every time I think of you I still get butterflies in my stomach. 
* Your touch is electrifying. Come light me up.

Make sure he knows just how much he means to you. Keep reading for even more sweet messages you can send your busy boyfriend.

'''''Here are 17 more sweet messages to send to your busy boyfriend:'''''

* Thinking of you, but then I always do. Hope you're well.
* I just wanted to let you know I miss you. See you soon. Love you.
* You're so sweet that I get a sugar rush just from being around you.
* Knowing I have you, keeps me smiling all day.
* I love staying up late, talking about nothing into the night, then falling asleep in each other's arms. Let's do that tonight.
* Sending you a virtual hug!
* I wish you could wrap your arms around me right now.
* You take my breath away, but you're also my reason for breathing.
* Knowing that I have you makes me feel like I could overcome any obstacle in my life. Thank you for that.
* I don't believe that dreams come true, so I must still be dreaming. 
* I hope you always come home to me.
* This crossword has a mistake. The clue said "Most amazing person in the world," and your name didn't fit.
* I love that I can be myself around you.
* I say "I love you all the time", but I want you to know that I trust you too. Completely.
* You are my world!
* Guess what? I love you!
* We say it all the time, but it doesn't get any less meaningful - I love you!

=== Tips to chat interest stuff with my guy and make him come near to me? ===
'' Hi, I know the fact that guys do not like to chat much during relationships (eventually in a long-term relationship) as girls do text the same kinds of stuff repeatedly and this can get boring. Could you please advise on what kind of topics and stuff I can chat with me on regular basis without getting bored (I do not want only sweet and romantic, but yes- in a pleasant way). Because if I keep on talking about romantic stuff or make him turned on, at one point this will be a general matter too. So please help me make my guy chat with me interestingly. ''

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===What should I do? I'm confused and feeling lonely?===
''My boyfriend and I haven't talked for like a week. he seems very busy at work, now I feel like he didn't take me seriously and doesn't care about me and I think too much and I hate it.''

When he is no longer busy, you need to sit him down and express that you are feeling slightly neglected and it plays on your emotions. Most likely he does take you seriously, however, he is under so much pressure at work that there is no time to stoke the fire in your relationship. The best thing to do is have that conversation and let him know that you felt neglected and you hope it was not a sign of something more going on.

===How can I make him happy? let me know please?===
''He is so busy, how can I draw his attention?''

Feel free to send SMS text messages throughout your day letting him know that you are thinking about him. Plan dates around things that he is interested in like sporting events or movies.

===How do I define the relationship without being a pest?===
''Me and this guy have been talking for about maybe 3 months almost, and not that I want to jump quickly into a relationship but I want to see where this is going, and like he acts like he wants to be with me and says he likes me and all that cute stuff, but every time I bring up me and him he takes a long time to respond or I have to change the subject. I mean he is a great guy but I don't know any other way to talk to him about it other than in person. We see each other maybe once or twice a week and I just kinda want to know now so I don't get my hopes up if its nothing''

Obviously, he is not ready to make a commitment even though you are. It may have nothing to do with you but instead, he has a fear of commitment, wants to accomplish goals first, or thinks he does not have enough time to devote to a relationship.
Some of the best relationships start off slowly with more of a friendship at first. Take your time with him and if you feel that he is worth waiting for, stick it out to wait for him to commit. You also can spend time with him casually still but keep your options open in case Mr. Right is still out there.

===Trying to infuse a little thought to make him think of me without seeming to be overkill or anxious?===
''This guy is busy and I think he likes me on some level but doesn't like a woman who seems too eager but at the same time likes an independent woman. I think he's used to praises in the past since he used to play in the NFL? I'm confused.''

He is used to his own independence and needs the same from his significant other. When he has time, he will let you know but you need to make sure this is a type of relationship that you want. If you need someone who can see you more often then this will not work.

=== How can I make him miss me, I really need to see him? ===
'' He is always busy with books, not that I don't understand, but I really need to see him this weekend even if it is just for 1 hour. The problem is how to ask him, I really miss him ''

If you are barely seeing him, then he already misses you. What you can do on the weekend is bring him something to eat and suggest that you eat together if he can pause for just one hour. During this time, you will want to be a person who listens to him and not lectures him about the time he can't spend with you.

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