Not bother your busy boyfriend

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Step 7- sit down ad come up with a schedule of which he will like for you to call him and when he does not want you to call him. This can be a proposed plan between the both of you that can make things with communication better and smoother. Aside from the communication you will also need to discuss when it is ok to show up either at his job or his home (if you two aren't living together) for this will help create a better bond between the two of you to continue the relationship with a better understanding.
 
Step 7- sit down ad come up with a schedule of which he will like for you to call him and when he does not want you to call him. This can be a proposed plan between the both of you that can make things with communication better and smoother. Aside from the communication you will also need to discuss when it is ok to show up either at his job or his home (if you two aren't living together) for this will help create a better bond between the two of you to continue the relationship with a better understanding.
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Step 8- put yourself to the test and see how long you can go without contacting him during his busy times. Test and see how many times and hours you spend talking to him and see if you can tone it down a few minutes or hours without calling him during the day. If you can tone down the time then you do have the ability to not bother as much during the day but if you have a difficult time toning down the times of contacting him then you have a problem and need to fix it before you start to up the times that you call him deeming you to become clingy and worrisome. Also by doing this it will up your independence for the reason that you call him so much may be because you are dependent on him to get through your day and to perform activities and this is a very unhealthy chain of events. By gaining your independence through this test it will allow you to see if you need to do other things in the day to keep you from contacting him as much which will also help the situation.
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