29 Sure Ways to Get His Attention Getting His Attention At School vs Work vs A Party ... and 2 more
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You've noticed him looking at you, and this is one time where the attention is 100 percent welcome. Is he really checking you out, or are his glances your way merely that, just a passing thought. You definitely want them to be more: whether he's the hot guy in your class at school or he's the beefcake that works out at your gym, you want to get his attention as a woman. Read on to discover how to let him know you want to get to know him better.
Method 1: Getting His Attention At School
Sure, you're there for an education, but if there's a guy in one of your classes who has captured your attention, there' s no harm in a little classroom flirtation.
- 1Pay attention to where he typically sits in the classroom or lecture hall, then make sure to arrive before he does and sit in that area. Sitting close to him will make it easier for you to chat him up. Also, having an attractive girl choosing to sit close to him will get him thinking that maybe you're into him.Sit near him in class.
- 2Guys love being the hero. Let him come to your rescue by asking him to help you understand a difficult assignment. However, make sure that he understands the material fairly well first; it could backfire and make him look like a dunce in front of you, which is a sure way to tank his self-confidence.Ask him for help with an assignment.
- 3What better way to spend some time with the dude you have your eye on than to study with him. You can be doing your homework and getting in some time with your school-hunk at the same time! While you're studying, let your hands "accidentally" brush against his. Say a quiet "sorry," and give him a warm smile.Offer to study together.
- 4Get involved in the school activities that he is also involved in, provided they're of interest to you. Not only will this give you more opportunities to spend time with him, but it will also let you meet more cool people that share your interests.Join in school activities.
- 5When you ask questions in class, you have the room's attention, including that of your beau. Guys like smart girls, contrary to what you might believe, and showing an interest in your school work also shows your dedication to your studies and to achieving your future goals, an attractive trait to many men.Ask questions in class.
- 6Cliché, as it may be, passing him a note with a cute remark, an offer to meet later, or even your phone number, is a great way to get a guy's attention in class.Pass him a note.
Method 2: Getting His Attention At Work
While some people may think that office romances are a bad idea, the truth is that with the amount of time you spend in the office throughout the week, finding a guy there makes sense. So, if there is an office hottie who has caught your eye, here's how you can grab his attention.
- 1Yes, you'll have the boss' attention, too, but you'll also be showing your handsome co-worker that you're confident in your role, and a woman who is confident draws men to her like bees to honey.Speak up at meetings.
- 2Make it a daily thing that you walk by his work area on the way to the copier, the breakroom, or the bathroom. Don't be afraid to put a little swing in your hips as you amble by, and be sure to catch is eye and throw him a winsome smile.Walk by his desk.
- 3A great excuse for talking to him, soliciting his opinion on some work matter will help to build up his confidence also. If you're both seated on the same side of a worktable, lean in close to him as you are looking over your proposal and allow your arm to brush against his. When he looks at you, look at him from under your eyelashes and smile coyly.Ask his opinion on a proposal.
- 4Sit at the same table with him when you take your lunch and talk to him. Hang on his every word and compliment his ideas. Everyone loves having their egos stroked, guys especially. Use the opportunity to ask him to lunch or coffee away from the office.Sit with him at lunch.
Method 3: Getting His Attention At A Party
When you see a guy at a party that you like, it's time to pull out all the stops because you have this one night to get him to notice you.
- 1Put on your little black dress or its equivalent and carefully style your hair and apply your makeup. Keep in mind that subtle is not the look you're going for here: use bold eyeliner and bright lipstick; let him see you.Dress the part.
- 2As you are chatting with him, lightly touch his arm now and then while giving him a sultry smile. Try to put him at ease: he's probably just as nervous, if not more so than you are because there is this gorgeous woman talking to him and he may not know how to take it at first.Talk to him.
- 3There's nothing more openly flirtatious than a wink. It says hey, I like you, do you like me?Throw him a wink.
- 4Alternatively, you can offer to get him one. If you're the one getting the drink, as you walk away, put a little extra swing in your hips while glancing back at him.Ask him to get you a drink.
- 5Then, when you're sure he is looking at you, make a slow, deliberate show of bending down to pick it up.Pretend to drop something.
- 6Ask him to go somewhere quieter where you can talk. At this point, he should get the hint.Get him alone.
Method 4: Getting His Attention at the Gym
While not a traditional spot to trade flirts, the gym presents an opportunity to get to know someone since you see them every time you work out. And, it's an awesome place to check out all the hot male muscle on display.
- 1Forget Zumba or spinning, the weight machines or free weights is where he will be. However, don't get in the way of his workout. Just proceed with your routine and occasionally throw smiles his way.Hit the weights.
- 2Love who you are and be confident in yourself. No matter if you're carrying a few extra pounds or not, if you know you look hot, your guy will think so, too.Be approachable.
- 3Lose the sweats and t-shirt. Wear something that shows off your body, but is practical for working out at the same time. And make it red.Wear something attractive.
- 4Another way to engage him in conversation is to ask him to share his knowledge with you. One idea you can try: ask him to show you how to use a particular machine.Ask him for workout tips.
- 5You're at the gym, so throw your hair back in a ponytail and opt for some lip gloss and a light coat of mascara on your eyelashes. Men love this look, and it's practical for the gym, too.Go for the natural look.
- 6Tell him that he's looking really good. Men don't get many compliments from women, yet, they like to receive them just like anyone else. Paying him a compliment is sure to disarm him and make you stand out in his mind.Compliment him.
- 7After you're both done with your routines, why not ask him if he would like to grab a smoothie with you? The worst thing that can happen is that he'll say no, but chances are he'll agree. And even if he doesn't, there's no harm in asking.Invite him out for a post-workout smoothie.
Method 5: Getting His Attention on Social Media
Everybody and their uncle have a social media account these days, whether it's Twitter, Facebook, Reddit or Instagram, and it's become a place to flirt. Here's how to capture that sexy guy's attention on your favorite social media channel.
- 1If you haven't done so already, join his list of followers. That way, you get updated whenever he posts something new, and you can respond right away. Maybe he will even follow you back.Follow him.
- 2Liking and commenting is one of the main things to do on social media; it's the whole point to it. So, like and comment the heck out of your guy's posts. Even putting a few smiley face emoji on some of his posts will let him know you like his stuff. Don't overdo it, however. You don't have to like every single post and photo he uploads; that's just creepy.Like and comment on his posts.
- 3You don't want to keep pursuing him if he isn't giving you any indication of reciprocal interest. As Bradley Stern, Editor of Idolator told the Daily Dot "Once you're commenting with no reciprocation, you've crossed into straight-up fan mode."Wait for him to respond to you.
- 4Make your contribution and share things that you know he's into. Better yet, share stuff that you're both into, and you have an instant connection that you can build upon for later.Share stuff with him that you know he'd like.
- 5Use filters on your photos to create an attractive look that makes him want to click on your picture and like the heck out of it.Upload fresh selfies.
- 6After a while, make it crystal clear that you're into him by sending him a few flirty messages. Comment on his latest selfie and tell him how good he looks and that you'd love to get to know him better. Guys will be more apt to respond in the way you want them to if they know you like them.Get flirty.
Questions and Answers
He is not talking to me anymore , what should I do?
Before he proposed me I didn't say yes or no, but now he is ignoring me n talking to me at all. It is hard for me to work like this. What should I do ? I even try to talk with him n ask why you answer my call or message but he is quite?
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