Write 50 SMS for Flirting with Her
Edited by Donna, Eng, Maria Quinney
50 Flirty Text Messages to Send Her
Flirting is essential if you want to keep the woman you are interested in, interested in you. As you can't always see each other in person, you can keep the romance alive by sending her flirtatious texts throughout the day. Whether she is someone you are trying to meet, have dated a few times or are actually in a relationship with, here are 50 ideas for flirtatious text messages with your girl that you can use right now. Note that these loving, funny and romantic messages are not written in SMS short form as many women see that as being a disrespectful form that is written by a guy on the fly. If you do not want to be seen as a player, or like you take your long-term relationship for granted, then write your texts out in full, with proper grammar and punctuation.
- 1Can we chat?"If she is in the same room and you have yet to meet, you can try texting, "Hi there, I am suffering from separation anxiety, even though we have never met.Advertisement
- 2Kittens are a neutral, common reference."You're so cute, you could make a litter newborn kittens jealous!" This is ideal to use on a woman you have not met yet because the metaphor is less sexual.Advertisement
- 3This works for building kindness and familiarity even if she is not your honey."Honey, what are we doing today?" There are very few women who can resist the implicit sweetness of this text, which begs an answer from her, and puts the ball in her court.
- 4"I wonder if you feel about me, the way I feel about you." This direct confession of attraction will usually elicit an equally forthright response.Ask her a very straight, romantic SMS question:
- 5Simply type "Sorry I didn't say hi when I saw you on the street earlier today." When she tells you that you don't know what you are talking about say, "Well, can I make it up to you anyway by taking you out for a bite to eat?"Pretend that you saw her even if you didn't.
- 6Wants me to (fill in the blank with your job description as in) "give them a mortgage at 11%!" or "serve them a grand latte now!") Whatever you write as the punch, line follow it up with an exclamation point and an icon. This is one flirtatious SMS that you do not want to split up into two lines, because if she only sees the first line, she might get too turned off to read the punch line."Every woman in here wants me.
- 7That's right, it's you!" If she cannot make it, this is your cue to set another date for a meeting or for some quality time together."Guess who's coming to dinner later!
- 8me!" This one is good if you do not know her very well or if you have had a mild disagreement with a woman when you first met her. Just make sure that the event you are promising to take her is classy, well worth her time and that it also represents a great side of you."I want you to come with me tonight to (name the event), because there is someone I want you to get to know ...
- 9"To that Five Star restaurant and then to a Broadway show.""Should I call you a cab or come get you myself?" At first she will get this and be a bit confused, but undoubtedly she will be eventually compelled to ask "Why?" or "Where to?" This is your cue to tell her about her fabulous destination, such as.
- 10Send her a message straight from the heart such as "I would love to see you again, but I would be glad every day for the rest of my life just because I met you that once." This is an intensely, candid and romantic statement that most women fall hard for.
- 11She might say "Tres Bien back." Then you text, "If this is going to work then I think you and I are going to have to switch to texting in English." This will probably make her laugh. If you do not get a response in French, then try another language or two, and see if you get a response as in "Bonjour", "Che Faci" and "Aloha." The effect of the three texts in a foreign language will be humorous when she sees them on her cell phone.Try texting her in a foreign language, such as "Bonjour" and then let her text you back.
- 12Then text, "Are you sure I can't help you." When she says no, simply go, "Good because I don't work here!" This should make her laugh.Send her a short mysterious text "Can I help you?" If she sends you a question mark or LOL, then ask again.
- 13He must have fallen hard for me. And you're right!" This lets the cat out of the bag with regards to how you feel about her and gives her a chance to text you back with a feeling of her own."I know what you're thinking.
- 14Only better?" Women do like to be told that they could be mistaken for one o the most beautiful women in the world.Compare her to a well-known beautiful celebrity, only better, as in "Did you know you look like Julia Roberts?
- 15Her name is (her name.)" Then wait a minute and type "OOPS! Mispost!" followed by a blushing icon. Then explain you were texting a friend and got her accidentally.Fake an accidental miss post with a comment like, "I just met the greatest woman in the world and I think I am in love.
- 16What's your address?" This works great with a woman you haven't known for long, but want to ask over to your home for a date.Simply text her the word "Taxi!" When she asks you what that's about, tell her "I'm calling you a taxi so you can come right over because I made you dinner.
- 17An example would be,"I can't stop thinking about what you told me last night. Today I was thinking...(and have an opinion.) This will please her because it shows that you listen to her and want to help her out.Refer her to something you talked about last night.
- 18Because I think we have met before..." Most women are intrigued by a male who might possibly believe in the concept of soul mates who were together in a past life."Do you believe in past lives?
- 19"Strawberries with whipped cream or Coconut Crème Brulee? Which one." Ask her to choose and then take her out for the one she chooses.Play a little game with her by offering options with only pleasant outcomes.
- 20An example would be, "So sunset person or sunrise person? Which are you?" This is a way to flirt and also open up a conversation.Contact her with a question , that seems totally out of the blue, as if you are taking a poll.
- 21And you're so right!"Text "I bet I know what you're thinking." Then, answer it yourself with, "Boy, this guy must like me!
- 22To make her laugh, text "Keep calm and text (her name.)" If she likes you, she will most certainly laugh because she will identify with the sense of sexual tension that has been created.
- 23Text "I saw a dress at a mall that reminded me of you today." Inevitably, this will open up some sort of conversation.Appeal to her love of shopping.
- 24"I had a dream last night that you and I were walking hand in hand on a sandy beach beneath the stars with the sound of the waves and then..." When she responds with a question or icon, then send her a heart icon or text, "I will tell you later when ...(fill in the blank.)
- 25This line works because many men take the harder take of "How can I miss you if you don't leave?""I miss you already, and you just left!" This is ideal to send her just minutes after she leaves after you meet or after a date.
- 26When she responds to ask you what's up, text, "Oh nothing." Then add a smiley face or a heart.Text her own name followed by a period and nothing else.
- 27Simply message "3:33." When she asks what you are doing, tell her "I looked at the clock the minute we met, and I promised myself I would kiss you or send a text message at that time every day for as long as I ever know you."Text her the time that you met.
- 28What am I wearing?" This should make her laugh because it is a twist on the old-fashioned "What are you wearing?" that women usually get.For a late night call, try, "Hi sexy.
- 29I'm wearing spaghetti sauce I spilled on my shirt." Twisting around familiar pick up lines so that they are less sexist and more modern, will help her be attracted to you.Make her laugh by texting,"What are you wearing right now?
- 30See you tomorrow?" This is the kind of flirty SMS that can help y set up a second or third date.If she has just left you, you can text, "Alas, parting is such sweet sorrow.
- 31You supply the brains and the beauty and I'll supply the dinner and wine." This one works well whether you have actually made a date with her or not."I'll see you later.
- 32Of course, you supply the right number of sleeps that you have to have before you see her in the statement."Roses are red, violets or blue, only two more sleeps until I get to see you." This one works best if you have already made a date with her, or if you have been separated by a trip or distance.
- 33Because I can't get you or that song out of my head!" This is good if the two of you truly did just meet last night."Can you remember the name song that was playing when we met last night?
- 34I can hardly wait to see you tonight." This works better if you have gone out on a few dates with her or had a passionate first encounter and want to see her again. It is also a very romantic SMS to text your wife."I thought about you all night and I am still thinking about you this morning.
- 35Then you go "Oops! How are you?"To make her laugh, start typing out a shopping list, "eggs, milk, cheese, bread ..." She will likely send you a question mark or laughing icon.
- 36You're sexy and you don't even have to try." This is the kind of compliment that most women treasure, because it seems effortless."You know what I love about you?
- 37"You are one in a million, and you make me feel like a million bucks." This general SMS text works because it compliments her while at the same time pointing to how she makes you feel.
- 38"I bet when you walk by, rose bushes just spontaneously bloom." When you use magical imagery, it makes her feel sexy and powerful.
- 39I can't blame them, you're so hot!" This appeals to her vanity and the idea that all women are secretly flattered when construction workers stare at them on the street."Did the construction workers give you trouble this morning?
- 40You always know what to say. Unlike me!" This should make her laugh, because texts usually contain more content than this."You know what I love about you?
- 41"I will supply the wine and takeout as long as you answer the door wearing nothing but (insert a fantasy here.) This one works best for someone that you already have had a sexual relationship for a while.
- 42Send her a text that simply says, "No words." When she sends you a question mark back, reply, "For your beauty."
- 43For a long-term wife or girlfriend, you can try sending, "Love requires some sacrifice, so tonight you can have the TV remote all to yourself." This should make her laugh.
- 44When she checks her phone, she will more than likely turn, look your way and then smile.If she is standing in the same room as you, you can message "You look so sweet standing over there." This is more of an SMS that is in the relationship maintenance category.
- 45This message is also more suitable for a partner you have been with a while.If she is standing in the same room, you can SMS "Hark, is that the sweet dulcet tones of my true love I hear from across the room." This will also make her turn and acknowledge you.
- 46If you are in the same room with her, you can text, "I can smell your sweet perfume from here." This works best with long-term relationships or if you have already been on a few dates together, as it is more personal.
- 47Every new day is the same as when we first met." This works whether or not you have known her just a day or two or for fifty years and as far as flirtatious texts go, it is also very endearing and sincere.If you are in the same room, you can text her, "Whenever I see you, my heart skips a beat.
- 48If you are in the same room, try "Congratulations, you have just been voted the most beautiful woman in this room." This one works on both brand new and long-term relationships.
- 49If you want to seduce a woman, try sending her this later at night."I love you more than yesterday." This is a very simple flirtatious remark, that expresses real admiration and a bit of commitment that works because, the recipient of the compliment feels so flattered.
- 50I hope this message from my heart is hard to ignore." This is a little rhyme you can send if you get the feeling that she might be drifting away from you somehow or if she is not returning texts.There is still so much to explore.
Tips and Tricks
- Before you flirt with anybody by SMS, make sure you have the right number!
- Note that in the end, you can use old school SMS style text to contact her, as in "r you free?", but given the sophistication of today's keyboards, there is no reason to do this
- Try not to be corny or use stale lines or she will be bored by you and delete you from her contact list
- If she does not want you to text her during certain times of the day, for example, when she is working, then don't do it
- If she asks you to stop sending her flirty SMS, then just do as she asks as this request rarely represents an effort to play hard to get
- Some women find flirting using texts to be immature and the mark of a player, so if you are serious about courting her take her out on a date and flirt with her in person (unless you are separated by distance
- Many women, especially older ones, see texting as being a bit too easy and somewhat disrespectful, and if you really want to get her attention, give her a phone call
Categories : Relationships
Recent edits by: Eng, Donna