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Why does he have more compassion for her than me and how do I get him to understand my feeling are just as real as hers and my fears are real and relevant?
When we talk about something and it makes me upset he calls me a baby or tells me I have my panties in a bunch. but when he talks to her he will talk for hours, calmly, and tries to make her feel better. and when I say I'm going to do something he calls me retarded, says I'm not thinking about my kids, I have my panties in a bunch, or I'm thinking about myself only. but she says the same thing and he gets upset tries to talk her out of it, has compassion for her, understands how she is feeling, and will talk to her for hours about it and will totally ignore my text messages, like I don't matter and he cares more about her than me. he says he don't but his actions are saying different. how do I deal with this situation without making him mad at me and making it sound like I don't care. I mean I do care bout her health I am human still but it goes a little far when they both go to each others appointments. and says they are each others projects. and they still want to do something for their anniversary. I mean they technically don't have one anymore they are not together. that is what makes me think they are still seeing each other behind my back. how do I get him to understand my feeling are just as real as hers are. my fears are real and relevant. I don't think others have experienced anything like this. boyfriends usually don't text their exs all hours of the night and day. most others experience the ex at a far, through stories, or cause families are still connected. not many tolerate what I'm dealing with.
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