Get your girlfriend to forgive

Why girlfriend is mad at me and she is like this close to break-up what can I do? I love her so much?

Because apparently she told me she likes me and another guy..she likes me because she feel the passion and protection but she like the other dude because she is attracted to him sexually..Like I really need help and now she is not replying my messages

At least she was honest with you but it may be time for you to move on. It is normal to feel attraction to the opposite sex but once it starts impeding the relationship there is a threat to that relationship. Give her some space and see if she texts you after a week. Maybe she needs to see what loses you would mean before she makes her decision. You should let her know though that this is not fair to you or the other guy and she does need to decide who she wants to be with.

Evaluate at this point if you can even trust her enough for the relationship to survive. You may realize that you are better off not in a relationship with her because you would make yourself miserable always suspecting her.

What do I tell her so she won't be so mad and goes back to loving me?

She is mad because I was flirting with other girls and she found that in my phone

Now that you have been caught, the best thing to do is own up to it and apologize for your actions. You will have to be more transparent and let her search your phone on a random basis. It will take time to rebuild trust with her and you will have to put up with insecurity driven behavior from her.

Work on your issue of why you felt the need to flirt with several girls. Fix that and then you can begin to repair your relationship.

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