Get a Man to Put More Effort Into a Relationship

What to do? he doesn't put in effort to our relationship?

Hi Donna,. I'm in a relationship with my boyfriend for 5 years now. we are neighbors and I see him every night after work for =/- 2 hours.. . the thing is during the day he doesn't bother or even check up on me at all..and he does not work week days, yet his always busy. when I get home from work I bath change and I'm by him yet when I get there his still either busy with his plants or cutting his hair or busy with his family members. its like he doesn't care.. . I have spoke to him and he said he promise he will give me more attention. but then it gets back to the same the next day.. . when I go over every night its not like we spending us time or alone time we have dinner.. then chill a little or he does his things then its time for me to go home...he will never message or even speak to me before I go to sleep..he will send a goodnight message late at night before he sleeps but I feel like that is out of habit.. . I don't no what to do any more, and if I do bring it up again or talk about it he says I'm nagging if I do stay away and say I'm not coming over then its I'm being funny.... . I can phone him or even message him the whole day and he will never check his phone..please help as I really don't no what to do. Well basically we talking going over years and I feel like now theres a lack of interest or either his at his comfort zone and feels he has me why should he put in any effort. I have tried: I tried speaking to him, and he has promised to give me more attention and make me happy...but now its few days down the line and back to the norm. I think it was caused by: I honestly wish I knew. and when I did ask him he says his just busy so I said he should make time. I'm not asking for him to talk to me the whole day.

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