Use the Law of Attraction to Meet a Man

Edited by Donna, Eng, Alma

Understanding the Law of Attraction

You can draw the ideal mate to you using the Law of Attraction.

The Law of Attraction is a spiritual law that can be put into practice to attract anything that you like in your life, including a man. The law dictates that whatever you focus the most on will manifest in your life as our thoughts have the power to bring our desires into reality. In the Bible, this phenomenon is known as "the Word is Flesh", meaning what you name is what will come into being, especially if it is through prayer or alignment with your highest self. The Law of Attraction is also based on the principle of "Like Attracts Like" meaning that similar individuals will be naturally drawn together through power of their mutual vibrational resonance.

Manifesting the perfect new boyfriend requires spiritual and mental discipline, requiring you to keep your personal vibration as positive as possible. You must be positive, and believe that the universe is benevolent and will bring you exactly the person you need at the perfect time, in the perfect place and with perfect grace.

Steps to Using the Law of Attraction to Meet The Perfect Man

Writing in a journal can help you clarify and visualize what you really want from a relationship.

Here are the steps as to use the Law of Attraction to attract the perfect man in your life. The reason that you want to use the words perfect when you think about attracting a man is because you do not want to manifest just any old guy, you want to attract the person who suits you best. Adhering to the following rules will help you break old patterns and bring your ideal mate into your life.

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    Have a belief in God, or your power and have faith, without a doubt, that is kind and working at all times to bring your perfect mate into your realm
    Belief in a positive outcome is half the battle when it comes to having the perfect person walk into your life sometimes when you least expect it and sometimes seemingly by coincidence. Be convinced, without a doubt, that your perfect boyfriend is resonating with your spiritual call and that he will make his presence in your life soon.
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    Find a peace and stillness from within you and consciously forgive yourself and anyone else who may have you caused bitterness, resentment or jealousy in the past
    This includes anyone who may have abused you, taken from you, been unfaithful or otherwise. It is even more important to forgive yourself, as many women who have had bad experiences with men in the past tend to stay at vibration level that expresses shame, sadness and low self worth. Forgiveness helps clear your mind and psyche so that your prayers and affirmations about finding someone new are reverberated across the universe. Remember forgiving someone, is something that you do for yourself. Whenever you have a negative or critical thought about someone else or yourself, dismiss it and immediately replace it with a more positive thought to do with the future.
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    Deliberately detach completely from the past by making the decision that you will not be thinking about any past hurtful relationship any more and focusing only on the perfect future relationship
    If you keep thinking about the past, you will only stay stuck there and attract the same kind of person that you did in your last relationship. This is a choice that you are making about where you are going to focus if you are going to meet your goal. Every day when you wake up in the morning, say to yourself, "However I feel about the past, does not have the power to make me happy or sad. I choose a happy future with a perfect man."
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    Follow up on detaching on the past by clearing out anything that could remind you of any former unpleasant relationship experiences
    The exception to this might be if you are a widow, in which case, the benevolent vibration of grief may actually help you in attracting someone new. Get rid of any old mementos and pictures of the two of you together that remain in your physical realm. If you feel that you are still attached to the person in a spiritual way or that the relationship needs closure, write him a letter saying goodbye, thank him for any love and life lessons learned and move on.
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    Clear your social media pages of any remnants of an unpleasant past that are reminiscent of an ex
    Your Facebook, Instagram and other social media pages can keep you and anyone reading it stuck in your past. Energize your personal virtual space with positive energy by deleting old photos and conversations that remind you of upsetting situations and changing your relationship status to single. You can also use your statuses and photos on social media to express a positive attitude towards life. Instead of putting up sarcastic memes, that lower your vibration and possibly invite sarcastic or bitter men into your life, post photos of your ideals or places or things that you treasure. Put up the types of experiences that you enjoy and would like to share with another person. You should also immediately stop arguing with anyone on Facebook or Twitter as these words are very viral and send out negative messages that might make it harder for your soulmate to find you.
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    Make a list of what you have to offer the right man in a relationship and the reason why a great relationship with the perfect man will benefit everyone that you know
    It helps to actually sit there with a pen and paper and make this list. Notice that this particular list is not about what you want in a person, but a message to your higher power that you have lots to offer a potential mate. One of the secrets to aligning yourself with your higher self and God is to make sure that any gift that you are given will be never be squandered and that your happiness and love will be shared with others and future generations.
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    Make a list of everything of all of the qualities and attributes you are looking for in a potential mate and be as specific as possible
    The minimum number of qualities and attributes that are on your list should be at least ten, but the more precise and exact you are about what you want, the better. For instance, do not just write that you want a man who likes music. Write out the little details such as, "loves to go to concerts", "plays the piano and sings" or "prefers rock n' roll to experimental jazz."
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    As you write down the list, visualize what you want in great detail, and then keep the list handy so you can go through it once in the morning and once at night, to keep the information ever present in your thoughts
    Let your mind examine each item and then try to use your senses and emotions to feel as you might feel, if this new partner were actually in your life now.
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    Fake it until you make it by pretending that what you want is already happening
    Start with your attitude, and practice greeting everyone around you with the love and gratitude that you would if it was already happening. Wear the clothes that you would wear if you have a mate and groom yourself as if you were about to meet him any minute. Furnish your home as if you had a boyfriend, making sure you have everything you need there to welcome a new man into your life.
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    Replace any negative or doubtful thoughts that come up with a positive affirmation
    For instance, a thought such as, "At this rate, I will never meet a man.", should be immediately replaced by a thought such as "I have complete faith that I shall meet a man at the perfect time and in the ideal location and that God has a divine plan for me." Tell yourself that this plan, for you are higher good cannot be opposed by anyone or anything and that any disappointments that occur were meant to happen.
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    Deal with any perceived setbacks with a sense of humor and a confidence that these dates with men that do not work out are leading you closer to the man who should be with you
    It is not unusual at all for beginners who are using the Law of Attraction to attract some men who seem almost perfect at first. Sometimes you also attract upsetting situations, that force you to dump part of your past, such as an ex that won't let go of you, because your Higher Power has manifested this for your higher. These events might seem like a test of your faith. Do not be dismayed and keep visualizing the life that you really want and the situation that you really want will soon appear. Sometimes a conflict, a confrontation or big split needs to happen so that you can attract someone new in your life.
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    Wish all of the happiness that you wish for yourself also be granted to others
    This is an especially powerful way to raise your vibration and draw a new partner to you because it is a generous and fertile way of thinking that automatically raises your vibration and brings you blessings.
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    Practice an attitude of gratitude, every day, no matter what
    If you express disappointment and resentment towards the opposite sex, you are not likely to be granted the presence of another one. Every day you take a moment to feel appreciative and thankful towards the men in your life and men in general. This creates a welcoming vibration and also helps to diminish any disappointments you may be experiencing in your day-to-day life. It also can help to keep a gratitude journal, in which you write down five things you are grateful for in life in general every morning and another five things you are grateful for at night.
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    Be detached from the outcome and your expectations of how you might meet someone
    Many people have a kind of subconscious script in their mind that they rehearse and an expectation of how this person they are trying to manifest should arrive in their life. You can specify what you want to happen but let God or your Higher Power take care of how and when it happens.
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Tips and Tricks

Writing using a pen is best.

  • When making any lists, hand write them as this is a physical way of connecting your spirit (your thoughts) to the physical world (the writing that flows out of your hand)
  • Notice that whatever you attach a lot of effort or drama to will likely come to fruition, so try not to attach anxiety to your wishes
  • Keep in mind that the Law of Attraction can be a bit tricky when it comes to how you phrase your wishes, which is why you always want to be very precise with your language when asking for want you want and never state what you don't want
  • Practicing the law of attraction only part of the time may get you only part of what you want or nothing at all
  • One of the tenets of the Law of Attraction is that one positive thought wipes out a thousand negative thoughts and helps bring your perfect mate to you
  • Although you may have heard of a Treasure Map, where you create a collage to create a picture of what you want, it may be limiting in the case of attracting human beings with certain qualities

If you have problems with any of the steps in this article, please ask a question for more help, or post in the comments section below.


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