Talk:Cope with a military relationship
At 22:53, 11 May 2017
rachel chmielewski said:
Hi , my fiancé of almost 9 months just left on Tuesday May 9th to go to Texas for his airforce basic training . It has been really rough on me these past couple days as him going away will be the longest we've ever been separated. The longest I've been away from him was for a weekend. He will be gone for 6 months . 3 months in training and 3 months n AIT. I feel very lonely and I miss him VERY much. I feel no motivation to do anything and I'm not sure what to do with my time and how to handle this. I've been distant with people since he's left and just kind of lock myself in my room and cry myself to sleep. He called me yesterday to give me his address and since he's left I've been writing letters everyday . I just miss his voice and his presence so much. And time feels very slow. If anyone could give me any advice on what to do and how to handle my sadness would be great ! I'm also 5 months pregnant and I have had no appetite to eat since he's left ! Idek what to do about that because anytime I've come near food I feel nauseous and I've been going each day eating atleast once a day . And I know that's not good for my baby. Does anyone have any advice on what I can do about my appetite ? And how to get it to come back ?