Get a Man to Put More Effort Into a Relationship

My boyfriend isn't putting in enough effort and everything seems to be on his terms?

Me and my boyfriend have been together for about 4 months and recently something seems to feel off. I go to uni an hour and a half away from him but visit every weekend. 9/10 times I stay at his house and when I ask if we can stay at my house he always makes excuses or says he gets bored at my house even though I stay at his all the time and all he does is go on his Xbox. Whenever he wants to do something or go somewhere he always convinces me but when I try to convince him he just says no. And whenever I want space from him I have to go home because I can't go and see friends because they are also his friends and if I say I'm going to see them he will want to come with and I feel bad saying he can't come. I would normally go and see my cousin but he hangs out with her more than I do now :/ it feels like I see him too much and I'm always putting in the effort but I'm not sure how to fix it

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