Make a Long Distance Relationship Work for You

6 Parts:

Why People Have Long Distance Relationships

Advantages of Having a Long Distance Relationship

How You Can Make a Long Distance Relationship Work

Tips

Questions and Answers

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They say life finds a way...well, so does love. It overlooks space, time, sexual orientation, beliefs, looks, health, age, culture, economic status, and, of course, distance. You'll probably be amazed at how different people end up having unique relationships, even if they are many miles apart. Couples who are successful in a long distance relationship are impressive because their levels of trust, love and hard work are double or even triple that required by a more traditional relationship. They stand strong together, even though there are many temptations that hover over them or surround them. Long distance relationships are not for everyone. It takes a lot of effort and a lot of heart to keep the connection strong. If you are currently in this type of relationship, then you should pause and reflect to see if you're doing things right or if there is something more you could bring to the table of love.

Many people these days resort to having long distance relationships for several reasons.

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   They don't have the time to go out and mingle with the "single and available" crowd where they are

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   There are professionals who spend their waking hours in front of the computer. That is why they find it convenient to search for love online. #They are already in a relationship, and have to work or study in a different city, state, or country. This situation is common for college students and young professionals who need to establish themselves first.

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   Others may find themselves in long distance relationships because they have given up finding love within their own circles or locality

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   Some have this type of relationship just may want to try something different. It can be a bit exciting to get to know and love a person miles away from you.

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   What started out as an online friendship might develop into stronger feelings, and suddenly, you find yourself in a long distance relationship.

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Admittedly, some relationships whose team players are always around each other have their difficult moments. For those engaged in long distance relationships, it can be beneficial for you and your partner. Below are some of the advantages of having a long distance relationship.

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   You can always spend time with your friends

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   Conventional relationships often leave loyal friends on the sidelines or in the back seat much of the time. If you're always with your partner, you have to sacrifice special gatherings with friends. With long distance relationships, you can spend time with your friends without hearing your partner complaining about it.

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   Your and you partner have varied experiences

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   You won't have to worry about your partner telling you that you should not do this just because he or she is not with you. You won't even have to feel like you're abandoning your partner at all. If you have different activities to do, then you have more things to talk about.

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   No one is taken for granted

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   You only know how valuable your partner is when you're apart from each other. It's a kind of wake-up call when you're in a long distance relationship because it constantly reminds you of how important that person is in your life.

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   Conversations are more valued

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   You may have noticed, conventional couples that are always together sometimes run out of things to say. They may be dining in a restaurant, quietly eating with little to say to one another. Often, many of them just watch TV or simply don't talk. If you are in a long distance relationship, you value every opportunity to talk with each other. You also learn how to listen to your partner better.

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   You gain independence

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   Independence is a good thing for couples in long distance relationships. Even from a distance, your partner can root for you and support you emotionally so that you can do what you do more efficiently. In turn, you gain more confidence in yourself and in what you do. This is a good way of accomplishing your goals individually so that you could reap the results together someday.

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   You don't get very choosy with your dates

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   Just being together is enough when you have a long distance relationship. It doesn't really matter if you just decide to hang out at home or spend a few days somewhere special. Going out every day is not practical anymore and it tends to become a boring routine over time.

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   Both of you have your physical personal space

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   Just being alone is something that every couple requires. Spending time alone on your basic activities, seeing old friends, spending time with your family or even reading a good book is necessary for a healthy relationship. Sometimes, you just have to recuperate by yourself by doing things alone such as going to the spa, having a facial, or taking a class. Private time helps you to unwind and to relax and allows you to enjoy the time that you do have together much more.

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Like any other relationship, long distance relationships can work. All you have to do is put extra effort into it, as well as a lot of love. Below are some pointers on how you can make your long distance relationship work:

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   Speak freely about how you feel

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   It is vital for both of you to express how you feel, especially since you cannot hold each other all the time. If you feel that something is bothering you, don't be afraid to let your partner know about it. It is important to iron out misunderstandings and to establish a clear pathway for your communication as a couple. It doesn't matter if you're ranting about a game or raving about a new dress you bought. Just let your partner know that he or she is significant enough to know everything that you think about, or ultimately feel.
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