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Legally Monitor your Children's Text Messages and Emails from a Cellphone. Works for your Girlfriend or Boyfriend with Permission.

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Can I legally monitor my children's online activities such as text messages, emails, chats and browsing history? Also is it legal to monitor my spouse's chats/activities?

YES IT IS YOUR RESPONSIBILITY TO MONITOR YOUR CHILDREN'S ONLINE ACTIVITIES. In fact, given the adult content available on the internet today it would irresponsible not to spy on your children's online activities. As a legal guardian you have full permission and responsibility to do so. What is not legal in many jurisdictions is to spy on your girlfriend or boyfriend unless you have their consent to monitor their online activities. A good example of this would be a situation where a spouse has cheated and has given permission to his/her partner, as part of a marriage restoration effort, to monitor online activities such at texts and social media to ensure they don't slip back into their cheating behaviour.

How can I track my girlfriend's phone texts and listen to calls remotely?

She is cheating, and I want to find out with who. Can you help me?

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Unless your girlfriend gives you permission to view her device, there is nothing you can do legally as far as physically seeing messages and calls. In many jurisdictions installing a spy app on her phone would be illegal. There are other options worth trying, such as installing a home router that has detailed internet usage logs. This is NOT illegal since it is a shared resource. An old school equivalent would be sharing a mailbox. It is not illegal for you to see what mail arrives and who it is from. This would allow you to see the internet traffic of every device that connects to your network. Another option is to hire a private investigator.

I suspect my friend has some type of tracker on her phone, how can I prove it?

Every time I talk to my friend or get a text from her, I receive anonymous calls from fake numbers? When I answer, the call hangs up. If I call back the number, it shows not a valid number. How is this possible?

It is not a monitoring app on her phone that would do this. You should actually look at your phone to make sure that something is not there. You also should contact your service provider and inquire why you are getting anonymous calls each time you speak with one specific person. There are ways to block anonymous calls in phone settings, so see if your phone has that option. You also want to stop answering those phone calls. Know if Someone Is Spying on My Phone is a VisiHow article that you and your friend should read just to be on the safe side.

How can I know where she is when she doesn't answer my call or replies to my messages, I have only her number?

How can I track where she is when she doesn't answer my calls when I only have an iPhone 5, her number, her BBM pins, her iCloud password?. I have tried: Haven't tried anything, I have no idea where to begin and what software should I have?. I think it was caused by: She unfriended me from her path because she was angry with me and that makes me worried

She unfriended you and walked away. It is not necessarily a good idea to "stalk" her this fashion because if you get caught you could legally be in trouble. A charge and conviction of harassment or stalking can ruin and future job prospects that run a background check. In the US most companies now run background checks even for working in a fast food location so consider what you are doing and how it will impact your life.

More questions and answers on this topic can be found here: Can I put a free, invisible app on my boyfriend's phone from my phone that will let me read his texts

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Spy On Your Boyfriend, Girlfriend or Children's Text Messages and Emails from a Cellphone
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I have bought another cell monitoring app, worked for a couple of days then no good. It's hard to get her phone she doesn't let it go?

She is always texting and staying late at work lately

In your particular situation, a private investigator might be a more reliable method. A good investigator would know quickly if she was staying late at work or being dishonest about her whereabouts.

I am being told my girlfriend is cheating on me and she denies it. I need a free app or website that will let me see her texts. What are some free apps that I don't have to pay for to use?

I am being told my girlfriend is cheating on me and she denies it. I need a free app or website that will let me see her texts

We do not recommend installing any kind of tracking app unless it's for parents watching out for their kids. If you're serious about the truth, a "free app" won't help. Some other methods mentioned on this page are worth exploring; private investigation services, network monitoring tools (to view internet traffic and sites visited), or looking through the phone yourself while having permitted access to it.

What type of app can I use for free to get inside my girlfriend's cell to look and see what kind of pics she has and videos?

I'm wondering if there are any free apps I can get to monitor my girlfriend's cell phone and computer to see what she has in it that she might be lying to me telling me she doesn't have any. I have tried: Nothing I'm trying to find a free app to download so I'm able to get inside both her cellphone and desktop if she has one. I think it was caused by: I think she doesn't want me to know if she has any

There are no free apps that can do this. On her PC you could install a keylogger program however, that would be illegal without her consent. For the cell phone, she'll have to let you physically look at it yourself. Assuming is very different from knowing absolutely that she does not want to show you her pictures. You will not know unless you ask to see her phone and look at her pics and videos. If she denies you the opportunity, it still does not unequivocally mean that she is cheating. There are several options listed on this page that might be helpful.

My girlfriend is talking to another fellow more than talking to me, I want to know what she is speaking about, without her knowledge, how?

I want to know with whom my lover is speaking without her knowledge

Listening in on someone else's phone calls is without their knowledge or consent is illegal in almost all cases. Parents monitoring their children's calls is, of course, an exception. If your girlfriend is talking to another guy more than you, talk about it with her. See how she reacts, and what she has to say.

I got a woman that I love, she is cheating on me. I would do anything for her, I never cheated on her. I work hard every day to make things work. She runs over me, it breaks my heart I can't do it anymore. I'm dying from inside because I love her so much?

I got a woman that I love, she is cheating on me. I would do anything for her, I never cheated on her. I work hard every day to make things work. She runs over me, it breaks my heart I can't do it anymore. I'm dying from inside because I love her so much

I just wanted to say I really do understand your pain and I could type the exact same thing. I just want to say I feel your pain and I too hurt a lot because of my love for my girl and believe if I can know if she friends or more with the ex in prison it would help my decision which by no means will make it less painless but I'm 47 and don't have a lot of time left for games and just need to know the same as you I'm nobody and don't work here I'm just another man in love and in pain and want answers and I personally think it should BE OK if it's justified and it's detrimental to a person's well being and not just to someone with trust issues or paranoid or jealous or controlling people but for us that are truly in love and just want the truth for once and either get on with the pain of watching the one you love go away in the distance or finally be able to let go and just love again without that lingering doubt of if it's mutual or just a lie ...I hope you are one of the good guys like me and you find your answers and they are all good and you can go on feeling the hardest thing to find ..true mutual love, which we all deserve a chance to have and keep and not worry about someone silently seeking in and manipulating our lover's mind....good luck!

The above poster is right that this is such a painful time to suspect cheating and not be able to pinpoint why the other person would cheat. If you are doing everything you can and she is unwilling to stop then she is not the right person for you. Move Forward After Infidelity is a VisiHow article you should read to gain more coping skills.

How can I be sure that she isn't texting some else besides family?

I was in a marriage with another woman and had an affair with the woman I am currently with. She sleeps with this phone and is constantly with it at late periods during the night. I try not to be suspicious but it seems peculiar.

You cheated on your first wife with this woman and you have trust issues because of your past behavior. Some people always have their phone in proximity. Is she on social media or playing a game on her phone? The only way for you to get past this is to ask her if she is happy in this relationship. Then explain that you are dealing with a trust issue that you do not want to have. Be honest with her before this relationship is destroyed.

Compatibility - Hi please advice if this is compatible to Nokia Lumia 1520 and what is the process for download?

Hi please advice if this is compatible with Nokia Lumia 1520 and what is the process for download. I have tried: Nothing. I think it was caused by: N/A

Any application worth installing will list the devices that it's compatible with. Check the FAQ page for the program you're interested in for compatibility answers.

I want to know if my lady is messing around?

I want to know if my lady is messing around

There are several signs of cheating and here are some of them:

Suspicion of cheating can eat away at our trust for our spouse until the trust is completely destroyed. If your partner has several of the signs from the list of articles, you can hire a private investigator for proof or if the signs are overwhelming it is time to have a discussion with her and either end the relationship or have her agree to stop and work on your relationship. It is completely up to you whether you are willing to stay and completely up to her on whether she will stop so you both have to be in agreement for the relationship to work.

I want to know where she goes in the morning I just want to know?

What do I do, I would like to know what she's doing

The easiest thing to do is simply ask her where she is going. You could attempt to follow her one day but this is something that could lead to additional problems.

If you have problems with any of the steps in this article, please ask a question for more help, or post in the comments section below.

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