Have A Long And Lasting Relationship
Edited by Rose B, Charmed, Adrian Penaflor, Ephraim and 5 others
Keeping your relationship is a responsibility to be shared by both parties. It shouldn't be left at the hands of the other person.
Instructions
Before the relationship
In order to have a lasting relationship with someone then there are a few steps that should be taken before getting into a relationship with the person at this time. A lasting relationship comprises of certain things that need to be built before jumping into the relationship. In order to build a lasting relationship you will need to build the relationship of concrete rather than sticks. Below are a number of things that you will need to do in order to build a lasting relationship in the future.
- 1This will allow you to get to know your partner better than in a relationship for there will be no secrets or shame about your partners past or current situation. When people jump into a relationship a lot of things are withheld in order to make it certain that the both of you will get to know each other perfectly.Build a friendship with that person before getting right into a relationship with the other person at that time.
- 2This means you click with each other with regards to character. When you are cold, she is hot. When you are hot, she is cold. You complement each other. The other one might be shy, but you push her up, motivate her, until she gets out of her shell, because you are the more outgoing one. Long before you had a romantic relationship wherein sometimes both parties are not really themselves because they are in the courtship stage (if you did not start out as best friends), you did not hold back from each other and let your real self come out because you had nothing to lose because anyway, you were not courting each other. You know each other, intestines, lungs, and all, before you plunged into a romantic relationship.A long lasting relationship has a stable foundation when you start out together as best friends.
- 3Whether or not you are telling them deep secrets or any little thing understand that it is in fact helping to build a sense of trust and comfortable speaking among each other.Build the relationship while telling each other everything about yourselves rather than holding things back from one another.
- 4If they are your friend and you are wishing to take things further ensure that you break up with your partner first or Hi, will see that you are capable of cheating on them also in a relationship. This is a common mistake that people make in a relationship with their partner and can cause permanent damage in the relationship.As a friend with the person ensure that you do not cheat when in another relationship at the time.
- 5It does not matter exactly what you do in the relationship as long as it can create a memory or take up time in the friendship.Go out with your friend and do things fun to develop different memories with your friends in order to help to create a routine or memory that you can build on in the future.
What to do with your partner (in a boyfriend/girlfriend relationship)
Now that you have pushed things into a relationship or are already in a relationship then it is time now for you to do things to help the relationship. There are a number of things that you can do to help create a long lasting relationship with your partner and below are a number of things you can do to help out in this situation.
- 1Cheating will hurt your partner at the time and will change their view about the relationship.To begin in the relationship do not cheat or withhold information from your partner at the time of the relationship for this can in fact hurt everything that will occur in future.
Tips Tricks & Warnings
- Do not be jealous.
- Do not nag.
- Be sensitive.
- Be supportive.
- Know what you want.
- Respect.
If you have problems with any of the steps in this article, please ask a question for more help, or post in the comments section below.