Get a Woman to Fall in Love with You in Just One Day
Edited by Donna, Eng
Ways to Get A Woman to Fall In Love With You In Just One Day
There are certain circumstances that dictate that you have only about 24 hours to get a woman to fall in love with you. Usually, you have met her before once or twice or online and are attending some kind of event together, (such as a wedding or high school reunion) or perhaps she is an old-flame or someone who was nearly your girlfriend at one time. It could be that you only know her by reputation or by looking at her social media or dating site information or that you have actually made a date with her after only having an online texting relationship for some months. Whatever the situation may be, you know you only have this one window of opportunity to capture her heart and that you have to make it count.
Here are some ways to get a woman to fall in love with you in just a day, whether you have not met at all, have been courting each other online or have been invited to an event where you can spend some time together.
- 1Do some research to find out everything you can about her, including her interests, family, children, tastes in fashion and décor, former relationships, career choices, likes and dislikes. The reason this is necessary is because you want to find points of commonality and ways to flatter her or show that you might be compatible with her once you do enter into a conversation. You can find out quite a bit by Googling her name online and also looking at social media pages such as Facebook or Instagram. Make notes and decide which things you are going to compliment her about in advance. You can also get an idea of what topics to avoid, or instance, if she is against guns, you may not want to mention the fact that you are a hunter.Advertisement
- 2If you know what event you are attending, call the organizer and try to have the two of you seated next to each other. This will make it a lot easier for you to get to know each other. If it is a planned meeting, such as the first meeting between online long-distance friends who are looking for love, then call the restaurant you are meeting at and ask for the most private table, so that the two of you have a chance to share quiet talks with each other.Advertisement
- 3Make sure you are well groomed and dressed appropriately for the occasion. Be as well dressed as you can possibly can be, without looking like you specifically gussied yourself up to impress her. Although getting her to fall for you fast, is not completely about your appearance, being as physically attractive is going to help her give a glance or two your way. Be sure you are "manscaped" everywhere that is necessary and that you have a flattering haircut. Make sure that your hands are clean and even manicured and that you smell clean.
- 4If you suspect that you might be a bit shorter than her, then wear shoes that have a bit of a heel to them. It is a brutal fact of life that most women are attracted to men who are at least their height. Lifts are inserts that can be inserted into shoes to make you look a bit taller and you can also consider wearing a boot, rather than a shoe, as they usually have a slightly higher heel than a typical male shoe.
- 5Wear an aftershave with a subtle manly scent and avoid heavily scented deodorant. If you smell too strong, it actually pushes some women away, just simply because the odor of some anti-perspirants can be overwhelming. Strongly scented anti-perspirants are also associated with males who are using it to cover up the fact that they have not had a shower. Scents that attract women include lime, peppermint, vanilla, sandalwood, leather tobacco, chocolate and musk.
- 6Establish eye contact with her as soon as you enter the event, even before one word is said and then make a beeline to talk to her. This is easiest if you already know each other a little bit. In this case, the eye contact serves to make the two o you a kind of wordless team that are surviving together in a particular social context. If you do not know her, make the eye contact and then make up some kind of excuse to cross the room and talk to her. One way to do this is to ask her to help you in some way. Ask for assistance with tying your necktie, choosing a wine or the fastest way to the bar. While she is answering your question be sure to hold her gaze for as long as possible, or at least a full five seconds, as this is a great way to bond with a person that you barely know at all. If you have met before, making steady eye contact is also a way to reinforce the bond that you already do have.
- 7As soon as you are at the event where you are to meet, introduce yourself immediately (if she does not know who you are) and always be within arm's length. Don't get too close all of the time, or you could come off as being obsessive or a stalker. You are not trying to be too dominant or possessive here, you are only trying to expose her to you as much as possible during the short period of time that you do have together.
- 8Open any conversation that you have with a compliment. This compliment should be the result of your online research and should be about her achievements. Stay away from making direct observations about her anatomy, such as, "You really do have a great figure." Instead, compliment her on the style or color or her dress. You may, however, compliment her on her choice of perfume.
- 9Mirror her body language, which she will consciously or subconsciously interpret as point of compatibility. If she puts her hand on her chin, you do too. If she crosses her arms, so do you. This psychologically reinforces the idea that you react to the world in the same way and sends the subtle message that you should be partners.
- 10Make the conversation about her interests, her life and her accomplishments and be sure to emphasize any points of similarity. This will make it appear to her like you are very compatible, and maybe even a soul mate, as the two of you apparently have so much in common. However, most of what you will be discussing with her will be based on the online research that you have done the Step 1 of this article.
- 11Let him know that you think she is the most intelligent, accomplished and most attractive woman in the room in some way. Things that women like to be admired for include their brains, a unique talent, a recent promotion or reward and also their appearance. You may be able to reference this because you have researched her history online.
- 12Laugh at her stories and jokes, even if you don't think she is that funny. Not only will she this as a point of compatibility between the two of you, because you get her sense of humor, it also helps portray you as a kind, supportive male who might make a great mate.
- 13Tell her that you love it when she does something that is very unique. This could be something quite simple such as "I love the way you roll your R's when you speak.", or "I love the way you know which glass should go with which wine." This makes her feel that you really do appreciate her for who she is and helps establish familiarity with her.
- 14After three or four hours together have passed, do something a little bit romantic that indicates your admiration of her. If you are at a party, you can go outside and pick a flower and hand it to her or you can ask a musician at a bar to play a special song that might be meaningful to her. She will feel flattered by all of the attention that you are showing her.
- 15Make yourself of service to her in some way. Be as attentive to her as a butler, while at the same time maintaining some distance. Offer to do him a favor, such as carry her wine glass for her while she is at the buffet or watch her purse for her while she is dancing. The more you can do for her, the more she will start seeing you as a domestically minded useful male that make a good mate.
- 16If you have a special talent or skill that you think might impress her, now is the time to show it off. If you are amazing at making a speech, then stand up before the gathering at the event and make one. If you are an excellent singer, and there is a karaoke machine, then show off your vocal talents. This will make him feel like she has discovered someone special.
- 17Plan a quick little escape away from the main event, just the two of you, even if it is just for an hour or two. If you have the entire day to spend together, that's even better. The idea is to share an activity that gets your adrenalin going, as humans also feel adrenalin when they are sexually aroused. Although a walk in the woods will do, it is a really great idea to try and sneak her off to a local amusement park or horror movie. If she is athletic, you might be able to suggest a bike ride or rock climbing. Most women enjoy a quick swim together, but only do this if your physique is in peak shape.
- 18After about four hours in her company has passed, create a sense of sexual anticipation about what could happen later when you are alone with each other. Say something like, "If didn't have to be at this high school reunion, I would whisk you away to a remote island somewhere so we could watch the falling stars."
- 19Be as casual, low-maintenance and easy-going as possible when you are with her. Do not be moody, even if you are not feeling that great or if things are not going quite your way. Women find sick or complaining men to be high-maintenance. Even if your complaint is legitimate, and is about something like a plane that is four hours late, do not show complaining or self-pity as women associate this type of behavior with controlling, dependent or high-maintenance men.
- 20During your time together let him make all of the choices and decisions. This tells the woman that you trust and respect her. Let her choose the restaurant, order from the menu and select the wine. This is a subtle way of empowering her that acts like an aphrodisiac. When you let her lead, it also makes her feel like you should be a part of her life team.
- 21If she begins to talk to you, be sure to listen to every single word she says. It is best for you to let her do all of the talking and respond by virtually repeating most things she says. This is crucial because what women mostly look for in a mate is a man who will listen to her and truly hear her.
- 22Mind your manners in every way and never say a sexist word about any woman in the room. Open the door for her, pull out her chair at the table and hang your coat for her. Don't have any expectations of her to do the same for you. When she sees you are civilized and courteous and that you also have respect for her as well as other women, her heart will warm towards you.
- 23Come to her rescue in some way during your encounter. If she drops her fork, get her a new one. Go to the buffet and get her a piece of cake, without asking. If she mentions anything about going to an event in town, look it up on Google and give her all of the answers before she has a chance to do it yourself. The reason you are doing this is to show her how considerate you are and also that you can be a great provider. Be the man who also has all of the answers for her, so that she psychologically sees you as a solution in her life.
- 24Be sure to touch her lightly, every now and then without being too sexual. These touches should be in non-intimate places, such as the small of her back, her shoulder or knee, but your touch should linger on the spot just a little bit longer than you need to. Women particularly love it when men touch the small of their back as it makes her feel owned and like you are protecting her.
- 25As a general rule, don't text her or call her while you are at the same event or in the same room, unless it is to tell a joke. You can use a text or emoticon to make her laugh, especially if the event is boring or warrants a bit of a comment. However, you must never use a text to ask her where she is or when she is coming back to talk to you as that makes you appear needy or anxious. You can also text her to directly ask her if she would like to "get out of here."
- 26After about six hours have passed, create romantic anticipation the two of you in a situation where your closeness could lead to a kiss or a physical contact, but doesn't. You could offer to remove a bit of food from her face with your napkin, or grab onto her ankle to steady yourself to pick up something she dropped. You can also lean in a bit closer to her as you are pouring her a glass of wine, making her wonder if you are actually going to kiss her.
- 27When it feels right to you, gently clasp her hand, and without saying a word, simply hold it in yours. This is the moment of truth, because if she likes you, she will not let your hand go. Most women, unless they are extremely shy, will just agree to this. You can usually try this after six or so hours of knowing her. Be aware too that if she draws her hand away the first time, that it just might be a bit of a shocked reaction to how fast things are going. Simply wait two or three hours, and then trying holding her hand a second time. If you get the same reaction, or even a bit of a wave away or a soft slap, then she is definitely not interested in you.
- 28Create a situation that makes it necessary for you to spend the night with her. Pretend that you travel plans or hotel reservation has fallen through and that you do not have anywhere else to stay. You can also drive her home, and once invited in, never leave. Another tactic would be to let her drive you home or take you to her hotel and then create a reason to stay over.
- 29If you do manage to spend a night together, suggest that you binge on time spent together for as long as you can. Ideally, you should spend all of the next day and night together as well. The purpose behind doing this is to elevate a one-night stand to a relationship by bonding extremely with her in a short period of time.
- 30Once a bit of intimacy is established, offer to take her on a shopping spree. This does not have to be about clothes, you can also offer to buy her supplies for a hobby or prepare for a career advancement in some way. Tell her that you are doing this, because you believe in her, and you will win her heart.
Tips and Tricks
- Never use a compliment that sounds backhanded or a bit sarcastic as in, "Wow, how did you manage to become a CEO when you really don't have all of the qualifications!"
- Never ever, say anything sexist, even as a joke, about a woman who you are trying to attract, as many women use that as a measure as how you will treat her once the bloom of first attraction has worn off
- Never ever, criticize a woman that you are hoping to attract as a paternal or controlling attitude is a turn off for most of them
- Never let on that you did a bit of research about her before your encounter before meeting or she might see you as some kind of stalker
- Pay attention to any indications that she has no interest in, as in completely avoiding you or pushing you away
- If she tells you that she is married or has a boyfriend, then do not persist in trying to get her attention unless you really want to go through the pain of being in a love triangle
- If she, at any point, tells you to back off or that he is not interested, then you can believe her, she is not playing hard-to-get
Categories : Relationships
Recent edits by: Donna