Get a Man to Fall in Love with You in a Day
Edited by Donna, Eng, Alma
Sometimes you know that a certain man might be the right one for you but you may only have time to meet him in person for just one day. This is often the case if you are in an online long distance relationship and are just checking him out while you are in town. It could be that you have had your eye on this person for a while, are meeting him at a wedding or a party, and only have so many hours to make a great impression and get his attention.
Some Ways to Get a Man to Fall in Love With You in a Day
Whether you do not know each other at all, just know each other a little or are in the early stages of dating.
- 1Find out everything that you can, about the man, by doing some online research about his interests, likes, and dislikes. You can find out quite a bit by Googling his name online, being sure to also look at images of him enjoying any hobbies. You can also find out a lot about a person by looking at his Facebook page, Google Plus page, and Twitter. Hopefully, you already know each other to some extent online, but if not, you can always ask to be added or friended or on Facebook follow the individual on social media to find out more about his life. This is crucial because later when you do meet, you are going to demonstrate your compatibility by talking about his interests or engaging in them with him to create a bond.Advertisement
- 2Make sure you are well groomed and looking the best that you possibly can. Although falling in love is not completely about your looks, being as physically attractive to your partner helps. Get a facial haircut that suits you and shave your legs. Make sure your eyebrows are plucked and that they frame your face in a flattering symmetrical manner. Get a good sure your nails are shorter and polished, as many men do not like longer nails that are like claws, as they fear being scratched.Advertisement
- 3Wear tighter clothing that shows off a bit of your figure. Before you put on the clothing that shows off your body, remember that there is a fine line between looking slutty and sexy. You want to wear clothes that are a bit lower cut than usual and that are a bit tighter. Choose clothing that shows off your greatest assets. For instance, if your rear-end is sexy, wear a tighter skirt or jeans. If you have beautiful legs, wear nylons to show them off. If your cleavage is your best asset, then wear a low cut top. However, at all times be mindful of where you are meeting him. For example, if you are meeting him at a convention or business situation, you do not want to dress in a way that is too provocative, or he and others simply will not take you seriously.
- 4Wear the highest heels that you can, without hindering your walk. Men are attracted to long, lithe figure and women who have a bit of height. However, do not overdo this as wearing heels that are too high can make your figure seem out of proportion. In addition, if you only have a day to make him fall in love with you, you want to make sure that you can sneak away together for a walk or an adventure without experiencing issues with your feet later.
- 5Make sure you are wearing a bright red lipstick and a little bit of rouge to give your face a slightly flushed, but natural look. Evolutionary biologists say that males are attracted to flush looking skin because it is what a woman's complexion looks like when she is having good sex. Apply a bit of gloss to your lips so that your look is not too hard-edged.
- 6Do not wear too much make-up. If you want to get the attention of a man fast, you do not want to be wearing too much foundation and eye shadow. A lot of make-up ages many women and many contemporary men associate the need to cover up your complexion with makeup to be evidence of aging. Furthermore, wearing too much make-up distances people from you, mostly because the man may fear to mess it up or even not appreciate the smell of it.
- 7Make sure that your skin has a bit of a natural glow to it. You want to appear as fresh, youthful and attractive as possible. To do this, moisturize your entire face and then apply a cream-based moisturizer that just has a bit of a pink tint to it. Over this apply some blush to the apples of your cheeks and then a bit of gleaming white highlighter to your cheekbones, brow bone and bridge of the nose. To finish the look, dust a bit of powder, with a sparkle to it, to give your face a dewy glow. An affordable choice for a sparkly powder is Diamond Powder
- 8Make sure you are wearing eyeliner and mascara, but not a lot of eye shadow. Men are attracted to women with longer eyelashes because longer lashes denote youth. Use black mascara with just a bit of liner. The eyeliner should be simple and not extend out into cat wings as anything even a bit extreme might put him off from getting to know you better because what looks fashionable to women sometimes seems freaky or extreme to men. Avoid wearing darker eye shadows as that can make you tired. A bit of white, gold or pink just on the eyelid can help you look contemporary, sexy and wide-awake.
- 9Wear a light signature scent, but not too much of it. You want him to remember you by smell later. Scents that work well to attract men include vanilla, cinnamon, lavender, orange, rose, sandalwood, and lily-of-the-valley. A seductive trick to keep you on his mind is to leave an object that has a bit of your scent on it with him after you leave. This could be just a hankie or a scarf that has your perfume on it. This is especially effective if you tuck it into a place where he may not find it for a while, such as between his couch cushions.
- 10Introduce yourself immediately (if he does not know who you are) and don't leave his side. You are not trying to be clingy here, you are only trying to make as much as you can of the short opportunity that you do have to be together. This allows him to get to know you as well as possible, even if you do only have a day. It also prevents any competition from getting in the way and distracting him from your plan to get him to fall in love with you.
- 11When you do meet, make the conversation about his interests. Hopefully, you will have done your online research earlier, as advised in the first step of this article, and know what to talk about with him. This will make it appear to him like you are very compatible, and maybe even a soul mate, as the two of you have so many interests in common.
- 12Establish eye contact with him early on and make as much eye contact with him as possible. One way to do this is to create an excuse to talk to him because he must help you in some way. While he is helping you with your query or problem, be sure to stare deep into his eyes for as long as possible. Studies show that if you can make eye contact for two minutes straight, the two of you will immediately bond.
- 13Let him know that you think he is a hero in some way. Things that men like to be admired for include a unique skill, an ability to protect or provide, an ability to rescue a situation or someone, a sense of calm during an emergency and problem-solving. You may be able to reference this from knowing him a little from work or another context or because you did research his interests a bit online.
- 14Tell him that you love it when he does a particular thing. This could be something quite simple such as, "I love the way you speak to every pet dog we meet.", or "I love how kind you are to the serving staff." This type of flattery goes a long way to making him feel that you might be an attentive and appreciative partner.
- 15Make yourself of service to him in some way. Offer to do him a favor, such as tie his tie correctly or offer to carry his photo equipment. The more you can do for him, the more of a reason he will have to keep him close to you all day. Also, being of service to him makes you seem like a nurturing female who might make a good mate.
- 16If you have a special talent or skill that you think might impress him, now is the time to show it off. If you are an award-winning poet, then come up with a poem on the spot. If you are a great musician, then sit down and play the piano. This will make him feel like he has found someone special.
- 17Plan a quick adventurous escape away from the crowd, just the two of you, even if it is just for an hour or two. If you have the entire day together, that is even better. The idea is to do activities together that get your adrenalin pumping, as the feeling of the adrenaline rush is similar to feelings of sexual arousal. A walk through a nearby woods, a bicycle ride, swimming together, a trip to a scary movie or even a visit to a bar with wild dancers or comedian can be exciting enough to start the bonding process.
- 18When you are alone with him, drop a little hint about what might happen, if the two of you were alone sexually. Say something like, "If we didn't have to go to this wedding today, I would love to spend the entire day, skiing with you."
- 19Be easy-going and easy to get along with during your short time with him. Men do not like women who are fussy or high-maintenance. If you have any physical complaints, now is not the time to mention them. Men find sick or complaining women to be annoying and unattractive. Even if your complaint is legitimate, save it for another time, after he has gotten to know you better, so that he has a perception of you as a low-maintenance girlfriend.
- 20Let him make you smile. Men love it when they make a woman smile because it makes them feel like they are a good person. Laugh at his jokes, even if you do not think they are that funny.
- 21If he catches you looking at him, give him a bit of a wink and a smile. This gives him the message that the two of you are in this together, no matter what, and that you are part of his team.
- 22Mirror his movements. During any conversation, mimic his body movements. If he puts his hand on his chin, then you do the same. This psychologically works to make him perceive you as being mates or partners who react to the world in the same way.
- 23During your meeting or time together let him make all of the decisions and choosing and use the words "I trust you" a lot. This is one time when you need to ask him to order for you from the menu. A man who feels trusted by a woman feels empowered by her and that is a great psychological aphrodisiac because it means that you are interested in his taste and want to experience what he experiences. It also makes him feel like you should be part of his team.
- 24Drop some kind of hint that you enjoy a little recreational sex. Do not offer the sex, but do things like stop to admire a mannequin wearing lingerie or make a reference to a favorite love scene in a movie. You could also talk about romantic places or great places to make out. Make the references a little wild and maybe wonder out loud what it might be like to do it as the top of a Ferris wheel or overnight on a train. This makes you sound like an innovative and exciting lover.
- 25Be sure to touch him, casually and a lot. These little touches should be a bit "accidentally-on-purpose" making him wonder if they are sexual. You can graze him with the back of your hand, give him a pat on the hand or arm or just brush him with your body as you move past him. Men also love it when you brush him off a bit as if he has dust on his shoulders. If he lets you get very close, you can try to fix his hair or tie. He will find this little dance of proposed intimacy to be intriguing, and this will have him thinking about you later.
- 26Put the two of you in a situation of physical proximity, where you almost kiss him, but you do not. You can ask him to lean over and help you with something or you can get your face next to his by offering to help him. As this happens lean in a bit closer than you should as if you were thinking of a kiss, and then pull away. This will have him wondering about whether or not he should have pulled you to him all night.
- 27Rev up the intimacy by pretending to fall asleep on his shoulder. This is easily done if you are traveling together on a plane or train or at a movie or presentation. Most men are touched when you do this as it awakens their natural protective instincts and makes them feel like you trust them.
- 28If you do manage to end up in bed together, suggest that you spend all of the next day and night together. Lounging together in bed for a full day or so elevates a one-night stand to being a bit more of a relationship.
Tips and Tricks
- Don't wear all black as that can look quite frumpy or stuck in the nineties; instead wear clothing that has a touch of pink, yellow or red to it as it shows that you have a bit of humor.
- Never ever, criticize a man while you are with him, no matter how much you disagree, as that is a real turn-off for most males, who feel the need to be dominant in a relationship
- Never let on that he is some kind of project of yours, or he will see you as manipulative and likely abandon the connection, as most men do not like to feel controlled
- Pay attention to any indications that he is not interested, as in completely avoiding you or pushing you away
- Only try to make him jealous by putting yourself in the proximity of another man if you feel you are losing him completely, and if he does have feelings for you, then he will compete with that person
- If he, at any point, tells you he is not interested, then you can believe him; he is not playing hard-to-get
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