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Can you check on a cheating spouse

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How do I find out if he is signed up for online dating sites?

He lies about friends on Facebook. Women whom he says he went to school with are strangers that he has been talking dirty to

It seems you already have your answer that something untoward is happening. If he is talking dirty to strangers online, then he is up to something deceitful. At this point, you need to determine what you are going to do about it and if this relationship can be repaired.

Free site for find what social media he belongs to?

How can I find out what social media groups my husband belongs to without him finding out for free

There is a free online search tool at Social Searcher that will allow you to see all web mentions, news blogs, forums and comments including Twitter, Facebook, and WhatsApp. However, this site might be just as good as using Google to find out information about him. If you input his name into the Google search engine, you should be able to see what social media belongs to on Facebook, Twitter, and Instagram. Remember, if he is using a fake name, you may not be able to see any information about what social media he belongs to, unless, by chance, you happen to know what his social media alias is.

I think my girlfriend is cheating, but I cannot prove it. How can I find what social media accounts belong to her using her name and cell?

My girlfriend cheated a while ago, but I still do not fully trust her. I cannot get into any of her social media accounts because everything is private and I'm positive that she has accounts that she shouldn't. Other than stealing her phone for the day, how can I see what she is doing when I'm not around? Your article doesn't apply to catch a cheater. I'm not looking for her public records such as address and phone listing. I need more in depth info regarding her social media accounts. I have tried: I have asked her, looked into hiring a private investigator, keylogger tricks to gain access to her email, made up fake social media account to search for her specifically, made fake online dating profiles, scrolled through all of her Facebook pics and looked at all comments and likes of every pic. I have been at it for about a year now with no luck. I think it was caused by: We were fighting a lot about money, and she went and found sex

Be careful because people can become so obsessed with finding the truth that they end up pushing the other person away. She was wrong to cheat on you, and it will take some time to rebuild trust. Just don't go overboard trying to prove still she is cheating. At that point, you may as well break up with her and save yourself a lot of wasted money searching for empty truth. You could also attempt to see her internet traffic by installing a packet sniffing tool such as Wireshark on your home network. With a little bit of fiddling, you'll be able to see what connected devices are doing.

I would like to find out if my husband is still cheating on me?

He is always hanging on his phone, sleeps with it, lies and says it's the wrong number, or he won't answer it and lets it go to voicemail. Please help, this has been going on for 10 years, he has done it before, and I caught him. I believe he is still cheating and is on dating sites.

OK, so my husband rarely answers his phone yet sleeps with it by the bed in the event of an emergency while we are sleeping, though we don't have a landline at our house. Since this has been happening for 10 years, it is now a habit or pattern or character trait. Since you have serious suspicions, perhaps you should attempt to have a look at his device by either asking or secretly. You may be surprised to learn that he just does not like speaking on the phone, and nothing else is wrong. If you want absolute proof, you may want to consider hiring a reputable private investigator.

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I believe she has been on dating sites or sending pics?

Possibly Tinder or Craigslist. I am trying to figure out if she has been posting stuff or emailing to anyone. I have tried: Searching and downloading as many apps as possible. I think it was caused by: I believe she is cheating, found random pics and the map and history is wiped clean

If you suspect there are issues in your relationship, ask her outright about what's troubling you. Aside from monitoring her behavior, ask to see her device. If she has nothing to hide, it shouldn't be a major issue. As mentioned above, installing a packet sniffing tool and learning how to interpret the logs is an excellent way to see what someone is doing while connected to your home network.

How can I check my personal email to find out what the forgotten website subscriptions?

I want to run a check on my own personal email to find out where I am subscribed so that I can delete those accounts. I want to run a check on myself, not on my boyfriend or husband.

You can use one of the programs mentioned in the article or type Subscribe in the search box of your email program. You may find some there which you forgot about sitting in Spam.

How do I connect to my boy's hidden chat profiles on Instagram, and Facebook?

Can I see hidden or things my boyfriend has blocked me from seeing on his Facebook, and Instagram and all other information he might have hidden from me.

What makes you think he is using custom settings to keep you out of seeing all his posts? If you distrust him this much, then don't stay in the relationship. He may not even be hiding things on social media from you. What he can't protect is what others tag him in or comment on his posts so if you are suspicious, start going through his profiles. With a little effort and some patience, you might find something.

Yes I'm just scared we used to share a Facebook and had our own Instagram that we could both get into each other's but now he is making me take his Instagram off of my phone I don't know what to do, but I want to know if he is cheating?

I'm very scared we are married have two baby boys, and now he's getting sneaky won't let me go through his phone like he used to and it feels like he's hiding something what I really want to find out is if he is cheating on me as he has tried before but I caught on very quickly and put a stop to it I'm so scared and need help desperately. I would like to know if he is actually cheating not if he has a social media I don't know about.

If you must have a definitive answer, you can always consider hiring a private investigator to watch your husband. You could also use a parental monitoring tool like Circle with Disney. In your case, you can tell your husband that it's for when your two boys are old enough to use devices that connect to the internet. With a device like this installed at home, you' also be able to see sites your husband visits when he's connected to your home WiFi.

I found Craigslist, Tinder, and POF in my husband's history and he says it's not his?

How can I find out if it's him? He deleted his history on Google, but I found it before on his iPhone. I need to find out the truth, the evidence will speak for itself. I have tried: Looked up Google history and found visited pages Tinder, POF, and Craigslist. I think it was caused by: He's a cheater and hasn't stopped so I please need help!

In your situation, the only way to see what sites your boyfriend is browsing is by using a network analyzer (packet sniffing) on your home internet. If you live together, setting it up undetected could require a little creativity on your part. Once up and running, a quality packet sniffer can give you detailed information about the devices connected to your network. You'd be able to see what sites are being visited from any device using your home internet.

I suspect my partner is cheating for a while now, but she denies it?

I have picked up a few messages on her Facebook referring to "I have read your profile and am looking for my soul mate" also " a message referring to actually having found her good & desirable". All the messages have been sent from a mobile number, and it states in gray at the bottom of the message, that "you cannot respond to the sender". There is no communication from her side?. There are other strange behaviors which could be relevant, yet which she frankly denies any cheating. The trusts dwindling and if the relationship is over due to the trust issue...fine, but I just want to know for certain? I am based in Cape Town, South Africa and cannot register for the various "tools" on offer to validate or dismiss my concerns? I have tried: checking basic SMS's, photos & videos(of which there were some strange receipts that did not make sense, and these were all received at strange hours). I think it was caused by: I think that she is playing me on the back of her being known as a very decent and caring person, yet she has been divorced twice and I have seen a 'gold digging' tendency in her character

It sounds like you do not trust her and have issues with her character so why move the relationship forward? Also, women get blasted by men all the time on social media regarding messages like that. If she is not replying that is good, and since you can't reply to them, it means that she blocked the people from further contact. Give her some time to prove to you that she can be trusted and then make a final determination about whether to continue in the relationship.

Can you help me expose this guy to his real girlfriend?

He's sneaking around behind her back, and using a fake account to help his lust, it's sick.

This will not end the way you want it to. If he is cheating on her with you, then end the relationship. If this is someone you know, then find that profile and tell her but realize that now puts you in the middle of their battle.

How to find out the details of my husbands two phones, any online sites, and his location.... I suspect him cheating?

He is a long haul truck driver that has an employer phone given to him along with his personal phone. I am not computer smart and have tried to open files with no success... I do have access to his personal Android phone, that has been wiped clean as far as I know. I have also tried to go on sites and pay with a purchased credit card, but no sites will take the card I purchased b/c it's not a debit card like I thought, would you suggest a card?

Unless your husband hands his phones over to you to be looked over, there is not much you can do in terms of his device. If you have access to his phone, do a thorough check for archived messages or photos that may have been shared.

How to find my boyfriends profiles that he has set up under other numbers or names?

My boyfriend is always online, and women are texting his other phone from all over the world and sending naked pics.he says he hasn't been on any of the websites talking to women in 3 months. But they text and they will stop for a while and then start back, and it's always when he's been out of town and comes back that the text start again. I know he's talking to other women I just don't know how to get the proof I need so that I can know for sure he's been lying to me so I can leave him alone.he says I am making all of it up, and it's all in my head.and I can't prove otherwise.please help I know he has profiles I know nothing about, and he is very confident that I won't find them. I am not very smart with computers I know the basics but not enough to know what sites I need to go to and what various information I need to put in if he's got the profiles disguised. I have tried: Facebook under his first and last name and his middle and last name other sites I've been looking for his picture. I think it was caused by: I think it's something he's always done because he gets a thrill out of being sneaky and getting away with it.he has no concern for how it makes me feel it's like a catch me if you can game to him

As mentioned above, one good way to see if your boyfriend is on other social media sites is to perform a reverse image search on Google Images. Search any image of him that you suspect he might use for an online profile.

I want to prosecute him for identity theft and mental abuse if I can prove this?

Do I prove it is him when he uses my Google accounts and makes new ones I'm not aware of. My husband has left me for these hookup sites he has lied to me and everyone else about him using them he is saying it's me when I questioned him he got violent destroyed our home smashing everything it just won't stop I have PFA and he put one on me saying I'm mentally abusing him with these sites I tried to hurt myself I couldn't believe he would do this after 26 years

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