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Can you check on a cheating spouse

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Can you check on a cheating spouse?

How to check on a cheating spouse ?

Here are few ways you can catch a cheating spouse:

  • Take notes on his routine and look for patterns. Example: they're suddenly working late every Thursday night.
  • Ask a friend to follow him after work or when he is running errands to see if he is meeting anyone.
  • Check his phone while he is not looking. If the phone is normally locked, wait for a minute that he puts the phone down before he locks it.
  • Check your bank and credit card activity. Is there more cash being withdrawn from your account?
  • Install a spy app on his mobile phone.

I live in the State of California, I do not know if it is legal to spy on my husband's cellphone without getting into trouble and I do not want to pay for a service just to see if he is cheating?

Can you help me find out if he is cheating and with whom? I have tried: I tried checking his cellphone but he put a thumb print access on it. I think it was caused by: He says it's because of my older children and me helping them all the time. My three grandchildren live with us, ages 13, 7, and 5 which he agreed to, now he is saying it's too much, but his 74 year old father also lives with us which he has no problem with

California requires two-party consent, which means you would need his consent for a spy app. If he finds it, you could be prosecuted. Such a restricted access to his phone could be so that the children do not use his phone, however, you should ask him to unlock the phone in front of you and allow you to check it if he has nothing to hide.

Is there any way to find out without joining these social media sites?

I know my husband has been having some pretty strange text messages at odd hours and I have seen that he is on several different social media sites. I believe he is cheating but he has his phone and computer on lock down. He hasn't touched me in months. I feel in my soul something is wrong but I do not want to confront him about this. Would just like to know so I can move on if that is the way it is. We have been married for 1 year and I would like to have peace of mind over this. If he is cheating, I would rather let him go than to live this way.

Instead of snooping, talk to him and ask him outright if he is looking elsewhere for love. He may just be thinking he is innocently flirting online but he is definitely starting to alienate his affections in your marriage. Snooping can often be far more painful as you see what has been said and done first hand. Also, some men, when confronted, will tell you the truth, while many others will turn it back on you, trying to make you feel guilty for even suspecting. Sadly, this tactic often works. Watch his eyes when you ask him.

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Gut feeling he is being moody and arguing for no reason. Caring for his appearance and getting muscles he never had, and a big stomach, now he has a real buff chest?

His appearance has changed, he doesn't call me, yet his phone is always busy or it goes to voice mail

He is focusing on himself more than ever before. There may be someone else involved, however, it could just be that he is self-improving just for himself. Be aware that often when people have big physical changes, they feel like they can suddenly spread their wings and fly.

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Just want to know if my man is or has cheated?

He hides his phone always and keeps it on silent, he is always accusing me of cheating, he fights on purpose so I stay away. I have tried: I have asked him and he accusing me again. I think it was caused by: He lives with his mum and I heard a girl was in his room in May this year

Those that are guilty will often assume the other person in the relationship is guilty because if they can cheat, you can cheat. If you heard a girl in his room then something was going on - obviously. His distrust of you since then is further proof that something will happen or has already happened outside the relationship.

I found a text a while back, The woman thanked him for getting her off, he admitted it & I thought things were good until I was online today & he got message replying to what evidently were deleted messages by him

We live in Iberia, Missouri. Both women play Kings of Camelot with him. I have tried: Asking him? Searching but he deletes & hides things very well. I think it was caused by: I really don't know?

Some avid gamers can let the online game fantasy blur into their regular life. He did admit to you what happened, however, the suggestion would be to ask him to either block the women from contacting him within the game or stop playing the game completely. He is deleting and hiding postings before you can see them, so something is, in fact, going on that, he is afraid of you seeing.

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I need to know if he is answering his texts and phone calls?

I've been calling and texting my boyfriend for 3 days now and need to know if he is actually getting them and if he is talking to someone else

He is receiving them unless his phone has been off and you get voicemail each time immediately when you call. If you think he is talking to someone else you can try to install a remote spy app, although he will have to download a link or text message pic on his phone for the apps to work, so if he is ignoring you, the link may be ignored as well. The best option is to speak to him in person. If he is ignoring you all of a sudden he better have a really good reason or else you should end the relationship.

Its my wife, I caught her on her cellphone 3 times with this guy?

Just wanted to know his location, she says it is an Ex boyfriend who lives in Europe, but I think he lives in town. She won't tell me his name, I have his cell number but he shut it off

Well if the phone number is a local number, then he is near you. Using a cellphone in another country comes with hefty fees so most people do not make several calls from their cellphone while on vacation unless it is of great importance or an emergency that can not wait until they get home. The bigger issue is that your wife felt the need to speak with her ex three separate times, and not where he is located. Emotional affairs are far more damaging to a marriage. Start by asking her why she felt the need to speak with her ex in the first place.

I need help, please. I think my wife may be unfaithful?

I think I am a victim here and I am in a big trouble, can you help?. I have tried: Calling, texting, going over. I think it was caused by: New man. I suppose

Sounds like she has in fact moved on. She cheated on you and walked away so you need to work on releasing her as well. It is tough to overcome being left by a cheating spouse but you will be able to have trust with someone else who is worthy of you. Before you jump into any relationship take some time to do some self-reflection. What were the reasons that your wife could have possibly cheated? If you may have contributed to her cheating, consider what you could do to change. Make sure that you are in the best emotional shape.

Do you know if there are any small spy cams that pick up audio as well as video for 8 hours?

I am in live-in relationship and want to know if my boyfriend is cheating. I can't afford a private detective but want to know if my boyfriend is cheating. If so, I will leave the relationship.

There are several spy cams on the market. They are sometimes called Nanny cams. These record video and audio and save it to an SD card or to a cloud. You can also look into setting up your laptop camera to record during that time, but he may notice the webcam is activated.

I need to know if she is hitting up other dudes?

She smells weird down stairs all of the sudden and she is scared to show me her phone. I have tried: I've asked her. I think it was caused by: I don't know maybe because she has issues

She may just have a non-STD infection and searched for what could cause it using her phone and does not want you to see. If she is speaking to other guys there would be other signs of her pulling away from you and blocks of her time would be left unexplained for instance.

Can this work even in Tanzania?

I want to spy on someone's text without them knowing

Spy apps work from most geographic locations.

He said he loves me and won't leave me?

But he uses an app called 'ARE YOU INTERESTED' where there are many girls and he never told me. I have tried: I tried to ask him. I think it was caused by: I don't know

He may just be looking for outside praise from girls online but this is still a dangerous behavior in a relationship.

How can I discreetly find out if my significant other is cheating on me?

I have been with the same guy, off and on, for 6 years and just found out recently that he has been unfaithful, is there a free, discreet app that I can download on my phone that will send the texts that he gets to phone and pictures he gets to my phone? I haven't read the full article but most articles I have read on the topic don't even come close to what I have experienced.

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I want a site that doesn't need payment for the search?

Want a totally free site that doesn't need payment for services. Don't have money? But want to find out if my girlfriend is cheating on me

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Yeah how can I find out if my man is cheating on me....don't want to pay for searches and all that....wondering if there is a way to find out for free?

Want to find out if my man is cheating on me.....hides his phone all the time...want to be able to see whom he is texting and talking to. Just feel like he is cheating...I would like to find out if he is without having to pay for it. I just feel like he is cheating and would like to know whom he is texting and talking to....he hides his phone all the time. I just need to know the truth. I have tried: Snooping in his phone but he has it locked all the time....

Confronted him numerous times but he denies it. I feel very strongly he is talking to other females regardless if he says he's not. I think it was caused by: I'm not sure what caused the problem. I would say if he is cheating then he's the problem

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