Be a Sexier Man by Changing Your Look

Edited by Donna, Zara Mae, Eng, Alma

Changing your look can make you more attractive to women.

You can be the nicest man in the world, intelligent, rich and even quite attractive, but if you do not have certain aspects of your look down properly, women won't give you a second glance.

Here are some ways to make you more attractive to women.

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    Spend some time in the sun to get a slight tan
    Women find men with a slight tan to be a bit more masculine, possibly because the tan gives you a bit more of an outdoorsy, rugged appearance. You can also acquire a tan by going to a tanning bed or rubbing a bit of bronzer on your forehead, cheeks, nose and chin.
    Women like men who have a bit of a tan.
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    Work out and then tries to show off a bit of mean muscle
    Women are not attracted to flab. Circuit training and lifting weights three to five times a week and sticking to a high protein, low-carb diet can help you build a physique that women will find more attractive.
    Work out to show off a bit of lean muscle.
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    Make sure your hands are clean and that your nails are trimmed
    Dirt under the fingernails usually signifies someone with a low income and poor hygiene, which is less appealing to most ladies
    Consider getting a professional manicure so that your hands look their best.
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    Make sure that your teeth are brushed and that your lips are not chapped
    Women who are attracted to you will be looking at your mouth. Use lip balm to smooth out your lips. If they are very chapped, you can use a lip scrub or a toothbrush to scrub away any dead skin.
    Make sure your lips are well moisturized.
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    Try to look as tall as possible by wearing shoes or boots with a slight lift
    The taller you are, the more attractive you will seem, because height signifies authority and alpha-maleness to women.
    A shoe with a slight lift, even a running shoe with a bit of a heel, can make you look taller.
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    Make sure that any clothes that you buy actually fit you
    Baggy clothes or ones that encase you too tightly make you appear slovenly and immature.
    Baggy clothes make you look sloppy and immature.
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    It is better not to grow a beard, rather than half of a beard
    If you are not capable of growing a full beard, then go clean-shaven or wear a bit of stubble.
    No beard is better than a straggly beard
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    Leave a bit of stubble when you shave or time your meeting with a hot date by letting your beard grow in a bit first
    Women are very attracted to a little bit of five o'clock shadow.
    A five o'clock shadow is sexy.
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    If you are balding, wear a hat or a cap or shave your head completely
    The worst look that you could adopt is one that reveals a half a head of hair. Certain types of balding, such as balding at the crown or temples, make you look older than you are. Shaving your head can make you appear more virile to the woman.
    If you are balding wear a cap.
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    Avoid wearing too much hair gel
    Women like to touch a man's hair, so keep a style that is soft and free of grease. Keep in mind that the strong odor of many hair products also turns women off, as many of them smell like cleaning products.
    Avoid wearing too much hair gel as it prevents a woman from touching your hair.
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    Wear a very nice, expensive watch
    The watch should express the best of your taste and a respect for history. Stay away from Fit Bits, which look a bit cheap. Do not wear watches that connect to your phone and especially do not check a watch for texts while you are conversing with a woman.
    Wear a nice expensive watch that shows you have good taste.
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    Wear a clothing accessory that is red, as that is a subliminal message to her that you are powerful and virile
    The red color awakens an attraction, subconsciously present as an instinct in human females that has them attracted to the most flamboyant male. However, when adopting this new way of dressing, be sure to keep the accessories simple. Never consider wearing a red suit, as that might make you seem a bit clown-like. You should also avoid wearing bright red shoes or red socks. Having a red item on your key chain, like a pair of dice, or carrying a red Swiss Army Knife and taking it slowly out of your pocket could attract her attention. You could also consider wearing a red Devil's horn, which is a classic piece of Italian jewelry made of red coral that can be worn around the neck. Another subtle touch would be to have a red cell phone case or a red watch strap.
    Red is a color that subconsciously attracts women.
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    Wear a blazer and jeans together to give your body a V-shaped figure
    Women prefer men who have broader shoulders and narrower hips and this is a look that can be achieved by wearing a blazer with padded shoulders along with narrower pants.
    Jeans and a blazer give you a V-shaped silhouette.
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    Wear a very finely tailored suit or coat that looks a bit like it could be military issue
    There is a lot of truth to the saying that women love men in a uniform. This makes you look more authoritative, and therefore a bit sexier.
    A military-look blazer.
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    Wear a buttoneer with a flower in it on your coat or jacket
    This is a very subtle touch that works especially well with an older man that pegs you as a man of good taste and as one, that is a lover of nature. It also shows women that you are not afraid to embrace and respect the more feminine aspects of your own nature.
    Wear a flower in your lapel.
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    Make sure that your shirts have all of their buttons and that you are not wearing ripped clothing
    Ripped clothing is associated with immaturity and wearing clothing that is missing buttons makes you seem lazy or like you can't take care of yourself. You do not want to telegraph the message that you are high maintenance and need a lot of basic self-care to others.
    Learn how to sew a button on a shirt.
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    If you are wearing a dress shirt, roll up the sleeves
    A man who shows off his forearms and looks a bit like he is ready to get to work has a lot of sex appeal for women.
    Rolling up your sleeves is sexy.
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    If you are wearing jeans, make sure that you are wearing a belt and that they fit exactly
    You can ask a salesperson to help you pick just the right pair of jeans that will make your body look the sexiest. Avoid wearing a ripped or stonewashed pair of jeans and go for a classic dark blue pair, which does make most men look taller or thinner. Skinny jeans are more attractive and fashionable than wide-leg jeans.
    Wear jeans that fit correctly with a good belt.
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    Leave the hoodies and sweatpants at home
    Wearing your workout gear in public places makes you appear like you are poverty-stricken or like you do not have the self-esteem to dress up in public. If you want to look more casual, wear a Henley shirt instead, which is a thick, two-toned sweatshirt.
    Henley shirts are casual, yet sexy.
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    Do not wear dark colored clothing is covered in lint
    Invest in a lint brush and inspect any darker clothing for tiny lint balls and hairs. Never ever, wear stained clothing, as that makes it seem that you are not familiar with the concept of grooming yourself.
    Use a lint brush to clean your dark clothing of any lint.
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    Never ever wear an item of clothing that has stains on it
    This makes it appear like you cannot take care of yourself or that you are a sloppy eater or that your hygiene is not that great.
    Avoid wearing a shirt with stains.
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    Always make sure that you are wearing and expensive pair of boots or shoes and those they are shined
    Women like men who pay attention to detail, because it gives them the subconscious message that they might be better in bed.
    Make sure your footwear is well shined.
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    Do not use a powerful deodorant that smells too strong
    There are some body deodorizers out there that completely overwhelm the senses. Women tend to be attracted to men who have a more natural smell. They can also tell when you have been using deodorant to mask the fact that you have not worked out in a few days.
    Avoid using a heavily perfumed underarm deodorant.
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    Use your facial hair to try to make your face seem as symmetrical as possible
    Both sexes are naturally attracted to those with symmetrical features. This is easy enough to do by using a razor or tweezers to shape your eyebrows and facial hair. If you are not sure about how to augment your features this way.
    Trim your facial hair so that it looks as symmetrical as possible.
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    Remove excess hair growing on your body
    If you have an excessively hairy chest, abdomen or buttocks, you can get this hair removed with a waxing that lasts about six weeks. You can also shave it or use a depilatory to remove it. In general, women prefer men who have less hair showing when they are naked. If you have a lot of body hair, invest in a good body trimmer to keep longer hairs at a shorter length.
    Removing excess hair on your body is called manscaping.
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    Make sure your cell phone is clean and in good shape and don't wear your blue tooth on your ear
    Don't carry around a filthy phone or one with a shattered screen. You want to appear suave and sophisticated, not incompetent or careless. The blue tooth on your ear makes it look like you are too busy to approach.
    Never carry around a dirty or damaged cell phone.
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    Avoid wearing head gear that makes you look out-of-date
    Examples are fedoras and baseball caps worn backward. Bandanas can also make you look a bit careless or like you are stuck in the nineties.
    A baseball cap worn backwards looks out of date.
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    Wear a great pair of expensive sunglasses but make sure you take them off when you are inside
    A man who wears sunglasses indoors lends the impression that he might be blind or that he is too standoffish for women to approach. Sunglasses that allow people to see your eyes are better than ones that are completely black, as they make you seem a bit more approachable.
    Be sure to take off your sunglasses when you are indoors.
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Tips and Tricks

Having a great smile can help you attract a woman, so be sure to visit the dentist often.

  • It can be worth it to fix a broken smile by having a dentist replace any missing teeth, as a brilliant smile is very important to some women.
  • If you have acne, visit a dermatologist to help clear it up as having blemishes indicates disease or bad eating habits to most women
  • If you are not great at mending your own clothes, you can usually find a tailor or seamstress nearby that can do your mending for you
  • If you are not sure how your facial hair should be trimmed to optimize your attractiveness, you can book an appointment at a unisex salon, where there are usually hairdressers or consultants that can help you find the right look
  • Familiarize yourself with hair products and what they can do to make your hair look more attractive
  • This might be a matter of personal preference, but most women do not like goatees or soul patches of hair on the chin, preferring five o'clock style shadow
  • If you have a double chin, you can disguise it by wearing a black turtleneck, which will also make you look thinner
  • If you have a larger butt than might be deemed attractive avoid buying pants with patchy back pockets, especially if they are small, as this can visually emphasize this male figure flaw

If you have problems with any of the steps in this article, please ask a question for more help, or post in the comments section below.


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