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Why doesn't he respond to me even when he is online or checking his messages?

My boyfriend has been busy with a lot of things and now he does not stay in touch with me. He takes time to respond to my messages and even if he does it short, but he talks like he loves me more than anything. I feel its only in his words but not in action, I think he's trying to avoid me.

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Why do I have to continue to be patient and understanding?

My son and I have been living with my boyfriend for 3 years with 4 of his 7 kids. As the kids are of the age (16, 17, 18, 19) to be responsible for themselves, he is still cleaning up after them (cooking, washing dishes, floors, laundry, etc.). He hasn't worked in 3 years but I am working. The two older kids have jobs and need to chauffeured to work and wherever they want to go. The younger two siblings are chauffeured everywhere as well. Then, there's the oldest daughter who lives with her boyfriend and they have two kids. She calls on him to take and be with her for doctor's appointments, grocery shopping, and other errands for her family. She just called him yesterday to come up to her house and organize her garbage bins and trash as her live-in boyfriend is at work. He no longer has time for me, and I think he doesn't care if I leave.. I have tried: Since we lived together, I've allowed him to use both of my cars to drive them around. As they are on government assistance and it's never enough, I've supplemented them by loaning him money to buy them what they need (school uniforms/supplies, field trip funds, movie money, new clothes/shoes, new bedding, cookware, couch, TVs, fans, A/C units, etc.). I've tried to teach them new responsibilities but they know that they're Dad will let them do what they want (stay out with friends until 2am on a school night, not go to school because they're too tired from staying up). I tried to talk to my boyfriend but he just gets frustrated when I talk to him about his kids and ends up yelling/cussing at me.. I think it was caused by: He and his ex-wife were drug-users and the kids early years suffered. He finally gained sole custody of them in 2007 and said he's been trying to make up for it.

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