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- 1.1 My girlfriend won't tell me why she is mad at me, and I don't like it?
- 1.2 Why girlfriend is mad at me and she is like this close to break-up what can I do? I love her so much?
- 1.3 Need helping saying sorry to my girlfriend?
- 1.4 What do I tell her so she won't be so mad and goes back to loving me?
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My girlfriend won't tell me why she is mad at me, and I don't like it?
We were in an assembly and I told her the assembly was boring, then she said; fine by her, then I said if she was OK and she said shut up then after I told her what's really wrong she said leave me alone and then her friend told me that she was getting jealous cause I talk to other girls.. I have tried: I tried hugging and holding her hand. I think it was caused by: I talk to girls.
Even though you think that you are doing nothing wrong she sees it as you flirting with other girls. People will lash out like this when they feel threatened and her insecurities can make the matter worse. You are trying to appease her with a physical connection by holding her hand but also work on your emotional connection with her. The more you reassure her that you are only interested in her the better it will be. For now, try not to talk with girls so much unless you really have to. This does not mean to act rude but just do not strike up random conversations until you know that your girlfriend feels more secure in your relationship.
Why girlfriend is mad at me and she is like this close to break-up what can I do? I love her so much?
Because apparently she told me she likes me and another guy..she likes me because she feel the passion and protection but she like the other dude because she is attracted to him sexually..Like I really need help and now she is not replying my messages
At least she was honest with you but it may be time for you to move on. It is normal to feel attraction to the opposite sex but once it starts impeding the relationship there is a threat to that relationship. Give her some space and see if she texts you after a week. Maybe she needs to see what loses you would mean before she makes her decision. You should let her know though that this is not fair to you or the other guy and she does need to decide who she wants to be with.
Evaluate at this point if you can even trust her enough for the relationship to survive. You may realize that you are better off not in a relationship with her because you would make yourself miserable always suspecting her.
Need helping saying sorry to my girlfriend?
I broke up with her because I thought she was cheating but she wasn't now she is saying I broke her heart but I didn't mean to. I have tried: Nothing. I think it was caused by: I had her phone her texts
Write an Apology Letter to Your Girlfriend is a VisiHow article that can help you write a letter to her. You overstepped your boundaries by monitoring her text messages and then accusing her of cheating. Explain to her that you have insecurities but you are working on them and want to be a better person in the future. It was not your intention to play out your emotions this way and break up with her but have her understand that you will trust her in the future and not make this mistake again.
When you broke up with her, you knocked down all the trust and security she has with the relationship. You will have to make strides to rectify this if you hope to keep her in the long term. Every time you fight she will be on edge waiting for you to break up with her again. Remember that when there is conflict to assure her that you are not going anywhere.
What do I tell her so she won't be so mad and goes back to loving me?
She is mad because I was flirting with other girls and she found that in my phone
Now that you have been caught, the best thing to do is own up to it and apologize for your actions. You will have to be more transparent and let her search your phone on a random basis. It will take time to rebuild trust with her and you will have to put up with insecurity driven behavior from her.
Work on your issue of why you felt the need to flirt with several girls. Fix that and then you can begin to repair your relationship.
More questions and answers on this topic can be found here: How can I make her happy when she is sad
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