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Get your girlfriend to forgive

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What are the messages you can send to your girlfriend to make her forgive you?

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Genuine and loving messages would definitely let her think twice and forgive you. A sincere message asking for forgiveness would let her know that you are truly sorry and would want to make it up to her. Here are some messages you can send her:

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  • I know I have hurt you in more ways than one. It's not easy to forgive someone like me but I'm asking you to give me one more chance to prove to you that I love you. I am really sorry and I don't want to lose you.
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  • I hope it's not too late to start again. I don't have the right to ask you for anything. You have loved me more than anyone has ever done so. I have hurt and I regret that has happened. I love you so much. I am so sorry. Please give me one more chance to love you again


I need to know how much space/time is appropriate when trying to gain forgiveness?

My ex and I have broken up and I was making huge steps toward getting her back but last night I let my emotions get the best of me. She made accusations about a missing piece of jewelry that I did not take. She said that if it did not return, she would leave for good. I cannot return something I do not have and that is probably lost. I tried to have conversation with her but she was not responsive. I needed to know how serious she was about leaving and what we were going to do with all the things we need to take care of if she does leave. She said she did not want to talk about it and said she would pack up now and leave. I told her if that is what she felt she needed to do even though it was not what I wanted, she could. I just wanted to give some space and time if that what was needed. She started grabbing stuff and I grabbed things she uses that are mine and she flipped out. Cell phone and extra car keys. She did not end up leaving but has said some very hurtful things. I know that the things came out in the heat of the moment and she does not mean the things she says. I need to know even if this is very bad, how long do I give her before I start asking for forgiveness and trying to reconcile.

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Fights like this can be very damaging. At the point she threatened to leave, she was hoping you would either admit that you took the necklace or beg her to stay. She feels insecurity and distrust with you and is exhibiting these feelings by making such a huge deal about the necklace.You need to address the root of all the distrust with her to resolve this issue. For the insecurity, it is best to beg her to stay no matter what. Give her some sense of permanence with you.

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Taking her phone and car keys (that are yours) was not the way to go about the fight. Although they rightfully are yours, you further broke her trust in you. This VisiHow article Rebuild Trust in a Relationship explains how to make her feel more secure. It will take time but you may be able to get through to her faster if you apologize for making her feel insecure with your relationship.

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How to return an apology message from my girlfriend when she had done wrong and she has apologize?

I want to get a return text back to her so that's what brought me here

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If you forgive her, make mention of this. Sometimes we can say we forgive when we do not really mean it. If you are not sure that you have forgiven her, tell her that it will take time but you are willing to work on forgiving her. You may have conditions but make sure you talk about the conditions in person. You do not want her to become defensive and shut down so practice how you will approach this conversation. Sometimes listing things you personally should work on for a better relationship lessens the blow of accusation in conversations like this.

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I write to ask your forgiveness for my wife?

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Me and my wife where are so different, I want to write to her to forgive me because I hurt her before without I feel that. I move to her country and it was very hard for me the conditions, that turned me into a different person and out of my mind and unable to see things clearly. I want to tell her that I'm different now and I see things different and I want to spend my life to love you and sacrifice my life her..... I feel so bad because she get hurt by me .... :(

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What you have put in your description is a great start to a forgiveness letter like this. I am a spousal immigrant so I understand the feeling that you went through in a different country with no friends or family. Look into social groups where you live. There may be one from your country. This can help you feel less alone. It is easy to get into a deep depression when you feel displaced. Let her know that now you realize she is your home and that you need her in your life. List off some of your good memories with her. Taking her down memory lane will bring back feelings of happiness. Think back to what brought you together. You both liked things about each other initially. Mention what you love about her in the letter. You may want to write out the story of how you met her. Perhaps create a photo album with pictures of your love journey together. You can present this with the letter.

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I screwed a girl's feelings whom I just know for 2 days. I want to say sorry because I hurt her feelings by shutting her off. I'm going to send her message?

We were in the getting to know each other stage. I contacted her and she accepted me. In the process of getting to know each other, she was like taking me for granted and dominating me by insulting. She used words like Kiddo and grow up when I was very professional to her. My last communication was about her past 9 year unsuccessful relationship which she did not want to share. The conversation went on as below: She Said: you keep digging my past and I knew very well. When you was questioning me earlier .. in 9 years of relationship many things could have happened ? you repeated the same question twice to me .. and I divert it and answered you in a different angle... Sorry .. I think it is better for us to stop things here. because I want to forget my past and start a new life .. but you won't let me I guess.... My reply to her was:. Noted, I don't wish to be your revenge victim for your past relationship. at some point in your life, you have to believe and trust men. not all but then one whom truly cares for you. Even this level of advice can be adopted by certain girls who deserved that love and care which experience them in life. I understand your past 9 years of experience and "kiddo like me" do have experience those moments. some r even worst. Anyway I do not wish to prolong this message as you are a grown up girl I believe you know how to deal with it as you love yourself, life and you direct them whichever way you wants it to be.. well so again with no single regret it is over and I am out. Thank god he brought me to light this soon. So happy & the relives after hearing your last message to was unexplained. Anyway, I think you deserve thanks and best wishes. . . after this she deleted me from her WhatsApp and took me off from her Facebook. . . what shall I do now to patch back? She is working as a nurse at the Middle East but originally from Malaysia . and I am in Malaysia. please advise what is the correct thing for me to do?

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Wow did you insult her with your reply message?. This was not the way to go about asking for history in previous relationships. In reality, it is none of your business because you were not in that relationship with her. If you want her back, send her a message that you realize you were wrong and it was your insecurity of possibly losing her that drove you to that line of questioning. In regret, you lost her with the questions and want to be the person with her when she starts her new life.

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Kiddo is a term of endearment. If it bothered you or made you feel insecure, you should have said something nicely. Instead, you threw it in her face with your reply message. Judging by your insecurity, you may need to work on some things emotionally to get in the place that she is. Let her know that you are working on that to be the man that she deserves.

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What should I do, I really do not want to lose her?

I have lied to my girlfriend about my ex who has been contacting me on the phone and my girlfriend saw the message and now she said its over but I really do not want to lose her. she even blocked me on her phone now, I really love her, and I want to send her a message asking for forgiveness but she still does not want to hear anything from me. I really want to gain her trust but the fact that she forgave me twice, now she said she does not want me anymore. should I give her some space or should I keep pushing until she agrees?

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