Use Natural Scents to Attract a Man

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Natural scents can be used to attract a man.

Attracting men is not just about looks, it is also about the way you smell. The limbic system, which governs the sense of smell, is crucial to making a man desire you. That is because arousal is a very primal instinct that is hard-wired into the biology of humans.

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Natural scents work best for attracting men because they are not as overwhelming as synthetic aromas. Chemicals labeled as fragrance are used instead of natural essential oils to replicate floral or expensive scents and do not have the same arousing effect.

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Furthermore, natural scents can also be created in various ways and do not necessarily have to acquired in the form of an essential oil. You can conjure up an alluring scent that wafts through your place by a baking dessert in an oven or by placing a bowl of fresh fruit or flowers on the table.

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Ways to Deploy Scents That Attract Men

Essential oil scents that attract men.

Here are some of the ways that you can deploy natural scents to attract men:

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    Wear the scent it on your pulse points, as you would any perfume.
    The traditional pulse points are on your wrist but there are also pulse points behind your ears, in the hollow of your neck, in the crease of your groin and behind your knees. Just dab two or three of drops on your skin to spread the aroma. Be aware that natural oils need to be applied more frequently than perfumes because they do not smell as strong.
    The wrist is an important pulse point.
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    Spray the mist of a diluted essential oil on your hair.
    You can buy a small 6-8 ounce spray bottle and mix 20 to 30 drops of the essential oil in the bottle and then fill it with water. You can also add a few drops of fractionated coconut oil to the mix, as that will make your hair shiny. If you only add water to the bottle, you can also spritz the mixture lightly on your skin, clothing or belongings.
    Spray the mist of an essential oil diluted with a bit of coconut oil to give your hair a lovely aroma.
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    Douse a hankie or tissue with the male-attracting scent and carry it in your pocket.
    This a less obtrusive way of carrying the scent to the office or wearing it in public places. When you take the hankie or tissue out of your pocket and shake it a little, the scent will be dispersed throughout the air.
    Annoint a hankie with a male-attracting scent and keep it in your pocket.
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    Anoint the hem of your dress, or the edge of your sweater or scarf so that the scent wafts with you as you walk.
    This can be a more subtle way of deploying the scent, than wearing it on your skin. When you wear oil on your skin, as opposed to on an item of clothing, it diffuses faster because the natural warmth of your body causes it to evaporate faster.
    Add a bit of essential oil to your scarf, so that the scent stays with you throughout the day.
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    Anoint his pillow and your bedding with the natural scent so that he thinks of you when you are away.
    Do not go overboard with this approach. Applying just one or two drops on the pillows and one or two drops on each of the four corners of the mattress will be enough to remind him of you.
    An essential oil can be spritzed on a pillow.
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    Warm the scent in an essential oil burner to disperse the scent through any environment.
    These are ceramic units that consist of a candle in the bottom section and an indented cavity on the top part that is intended to contains the scented oil. The oil is warmed by the candle and the aroma is distributed through the air.
    A candle-warmed essential oil burner.
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    Use a plug-in aromatherapy electric room diffuser.
    These are convenient mini-diffusers that plug right into the wall. They have a small cotton pad inside of them can be anointed with the oil. You plug it in and the heat from the outlet helps diffuse it through the room.
    An mini plug-in essential oil diffuser.
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    Disperse the scent it through the air using an electronic air diffuser.
    These are cool mist diffusers that do not damage the molecules of the essential oil as they are being distributed throughout the air. This is one of the most effective ways to disperse an aroma as any heat might damage the oil's molecules.
    An essential oil diffuser.
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    Disperse the scent through the air using an ordinary vaporizer.
    These are very large plastic units, some of which only use steam diffusion. Some models come with two settings, one for steam and one for cool diffusion through the air. You can add up to 60 drops of a scent to these larger vaporizers, which hold between three to four liters of water. It is recommended that you use the vaporizer on a cool setting to avoid damaging the healing constituents in the oil.
    A traditional vaporizer can be used to disperse essential oils into the air.
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    Disperse the scent through the room using reeds.
    In this method of scent deployment, several thin wooden reeds are half immersed in a bottle of scented solution or essential oil. The reeds suck up the oil and emit the natural scent until all of the fragrance is evaporated. This is a great way to enclose a strong scent in a more enclosed space, such as in your bedroom or living room.
    Reed diffusers.
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    Diffuse the scent throughout the air with a candle.
    You can buy pre-scented candles (such as a vanilla or apple pie scented candle) or you can buy an unscented candle and rub it with a bit of your own essential oil scent. Tall votive candles in glass jars also work well for this purpose.
    An apple pie scented candle.
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    Scent a lava stone with the oil and let it disperse through the air.
    Scented stones are also sometimes called Stone Scentware. You can buy lava stones that already have a scent or you can buy them unscented and then anoint them with thirty to forty drops of your preferred oil. The scent lingers in the stone and slowly emits the alluring aroma for at least three weeks.
    Lava stones can be scented with essential oils.
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    Using a Lamp Berger.
    This is a decorative lamp that uses an alcohol based fuel to disperse the scent through the air, with the added bonus that it also increases oxygen levels and kills bacteria in the area where it is lit. In the case of the Lampe Berger, you can only buy pre-made scents, but they do sell basic attractants such as sandalwood, rose, and cinnamon.
    A display of Lampe Berger vessels.
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    Anoint an unscented dryer sheet, washcloth or a handkerchief with the scent and then use it as a dryer sheet.
    Add five to six drops of your preferred scent and put it in the dryer with your clothes. When you put the clothes away, this will give your closet and drawers an aroma and the scent will also linger in the fabric of your clothing when you put it on.
    Apply essential oil to a washcloth and throw it in the dryer with your clothes.
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    Create the scent by baking the real thing, as would be the case with creating an apple pie with cinnamon scent or a banana bread scent.
    Have the dessert in the oven or warming in the oven for a half-an-hour before your male guest arrives at your house.
    An apple pie baking in the oven can help put a male in the mood.
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    Use the real item, instead of essential oil.
    For instance, instead of using rose-scented oil to perfume your home, have a bouquet of roses out on the table instead.
    Instead of essential oil or a synthetic fragrance, use the real thing, such as this bouquet of roses.
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    Keep scented bars of soap or liquid soap near your bathroom and kitchen sinks.
    You can buy soap at most drug stores and gift stores that attract men in scent such as vanilla, orange, sandalwood and lavender. Some soaps, such as lavender or sandalwood, have such a powerful aroma that you don't even have to open the package to smell them.
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    Have him remember you by leaving a scented item, such as a handkerchief at his home, in his car or in at his office.
    That way he will be subtly reminded of your presence and may even be prompted to text or call you.
    Grapefruit scented soap is widely available.
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Natural Scents That Attract Men

Raw vanilla beans and cinnamon sticks.

Here is a list of natural scents that have been scientifically proved to provoke a sexual response in men. You can deploy the essential oil form in the way described above in the Ways to Deploy Scents That Attract Men section of this article above or in some of the other ways suggested below.

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  1. 1
    Use fresh basil or basil essential oil to trigger his interest in you.
    4711 Aqua Colonia is a nice example of basil and blood orange perfume made from organic essential oils. Orange oil, which stimulates joyous feelings, helps augment the sexually stimulating qualities of the basil. You can also buy a big bunch of fresh basil at a market and have it sitting in a vase on a dining room table. Serving up a salad that contains fresh basil leaves or a pasta blended with fresh pesto (can also be served up as an aphrodisiac. You can also chop up fresh basil, add it to lemonade, and serve it over ice.
    Fresh basil in a vase helps scent a room.
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    Use the scent of cinnamon to stimulate his libido and get his sexual attention.
    You can wear a bit of the oil or keep cinnamon scented soap in the bathroom. Lampe Berger sells a popular cinnamon orange scent that can be used as a fuel in their designer lamps. However, cinnamon really excels as an aroma in baking. Bake some cinnamon rolls or cinnamon coffee cake about a half an hour before your male friend comes over to get him in the mood for romance. At the office, you can bring in Cinnabons or donuts powdered with cinnamon to get his attention.
    Cinnamon=scented frame.
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    Use the scent of jasmine to stimulate his desire.
    The reason that jasmine oil is found as an ingredient in so many commercial perfumes is because it contains indole, a scent that is reminiscent of the natural female aroma. Jasmine is widely available as an oil, and it is also a very commons scent in air fresheners, soaps, and hair products.
    Jasmine has an alluring scent.
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    Use the scent of lavender to relax the male and get him in the mood.
    Lavender has been used for centuries for this purpose and it is readily available in soaps, room sprays, essential oils and even dish soaps. Dried lavender petals can be put in sachets, left in clothing drawers or in your pockets and let inside of a pillow case. A flower vase filled with fresh or dried lavender buds can also emit a powerful, sexy and nurture aroma.
    A bouquet of lavender.
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    Use the scent of licorice to help boost your man's desire and libido.
    You can use essential oil of licorice in a diffuser, or you can simply get a big candy bowl and fill it with red or black licorice. A big bowl of Good n 'Plenty candies might accomplish the same thing. Fennel tea also emits the fragrance of licorice and so does root beer. You can also offer him a cocktail made with a licorice-scented alcohol such as [https// Pernod].
    A glass of Pernod smells like licorice.
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    Use Lily of the Valley perfume or oil to get his attention.
    This is a rarer essential oil or soap to find because it is very expensive to distill and considered to be a bit old-fashioned, but it has a unique smell that is very feminine. [htttps:// Yardley] still makes the soap. The essential oil is very delicate and best dispersed through cold steam in a diffuser or vaporizer.
    Lily of the Valley has a scent that males find attractive.
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    Use the scent of pink grapefruit as a way of making him possibly perceive you to be younger than you actually are.
    You can buy pink grapefruit in pre-made soaps, body oil, and citrus gels and you can also get this scent in everything from air fresheners to dish soap. Another way of getting the scent into your room is to simply keep a big bowl of fresh pink grapefruit on your dining room table or in your office. You could also serve him a vodka and grapefruit cocktail, also known as a Greyhound.
    A Greyhound cocktail.
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    The scent of fresh buttered popcorn is an aphrodisiac for men.
    The simplest way to deploy this scent is to make some in his presence so that the aroma wafts through the area and then offer him some to eat.
    A bowl of fresh, hot buttered popcorn.
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    Use sandalwood to enhance his desire and sexual response.
    This is a woody scent that is available in a lot of commercial perfumes and it is also quite easy to find it as soap. Sandalwood essential oil can be used in any way that you like to perfume the air. A simple way to enhance your sex life is to keep a bowl of sandalwood chips near your bed. You can also perfume your clothing by keeping sandalwood chips in your closet and drawers. Tibetan prayer beads, made of rosewood, are soaked in sandalwood oil and you can hang these anywhere, to impart the fragrance.
    Sandalwood chips.
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    Use the smell of vanilla to boost male feelings of desire, euphoria, and relaxation.
    Vanilla is a known aphrodisiac that is added to soaps, candles, perfumes and room deodorizers. It is one of the easiest scents to find in a pre-made product. You can also blend the essential oil with just about any oil, cream or soap. However, if you really want to attract a man, add a teaspoon of vanilla extract to such treats as muffins, ice cream, yogurt, and smoothies. You can also serve the man a dish of vanilla ice cream or a vanilla milkshake to get him in the mood or you can serve up a vanilla-based custard or cake for dessert. To be extra seductive, make a vanilla cake batter or vanilla icing and let him lick the spoon or beaters.
    A dish of vanilla ice cream.
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Tips and Tricks

Pumpkin pie is aphrodisiac in nature because it contains both cinnamon and vanilla.

  • Serve your lover pumpkin pie, which contains both cinnamon and vanilla, to stimulate sexual interest
  • Stay away from dousing yourself in commercial perfumes, which can act more as a repellent than an attractant because they are too strong
  • There are many scents that are so expensive (costing over a thousand dollars an ounce), that they are often sold only as synthetic chemical replications such as Otto Rose or Gardenia that will not have the same erotic effect
  • Never use an essential oil straight on your skin, unless you have bought it prediluted with carrier oil
  • Do not apply essential oils directly to delicate fabrics such as silk or expensive cotton or they will stain
  • It is hard to find a licorice scented soap or candle, but you can use fennel essential oil, which has a similar aroma and add it manually to a candle or unscented lotion
  • Cinnamon powder can be dusted on top of a candle to give it a pleasant aroma
  • You can make a seductive cocktail, called the Basil Smash by adding a half cup of chopped fresh basil along with a couple of slices of fresh lemon to a cocktail shaker filled with two ounces of gin and serve it over ice as a beverage.
  • You can carry a scent with you by buying little vials that be worn as a necklace and anointing yourself with the oil whenever you need to

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