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Sweet message for my boyfriend while he is busy?


When your boyfriend is busy it is important that you leave him a sweet message without needing a reply to the message or expect a message to come back to you instantly. Certain messages will cause him to be angry when you send them if the message is one that needs a reply such as these messages:

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"What are you doing?"

"Can you talk right now?"

"Do you love me?"

"When are you going home?"

See messages like these cause him to know that he needs to reply, but is too busy to do it so in response you may not get anything or you may get a short message which will cause you to be upset at his response.

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Messages such as these are acceptable:

1. "Just saying that I love you and hope you have a good day"

2. "I love you just wanted to say that hopefully, it brightens up your day"

3. " I know you are busy but just wanted to let you know that I was thinking about you"

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My boyfriend is too busy. What to say?

He is busy in his brother's wedding preparation. We don't talk, and it has been two months. what should I say to start the talk? how can I call him to meet?


Text him and offer to help him with the preparation. Let him know that you want to see him but understand that he has things to do for the wedding so you would like to help him and spend time with him at the same time. Wedding preparations usually do not take 24/7 dedication so he may be distancing himself for other reasons.

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If he rejects the offer to spend time then you need to ask him why he is avoiding you. He may then give you the real reason or, at least, give you some of his time. There will be an awkward reconnecting period between you two but if you and he are willing to make the effort, things will work out.

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My boyfriend is always busy with his study?

He is just busy with his studying


Understand that his education takes priority. Summers and holiday breaks will be what you can look forward to so perhaps ask if he would like you to plan some summer activities and focus on that. You should still text him to keep the communication going because at least you will be able to say hello without disturbing him too much.

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My boyfriend is too busy with his school or is he making up excuses to not talk to me?

My boyfriend and I are all in different varsity and he's too busy with his school work. He hardly replies my SMS or if he did, he will cut our conversation short. I find it hard to SMS or call him, and all I do is wait for him to look for me which will happen once or never in a week. I feel like he's wasting my time.

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When you are in school and there is the pressure of exam preparation and dorm social life, relationships can get pushed to the side. Have a conversation with him that right now it might be best if you both start seeing other people or at put your relationship on hold. It is not fair to try to hang on to a few calls or texts a month.

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If your relationship is what you would consider serious then the next time you are together you should think about putting a spy app on his phone if you have any doubts that he may be meeting other girls then you will at least get your answer of just how busy he is with school work vs. social interaction.

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How to deal with a busy boyfriend?

I'm in a relationship about one year but he is so busy on starting and he has never called me or sent me text messages. I'm the only one who called but when I call him he rejects my call or he is talking with someone else, I don't know what to do

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If you are still seeing him in person on a regular basis then maybe you should still make the effort of making contact daily with the text messages. A really busy person does not exclude or dismiss on purpose but because they are so focused on work or school it is hard to think about anything else during that time. He makes you a secondary choice at the moment and if you think things will change then stay but perhaps it is time to look for someone that can give you some quality time.

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Hi, my boyfriend said he has been too busy lately which caused him to be cold and distant?

Hi, my boyfriend said he has been too busy lately which caused him to be cold and distant. Our text conversation is becoming less and he usually replies with one or two words. Now, I try not to contact him for days and he doesn't even bother to text. I don't know what to do. His last message to me was I love you too when I said I love you. He still calls me babe, Hun and our terms of endearment but I honestly feel he is already losing interest. I have tried: Talking to him, told him how I felt, how to resolve it. I think it was caused by: Our misunderstanding last time where he didn't like my attitude

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Continue to text him and be careful of that attitude. You can still get ruffled with anger but watch how you convey it. He backed off because he is avoiding conflict. Continue to send him messages of endearment and give him some time to adjust. Hopefully, he will begin to feel comfortable around you again soon.

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He is always busy and stressed out about money issues. We live together?

He doesn't spend much time with me. Intimate moments disappeared. I have tried: Talking with him, give options... I think it was caused by: He has been on his own long time

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My boyfriend doesn't want me. How do I grab his attention?

I know that he loves me. He tells me whenever he gets the chance. But there are times that I try to see if he'd fight to keep me, and he doesn't. He wouldn't chase after me. I've never felt so unimportant in my whole life. I'm constantly trying to show him that I love him and he responds with moments that feel like he's saying, "Okay. That's nice but I'm busy." And that kills me. I don't know if my body's trying to play catch up because I've never kissed a guy before him, but I kind of just always want to be kissing him... But he's not the same way. He couldn't care less if I never kiss him again. I can't help but feel alone. My friends don't talk to me as much anymore... Garrett has even been hanging out with me less. He hung out with me all the time when we were just friends. A part of me can't help but wonder, If I broke up with him, would he hang out with me again? But I love him! I can't break up with him! I wouldn't be able to spend the time with him the way I wanted. You'd think that since I've got a boyfriend now, I'd feel less alone. . .... But actually... I feel even more alone. I love him, but I hate this. I have tried: I've thrown myself at him every chance I've gotten, but the response has always been a resounding, "not now"

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And I've tried the "Fine, I'm not interested either" act, but, he just says, "Okay." and walks away.

I've tried confronting him about it, but then he says he doesn't want to argue or lose me and I get his attention for the rest of the evening, but the next day we're back to the way things were. I think it was caused by: I don't know. He said that he could care less about sex. Maybe I'm just insecure because the first time he kissed me and the first time I said "I love you" He started to talk about his ex. When I brought that up to him, he didn't even seem to realize he did it. Maybe it's because of our sense of sarcastic humor that he never knows when I'm being serious or not.

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Maybe I'm just insane because I just want him to myself all the time.

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I broke out with my boyfriend in July last year but am not sure whether I did right?

He is a trader, traveling a lot and really dedicated to his work. I was clear about this but he couldn't make time for me during one year. During this year he was replying to most of my texts but was always abroad or sick. In May last year a friend of mine spotted him having a drink with a woman in a neighboring town . I texted him saying that I saw him there. He asked why I didn't stop to say hello. I answered that I found it inappropriate given the nature of his appointment. He said, "not at all". A short time after he asked me out for dinner but didn't make it didn't cancel the appointment and didn't apologize. Then, his father had an open heart surgery. I recreated a profile in the social network where we met and where he still had a profile. I had immediately invisible person visits and found out that my ex-boyfriend created a new profile of him and was being very active. I texted him saying that I was back to this social network as 1 year of never happening appointments made it clear that there was a good reason for things not to happen. He didn't react. I continue having invisible visitor's visits to my profile and strange enough at the same time when my ex-boyfriend first visited as an invisible person and then contacted a woman who I know to ask her to go out. I suspect that he keeps an eye on me. I'm wondering whether I did the right thing as it seems that I have unresolved feelings for him. What shall I do ? Please advise. Thank you

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Is my boyfriend facing some difficulties?

Hi, I am in a relationship for 2 months now. At first, my boyfriend was so eager to do everything for me. He often calls and texts me, and we often meet. As time passed, I have observed that he used to call and text me only morning (good morning) and evening (goodnight). All of a sudden. Lately, I was admitted to the hospital for half a day (stomach ache). He called me to say how I am feeling. I was expecting that he will visit me at home, unfortunately, he never called me back for a follow-up check and never visited me at home. I spoke to him and asked so many questions regarding this issue and he just answered that he knew that I am well. Please help me, which step should I go through.

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What to do when you boyfriend answers really late?

Relationship with my boyfriend started 2 weeks ago. We both study at the same university, and he wants to see me all the time. The problem is we don't see each other every day surely, so the main communication item here is texting. But he really answers my messages slowly, in 2-3 hours. Most of the times he is the one who writes me first, but when I write him back, it takes really long for him to answer. I told him many times about this issue, and he just told me he is busy (with his friends, or some other stuff). I really hate when he replies late, and every time I told him he seem to understood. But he keeps doing it, and I don't know what to do. Please help me with this issue. I have tried: I told him about this issue, he seems to understood but continues doing it. I think it was caused by: He tells he is busy. He says he has the stuff to do, or he is with his friends and does not have time to check for messages every minute.

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My boyfriend behaves weird, his phone is always busy especially late night?

Hi, I am in a relationship since 2 years and my boyfriend was never like that, now it seems he has started losing interest or probably he is cheating on me. Last whole week we had a fight and could not meet, otherwise, we use to meet every day, I was unwell so could not meet him. We had few fights and issues going on between us but we do meet regularly no matter what. His life was like open book previously, now since last week whenever I try calling him his phone is busy. Previously he used to tell me he was on a call with this friend, that one, etc. I believe in giving space but late nights calls and avoiding me is creating doubts inside me. I tried asking him and clarifying with him but this time he just denied everything and told me not to control him and to focus on health issues. At the same time, he tells me he is not dating anyone less but he is not opening up about late night calls to my calls go on waiting and he is not bothered to reply back and keeps telling me I am spying on him. Please help I tried talking to him he says his life is open book but I think he is cheating on me.

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How to be affected less by the fact that my boyfriend's communication has reduced a whole lot?

My boyfriend works full time and he recently started a part-time MBA degree. both of these are stressing him out. I don't completely understand what he is going through but I want to be supportive and I am sometimes but he barely texts me. I feel forgotten and not special enough and as his girlfriend, I want his attention. I know am being selfish but I don't know what to do. am thinking maybe it's because uni is closed and I haven't kept myself well occupied but at the same time I don't want our relationship to be drowning because of us both being so occupied with life and its challenges that we forget each other.. I have tried: I have tried telling him about him, I have tried remaining positive and I have tried keeping myself distracted. I think it was caused by: His work and school pressure. he has many school deadlines

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Total change in my boyfriend's character.. please help?

I met my boyfriend when I went in search of a job in London ..and he too was a guy from my same country and we just got along so well ..as our native country was the same and we speak the same native language.. we lived together with few other friends and things fired up between us gradually and we made out one day ...and from then on we were like couple who always hold hands .. . initially I wasn't much emotionally connected with him but he was... he used to see me every day .. he just cannot live without seeing me and he would feel restless if he doesn't hear from me when he is at work.. . . after 4 months of our togetherness...we both decided to quit our jobs in London and planned to move back to our native to start our career in our homeland... but ever since we got back.. he is a total new person .. seems like to me here in his native he has much more diversions like his friends ,family, etc..and I'm given the least priority ... in fact I have to beg him to meet me .for no reason he changed his character.. and I'm wondering if he was all that nice in London because he was alone with no family and friends,..and he had only me ..so he and I were like a couple, but ever since we both are in same native just 6miles in distance.. he doesn't even come to visit me .. and if I make this an issue and stop talking to him ,..he doesn't even initiate or try to contact me... its been 10days since he has called or texted me .. but he was not this type of a person back in London. (he would get really upset even if I didn't reply for 30mins, he would leave his work and come to check on me). . please help me... I want my boyfriend to change like how he was :(. I'm totally confused.

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when I didn't care about him, he was very caring.

but it has been 3 months of wonderful love in London and I'm sure it cannot be this quick to get boring.

we started dating in April 2016 our love lasted only until July, after that its been only me nagging how he has changed and not like before, and he always seems to have reasons and it doesn't sound all that busy!

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