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Detect if your girlfriend likes another guy

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How do I know if my girlfriend is losing interest in me?

Lately, she has been shying away from saying I love you and she doesn't seem enthusiastic about talking to me anymore. I have tried: I've been trying to find the problem and talking in a happy way. I think it was caused by: We had a few fights recently but I have done everything I could have done to say I'm sorry and how much I regret making her mad

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If you have had a few fights recently, she may be distancing herself because she is still mad at you or unsure of how to react/speak to you now. Especially if this was one of your bigger fights in this relationship. All relationships have highs and lows. The strength of your relationship is built on how you both handle disagreements or arguments. Instead of waiting to know if she loves you, tell her how much you love her. Remind her of why she fell in love with you in the first place. Maybe reconstruct your first date with her or plan a night of her favorite take out and movie/TV show.

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Why is she always interested in other people?

She talks about other guys. It makes me jealous


There are girls who have been through different relationships and upbringing: for some, it is a norm to discuss members of the opposite gender with their partners as if they are speaking to a confidant. As long as she does not compare you with other guys, those are safe discussions. Many love to talk about luminaries, describing their positive sides that the partner may not have. Please be aware that it is still innocuous. They do not know those people in person and just may idolize some of their qualities. If you cannot overcome jealousy, then you might ask your partner to reflect upon her sentiments if she and you were to exchange places. You also ought to note that if you were to ask her not to contact members of the opposite gender, she would continue doing so without telling you anything or she would feel that she is controlled too much in the relationship, which is not good at all. However, if she starts to compare you to other people and mock some of your qualities, then you may want to get a relationship advice.

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How to tell if my wife is interested in other men?

It's silly but one night while we were out of town we were in a hotel. As luck would have it the fire alarm went off in the middle of the night. Of course, everyone was rushed to the lobby and as we got there in walked 4 firemen. May have handed me our daughter and had our son between her and me. I noticed her looking at these guys and each time I got close to her she would find a way to gently move away from me. Also, I noticed her flipping her hair back and constantly exposing her neck. Of course, when I asked her about it, she got mad and denied doing any of it

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You are making too much out of her actions. Seriously. She may have been nervous or stressed out because you had children out in the middle of the night waiting for the hotel to be cleared of a fire. It is not as if she jumped into one of the firemen's arms and passed her phone number to him. She was probably just moving around out of anxiety. Perhaps, she was flipping her hair back out of a calming habit of hers. If you have that much concern about your relationship or faithfulness of your wife, then you need to do some serious soul searching.

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Is she interested in me or just keeping me for a while then she will dump me?

Hi, we have been together for 4 years and have a child of 2 months, my girlfriend doesn't clean, doesn't cook, don't wash my clothes. She only goes out and drinks until late hours every day. She does tell me where she is, sometimes she lies and says she will be back in one hour but instead goes and drink for long hours. She doesn't care and doesn't listen

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Was this her behavior before or just after the birth of your child together. It appears that she may be suffering from postpartum depression and self-treating with alcohol. You should speak with a mental health professional about her behavior or at the very least, her family members. She may require an "intervention" to get her into therapy/substance abuse counseling. Unfortunately, if she refuses to get help, then you need to consider single parenting on your own immediately for the safety of your child. Even though you may love her, your child should take precedence over your personal feelings for the mother. As a father, you by law, are responsible for the safety and welfare of this child.

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