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Is she interested in me or just keeping me for a while then she will dump me?
Hi, we have been together for 4 years and have a child of 2 months, my girlfriend doesn't clean, doesn't cook, don't wash my clothes. She only goes out and drinks until late hours every day. She does tell me where she is, sometimes she lies and says she will be back in one hour but instead goes and drink for long hours. She doesn't care and doesn't listen
Was this her behavior before or just after the birth of your child together. It appears that she may be suffering from postpartum depression and self-treating with alcohol. You should speak with a mental health professional about her behavior or at the very least, her family members. She may require an "intervention" to get her into therapy/substance abuse counseling. Unfortunately, if she refuses to get help, then you need to consider single parenting on your own immediately for the safety of your child. Even though you may love her, your child should take precedence over your personal feelings for the mother. As a father, you by law, are responsible for the safety and welfare of this child.
How do I know if my girlfriend is losing interest in me?
Lately, she has been shying away from saying I love you and she doesn't seem enthusiastic about talking to me anymore. I have tried: I've been trying to find the problem and talking in a happy way. I think it was caused by: We had a few fights recently but I have done everything I could have done to say I'm sorry and how much I regret making her mad
If you have had a few fights recently, she may be distancing herself because she is still mad at you or unsure of how to react/speak to you now. Especially if this was one of your bigger fights in this relationship. All relationships have highs and lows. The strength of your relationship is built on how you both handle disagreements or arguments. Instead of waiting to know if she loves you, tell her how much you love her. Remind her of why she fell in love with you in the first place. Maybe reconstruct your first date with her or plan a night of her favorite take out and movie/TV show.
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