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One word to say a girl to forgive you?

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There's not one specific word you can give a girl to make her forgive you. Every girl is different; they might also like to hear more than one word when you're apologizing for something you did wrong. A great way to start off an apology to a girl is to tell her you need to talk to her to apologize.

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I need a girl who is really mad at me to forgive me?

She won't crack, no matter what I bribed her and everything

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Your question is a bit light on the details, but basically, your intent should never be to "crack" another person or "bribe" them for attention as that indicates a relationship built on emotional blackmail and a focus on control, rather on an exchange of real love. Your best bet is to rethink your attitude about what she is feeling and why and then offer an apology. You may also have to give it some time, depending on what you did to make her mad, before contacting her again. The best thing to do is apologize with a handwritten letter, flowers and a big promise, such as one of marriage, should she agree to speak with you again. Unfortunately a text is probably not going to help things in this case as she sees you as someone who emotionally baits others and then disappoints.

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I am adding to this answer because I don't agree with it. You should never marry this person. If they are so unforgiving your marriage would be a living hell. Run while you still can. Consider this a blessing in disguise. Dating and going out with someone is all about learning who they are and if you want to spend the rest of your life with them. In this case the answer should be NO!

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How can I make her forgive me and make her accept me again?

I have hurt her a lot by my words, shouting, make her feel she is always wrong till she exploded and rejected to marry me after we had already booked everything

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Lots of engagements end this way. The pressure and stress of planning a wedding can make our tempers flare more than they should. Remind her that you love her and apologize deeply for your anger towards her. Explain to her what was triggering this behavior such as planning the wedding. Remind her that you want to spend the rest of your life with her and promise to think before you speak in the future. It is better to walk away than yell at someone. When we take a few minutes and thing outside of the situation then we can calmly respond rather than yell.

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How to get my friend with benefits to forgive me?

So me and my best friend have been "talking" for a few months now, and everything was going well, until about a week ago. We've been doing nonstop arguing the past 3 or 4 days and even came to the conclusion of just telling her to stop talking to me altogether, I don't want to lose her because I actually have feelings for her. How do I get us back to how we were before without the arguing?

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When emotional romantic feelings like love enter a friendship there can be higher amounts of tension. You need to convey to her your feelings and apologize for pushing her away. Explain to her that you were confused by the overwhelming feelings that you have for her and needed time to process if this was really how you felt. Telling her the truth about how you feel will hopefully bring her back.

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I broke my girl's heart, how do I get her to forgive me?

Me and a bunch of friends made a bet that all of us had to make a girl fall for us then break up with them but I really did fall in love with this girl and I told my friends I wanted to quit because I really did love her but my friend told her all about the bet, now she hates me

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This sounds like a Romantic Comedy. She has a right to be upset after she learned that her relationship with you was all about a bet. If you want to make it right with her then you need to pursue her and drop the friends for awhile. It would not be a good idea to bring them around her or mention hanging out with your friends to her.

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She may not believe that you are sincere. Make an effort to show her daily that you are in love with her and could care less about the bet. It was also rather petty of your friends to tell her about the bet when you asked to rescue yourself from the running.

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How to tell a girl sweet words as to love you like in the first day?

I am thinking about someone, I believe she only has peek interest in me because of my family not for money, she can't love me

Showing your interest of her will be noticed far more than any words. You can compliment her and let her know that you find her extremely interesting. You can't make someone love you but you can try to make them see what a great person you are.

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Ways to make her forgive me, we live in a long distance?

I accused her of something that she is angry of

Call a local florist near her and send flowers to her house or work. Send her songs that mean something to your relationship or ones that you know she likes. Trust is hard to gain in a Long Distance Relationship so explain that you will work on trusting her in the future. Maybe you can plan a trip to see her or arrange travel for her to come see you.

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How will she forgive me if I hit her?

I did slap her on her face and pulled her hair.

Violence is never okay. Even my 6 and 8 year old children get reprimanded when they fight. As adults, we should never raise our hands unless it is for self defense. Unfortunately, unless you learn to cope with your anger in other ways you are on the road to becoming a domestic batterer. If she chooses not to forgive you, then you need to accept that. Perhaps over time you may be able to move on with your relationship but you definitely will have to prove to her that you will not make that mistake of violence again.

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How to say sorry to a girl I like, whom I always hurt?

I have a crush on her but she doesn't have. We are very close friend and she cares for me a lot. I always get mad at her but she always forgive me. Last night I did the same thing and as always she forgave me but this time things between us are not as good as it used to be. So I want some sweet lines to make things better.

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People can only take so much of the same behavior and apology cycle before they break. You have reached that limit with her and from now on you need to respect her and treat her as a friend and not a bashing toy. You can't get mad at her and take out your frustrations and expect her to stick around. Work on your communication skills to heal this friendship.

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How can I tell a girl why she needs to stay when the money is up making?

I barely call and she wants to live. I have tried: Explaining to her why she need not to go. I think it was caused by: Calls and not caring

You lost your chance to show her how much you cared for her. Now if you want to win her back you will have to make the effort and show her that she is a priority in your life. This may mean making some dramatic changes but if you love her than those changes will be worth it.

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Hi, I hurt my girlfriend feeling by telling her how many girls I had dated?

Hi, I hurt my girlfriend feeling by telling her how many girls I had dated

You put a lot of doubt in her head when you told her about all your former conquests. Now she is analyzing if she is just one of those girls in the long line that you have dated previously. Show her that you think she is different from those other girls and that you want more with her than just the casual dating you had in the past. You will have to show her some kind of security. This way she will know that she has a chance at a future with you.

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How to apologize in sweet words for being too jealous?

She went out with her friend, I thought it was with a guy only to later find out it was with her best friend. I want to apologize for being jealous.

It is so annoying when people assume something such as cheating. You do not want to lose her and your reaction was out of insecurity so tell her how you feel. There is nothing wrong with a little insecurity and if you open up to her it will smooth out the situation that you are in.

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Clarification on my girl decision?

My girlfriend is mad because I told her to meet me outside but it was raining that day. She also said she was sick but I never knew it was serious. she felt like I was forcing her to do something she won't do.. she called me later and saying we should be friends.

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You did not take her seriously. What she needed from you was a warm bowl of chicken soup and instead, you ignored that she was sick and asked that she wait for you outside in the rain. No one wants to stand in the rain even when they are not sick. As her boyfriend, you should have parked the car and met her inside since it was raining. Apologize for being a complete idiot and not acknowledging that she was sick. The next time she even gets a sniffle you need to pamper her and show her that you care.

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How can I convince her to forgive me, me and my girl had a problem last night .. and she doesn't want to talk like now. She blocked me?

Hi, me and my girl had a problem last night .. and she doesn't want to talk like now. She blocked me

Write her a letter of apology and leave it on her car or at her door. She is probably just mad right now and blocked you out of frustration. Write the letter and give her time to cool off. Do not bring up the argument but instead just take the blame and ask for a second chance.

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I just hurt my wife, she's 5 months pregnant, she left with all her clothing?

I hope she will never come back, that is what she told me before leaving,. I have tried: Apologized but she did not accept It.. I think it was caused by: Coming home late.

As a woman, I can attest to the fact that when we are pregnant we can get over emotional and react differently than we normally would. Her words of never returning were out of anger and she is pregnant with your child so it will be complicated to avoid you forever. The fact that she packed up everything says that she suspected something already and you coming home late was the last straw. Get on your knees in front of her and beg for her to come back. In the future, it would be wise to not stay out late unless you clear it with her. Right now she is thinking in terms of family and you are thinking just you and her. You staying out late tells her that you are not responsible enough to be a parent.

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What must I say to her to show her that I am sorry for beating her?

Me and my girlfriend had a fight and I ended up beating her, I want to ask her for forgiveness and I can't lose her because she is everything to me

OK Chris Brown, if she was your everything then you would have kept your hands to yourself. If you love your car would you take it down the street and drive into a wall just because the windshield was cracked? Your actions of violence towards her need to be rectified. You are lucky that you are not in jail for domestic assault. If you keep up with not addressing your anger issues then eventually someday you may end up in jail or hurting someone and taking their life.

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Beating your girlfriend is never okay. An apology will not just magically fix the situation. If she walks away forever you can't fault her because you forced her to leave when you hit her.

What do I do, she has just met someone else?

I have just passed my 2 years anniversary with my long distance girlfriend. Only a couple of days ago she told me she had met someone and that she wanted to try to be with him because he made her feel loved which she says she has never felt before. I have tried to talk about this with her but she has decided to walk away and is now with another person.. . We have had ups and downs in the 2 years. I guess it all really started in October last year when she came to visit me, and I didn't put as much as effort as I could have to take her places. She told me she felt unloved and that I didn't care for her. That I would do or not do things at the right time or say things that I should or not say. Which made her believe that I didn't care. I honestly care for her and the only excuse I have is my naivety. I overlooked it or thought that what I chose to do was the right thing to do in a caring way.. . But the biggest mistake was only recently when we went through an abortion. She told me she had a positive test result so I called her straight away and told her we would get through this together what ever happens. I asked her what she wanted to do and she said she didn't want to keep it. I agreed as it was too early for her career. I offered to go see her if she needed me but I didn't end up going. On the day of the operation I realized how much it took out of her and I immediately regret not flying to her for the operation. I basically did nothing, which is what she feels, I didn't offer to marry her which I had every intention of if she wanted to keep the child but I didn't make it explicitly clear.. . Now I'm here trying to figure out how I lost the most important thing to me. My life has no meaning anymore. My chest hurts all the time. I can barely sleep and only sleep because I am exhausted from staying up till 4AM in the morning. I want to make this right, I know I cared for her. But I at the same time can see the pain in her point of view, I left her there at the time she needed me the most - alone. I want to give everything to make it up to her but at the same time I feel like we will never be able to recover.

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How can I get her back, despite there being someone else?

I have just passed my 2 year anniversary with my long distance girlfriend. Only a couple of days ago she told me she had met someone and that she wanted to try to be with him because he made her feel loved which she says she has never felt before. I have tried to talk about this with her but she has decided to walk away and is now with another person.. . We have had ups and downs in the 2 years. I guess it all really started in October last year when she came to visit me, and I didn't put as much as effort as I could have to take her places. She told me she felt unloved and that I didn't care for her. That I would do or not do things at the right time or say things that I should or not say. Which made her believe that I didn't care. I honestly care for her and the only excuse I have is my naivety. I overlooked it or thought that what I chose to do was the right thing to do in a caring way.. . But the biggest mistake was only recently when we went through an abortion. She told me she had a positive test result so I called her straight away and told her we would get through this together what ever happens. I asked her what she wanted to do and she said she didn't want to keep it. I agreed as it was too early for her career. I offered to go see her if she needed me but I didn't end up going. On the day of the operation I realized how much it took out of her and I immediately regret not flying to her for the operation. I basically did nothing. Which is what she feels, I didn't offer to marry her which I had every intention of if she wanted to keep the child but I didn't make it explicitly clear.. . Now I'm here trying to figure out how I lost the most important thing to me. My life has no meaning anymore. My chest hurts all the time. I can barely sleep and only sleep because I am exhausted from staying up till 4am in the morning. I want to make this right, I know I cared for her. But I at the same time can see the pain in her point of view, I left her there at the time she needed me the most - alone.. I have tried: I tried talking to her on a video call. At first she refused saying she didn't feel like talking. When I finally got a chance I asked her about this new person, how long it has been happening, how he makes her feel loved. She asked me why I didn't offer to marry her. I told her I did when I said whatever happens I had every intention to marry her if she wasn't sure if she wanted to keep it. So when I asked her what she wanted I agreed with her. I didn't say it explicitly because I just didn't want to say I would marry her but not end up going through with it if she chose not to keep it. I told her I regret not going for the operation. We ended the call on goodbye. I couldn't help by agree with her choice, I did the worst thing possible to her. Only now because I love her I want to make it up to her.. I think it was caused by: I think it was at the end of the day my stupidity. I should have gone. I should have taken up her hints. I don't know why I did those things. I had every good intention in mind. It's just that I approached it all wrong.

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" I didn't offer to marry her which I had every intention of if she wanted to keep the child". That phrase right there is your first mistake. To put conditions on the offer of marriage is not romantic. Getting married because of a pregnancy is not the reason most women want to say when they tell others about their marriage proposal. You absolutely should have been there when she went through the procedure. If you wanted this baby then you should have spoken up and at least been there in person to help her figure out the future. If you want a chance to repair this relationship, you need to take a gamble and go see her. It is also time to begin to figure out how you will be able to live in the same area and show her the plans.

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I have done wrong, big mistake!

We know each other since three months, we both love each other so much. But when I did wrong yesterday, a big mistake ever, she said she won't come back, she stopped loving me anymore, she wants to break up. What can I do? I don't want to break up, I really love her. She has always taken care of me, she loves me, she texts me everyday morning, everyday, so much, that I never forget her, and I do the same thing. Hope brother, you can help me.

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I had an argument with her and I went to a bar and grabbed few beers, when I came back she was all over my case and I punched her, what can I do to get her trust back?

I had an argument with her and I went to a bar and grabbed few beers, when I came back she was all over my case and I punched her, what can I do to get her trust back.. I love her so much though I hurt her. I have tried: Okay I told her how sorry I am and I owe her big time. I think it was caused by: Anger and jealousy

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