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Not bother your busy boyfriend

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Nice messages for a hard working boyfriend?


Any of the following messages will make him feel loved:

  • Hi,! I was thinking about you today. I'm proud of you for working so hard. Have a great day! :)
  • Hi, sweetie, have a great day at work today. Text me when you're done!
  • You're very important to me and I can't wait to talk to you when you're off of work!
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Anything along these lines will make him feel appreciated and loved.

What to text to my 17 year old boyfriend coming late from work?

My boyfriend always text me after coming from work but this time I want to surprise him, I want to text him something that will make him smile


Search on YouTube for some funny videos to share with him via text message. This will make him smile and entertain him.

My boyfriend is busy with his college work and I miss him. What should I do?

We don't live together. I'm 19 and he is 20. He has been busy with his college schedule for about a week and now I miss him terribly. I just want to talk to him for some time since its not possible for us to meet today because of his schedule. We both have a off from college today. He must be sleeping right now because the week must have been tiring for him. But I desperately want some of his time. I would love if he messages me sweet texts sometimes but he doesn't like doing that.

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The best way to show you support all the effort he is making, is by letting him relax today. Pushing yourself into his day will only make him resent the time spent. Be understanding that he has been putting all of his efforts into his college studies. One thing you could do is request a date for when you have college break in semesters. Then plan it around things that you know he would like to do.

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How can I adjust about my boyfriend? he is always busy or working?

He always busy, and he does not text me and call me, what can I do now? He said I try to adjust about his work, he tells me he loves me more, but I can't control myself, I want him always to text me and call me! That's why we are always arguing each other, please help me on how to mange this, thank you

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If the texting and calling is not working for him, then suggest that the two of you meet more often in person. If he turns down the chance to see you in person every single time, then it could be that he is not interested in having a relationship at all and does not have any easy way to let you down. It could be that you have displayed so much drama and separation anxiety around the idea of texting and calling that he is now avoiding you just for that. If that is the case, then ease up on the demands as the tight leash you are putting him on is making him feel smothered and like you don't trust him.

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More questions and answers on this topic can be found here: A heart touching good night text message to my boyfriend to make him smile before going to bed

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Actually we don't get much time to spend together and he is quite disturbed because of this, I want a cute long message to comfort him?

Actually, we don't get much time to spend together and he is quite disturbed because of this, I want a cute long message to comfort him

The good news is that he is communicating that he wishes he had more time to spend with you. Give him some text messages in the forms of coupons. Things like This message entails you to 15 minutes of time with me redeemable at your discretion" or "This message entails you a lunch date on Saturday". Giving him these will show him that you also want to spend time with him. It will also give him a sense of control in the matter which will help with the situation.

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How to get him in my side when he has more work?

He is an engineering student, so he have to do lots of work. he has no time to see me

Get a Busy Boyfriend's Attention is a VisiHow article with some suggestions for you. The most important thing right now in his life is to carry on his education. You will have to support and understand this if you want to stay in this relationship. Perhaps start doing more hobbies you enjoy or spend more time with your group of friends. This will help to take your mind off of being alone while he is studying.

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