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My long distance boyfriend is a full time dad of 3 boys?

He texts me good morning every day and calls me angel, says I'm amazing, but doesn't flirt with me like he used to. He says he's just "got a lot going on right now". I gave him my support and backed off some. I'm just getting mixed signals. I feel like he is just stringing me along. We reconnected a few months ago after a year long separation. He came back. But never gave me a good reason why except I'm really good looking and he wants me in his life.. I have tried: He definitely knows how I feel about him. He thinks I'm a wonderful person and he enjoys my company. I asked if I could help him with What's going on with him but he never gives me any detail about his life and rarely asks about mine.. I think it was caused by: I'm afraid he is seeing someone else. He has several local girls as friends on Facebook. He says he's not like most guys because he has 3 sons he's practically raising on his own. We've seen each other once in the last three months and we were both very happy together.

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When I called my boyfriend, he said call me later, I am busy. I told him that I am disturbed maybe I have offended him but he said sorry, that I did nothing to him. Do I quite him or should I continue with this?

When I called my boyfriend, he said call me later, I am busy. I told him that I am disturbed maybe I have offended him but he said sorry, that I did nothing to him. Do I quite him or should I continue with this?

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If a person is working, engaged in his hobby, or studying, he may sound curt, too official and distanced, or compendious and even decline an incoming call. That behavior is quite normal, and you can talk it over beforehand or afterwards. For example, let him know that if something very important happens, then you call back again or write a message. However, if there is no plausible explanation given to the incident later on, then he may be either doing something that he does not want you to know or hold a grudge against you. If he continues doing that without explanation, refer to our article on getting a relationship advice.

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We have been together for a short time, we were friends before and just became close, now that we are a couple he is very distant.

He got a promotion at work and is getting custody of three year old kid, but he ignores my calls and texts, how do I fix this. I have tried: I have tried to ask him, does he really have time for me with all that is going on. I have asked him what should I do to get his attention. I have asked him what does he want and does he want the relationship. I have even asked him if he is he seeing someone else or is he playing games although we both said that we are done with the games. I think it was caused by: I really don't know what caused this unless I was pushing to fast .

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I have been talking to a guy for 3 months, and now that I'm ready to see him he ignores me?

I have been talking to a guy for 3 months, and now that I'm ready to see him he ignores me, and has played as it seems games with me he canceled the first date said he was sick and then after that the texting became mostly videos of him and his cat and other and ignoring me. I told him straight I don't put up with that and that the game is over. I have tried: I have tried to ask him when he called me, only because I told him if you don't call me now there is no tomorrow so he did, but he seemed a bit distant and mad at me. I think it was caused by: I did tell him on his voice machine that he was a loser and to F-off but I said sorry about that other than that could be my so many texting

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I want the attention and to spend some time with my boyfriend?

I am divorced and have a light link with my ex boyfriend. He is a successful and busy businessman, fully engrossed with the business. I feel bad to disturb him as I know the weight on his shoulders. I love being with him, so does he enjoy it. At least spend some time during the weekend. He does not answer the call as he is in some meeting or other. I do not want to feel cheap by calling frequently. What should I do ?. I have tried: Texting him. I think it was caused by: He is too busy, but I wonder, sure he can find a few hours for us once a week.

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We are in a relationship since 6 months, and he completed his college and went for his job, no problem in that and I also knew that when he will get back to his job he will forget me, but the things which disturb me is that when we are in a relationship we have quality time he always used to say I love you, now he is whole changed. he gives me time only when I call him first. When I text him he sees my text and ignores it. He always speaks that take everything between us casually we should remain friends. I ask do you need a break, he tells to just be friends. Is he was very serious for me?

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My boyfriend is a lawyer. He has no time for me. He ignores my texts. When I want to talk about it, he avoids it. What to do?

He always ignores my texts. I even asked him to talk, to spend time when he is not busy, but he is not saying anything. He has time to play poker with friends but when I asked him for a date, he said he is busy. When I say things, he just ignores or avoids it, what to do?

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