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Do I need to push my feelings with my friend?

I have a friend, he is a boy, the more we are together the more I fall in love with him. I don't know if I will push this feeling or not because if I will push this, he may go away and I think he doesn't like me because he have a crush and that girl is not me

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You may regret for a long time (and this means decades) that you did not let your friend know how you feel. A true friend will always understand his friend and either respond you with a claim that his heart belongs to someone else or that he is ready to accept the situation and move one step up the relationship ladder with you. Even if you are answered with the former, the infatuation may be gone over time; and you will be recalled. Social embarrassment may happen either way, and you have to prepare to see him distance himself from you when he devotes all of his time to his partner if you decide not to reveal your feelings towards him. As a matter of fact, a lot of males really regret hearing from an old female friend after many years that they were being loved and not told about that: they're not having a chance to respond positively hurts them a lot too.

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How will I know that he is falling in love with me?

My friend is someone very important to me. I feel comfortable around him, he kissed me recently though he knows I have a boyfriend

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If my friend doesn't seem jealous of me and another guy but in the contrary seems super happy about it in a weird way, that means something?

I don't understand my feeling or my friend's feelings. I have tried: Because I'm confused. I think it was caused by: Me, I'm so silent about my feelings

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I love my guy friend and want to move on and forget this feeling?

I have this friend I met a year ago. We clicked and we had these intimate moments together, for the span of 4 months everything was fine, not until the 5th month, he kind of changed, he doesn't have any time for me and keeps telling me that he is busy. We haven't really talked what we really are, if a couple or just friends with benefits. I know inside of me, I felt something for him, then one day I just couldn't control myself and told him about my feelings, but he just told me that he only loves me as a friend and not more than that. That it is not the right time for us yet, that the time will come and we will be together. But later I found out that he is in a relationship with another girl, and that girl is living with him. It crushed my heart so bad, I'm so hurt inside then we fought and lost communication. After one year we meet again, and he keeps trying to spend time with me. He is asking me out for a drink and even for an out of town getaway just for us to talk and to be together. But the thing is I'm not so sure if he is still with the girl, I don't want to ask him also because I felt like it is kind of awkward. I don't want him to think that I still have feelings for him. I can't understand myself, I'm still hurt inside every time I see their videos and photos and see how happy they are together. I really don't know what to do, its eating my brain. I thought I was over him but I was wrong. I'm still having this pain in my heart every time I think about them. Please help, what should I do?

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What does he feel about me? is he falling for me?

He is always there when I need him. He always solves my problems. He helps me with my studies too. Sometimes I feel he cares for me and sometimes not. He is a very busy person, still, he finds time for me to help me on my studies, but he never calls me first, he just replies to my calls. He confuses me, he always handles all my dramas.

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How can I know that my female friend is falling for my guy friend?can I call that a betrayal?

I am very close to my male friend, and after one month, he met my new friend named Juliet Salomia, and when they got closer and closer my male friend is not paying attention to me as before, because of my new friend. After a week I've heard that they were already in a relationship, but my female friend is always denying that they have a relationship, and I don't know if is really true. I don't know if how I trust them. I hope that you understand my problem and how to solve it... I have tried: I've been trying so hard..and I already accepted that my guy friend loves her more than what he loves me... I think it was caused by: I don't know but I am so devastated at this time.

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How could I control my feelings toward my female best friend?

I have a female best friend whom I really like! We have been best friends for like 3 years, talking about any and everything in life, discussing our own problems and being totally comfortable with each other! I started feeling that I really am falling in love with her! but in my mind, I did not want to get into a love relationship with her because I feared that I would lose her at any moment! I told her that I started falling in love and that I am scared that we would lose each other, she responded with the same thing! that she do not want that, and she is scared of the same thing! she told me that telling her that I am falling in love with her will never change anything between us and that we will stay as we were! I was happy that nothing changed, but until now I am falling deeper and deeper in love with her! I cannot control such feeling. I have no idea what to do!. I have tried: Nothing, I just keep convincing myself that we are better this way. I think it was caused by: I don't think it is a "Problem" but what caused me to fall in love with her was that we talked to each other 24/7! we go out together even if we are in a group we talk together, we spend All free time together by chatting or calling or meeting

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Hey, I have been talking to a guy for 4 months, I guess?

His girlfriend had left him and, he first wanted to tell his story. then anyway we became very close friends and sometimes, he gives me some hints that make me think he has feelings for me and he even said that this is more than a friendship but he is not making his first move. How can I know what he has for me? because, I can't think about anything else, because of this. my mom brings several prospects and I kept rejecting them. I can't do this further. The thing is I also have started to have feelings for him but I don't know whether he feels the same way sometimes I try to reduce the connection I have with him. when I do it, he notices it. if I continue like this, the only thing happening is that my feelings towards him are getting stronger without knowing if he has feelings for me, but at the end, what if he thinks of me just as a friend then, I would be the one who suffers at the end. so I want to figure it out asap.then I can halt my feelings or make them stronger.

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How should I know that what my guy best friend actually feels about me?

I have a guy best friend with whom I have been friends with for a year. We are in the same group..and he got into a relationship with one of our friends. And is still dating her now..after getting into a relationship..our friendship has been better and best..we have been the most compatible one..he tells me that he wouldn't like to leave me. And he gets jealous when I'm with someone else. but loves his girlfriend too..how should I react to such mixed signals.I am in love with him..and I think so he does..but also feels d same towards his girlfriend. My guy best friend does the same towards me and his girlfriend..whom does he actually love..??

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