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Detect if your girlfriend likes another guy

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My girlfriend play fights with other guys? Should I be worried?


If your girlfriend isn't play fighting with you, that might be a problem, but if she is, then you should be OK. Some girls like to play and flirt more than others. Often they do it to see what kind of response they get from their man. If you show jealousy, she knows to run (jealous people are the worst), but if you later show her more attention because of it, then she's learned how to get your attention.

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You can try being more affectionate towards here and see if that causes her to show you more attention. If it works, then you know why she is play fighting so much. Be more attentive, and there will be less play fights.

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Constant play fighting an talking about him?

Always hitting and playing fighting with this guy she calls pretty face (nick name)


They are probably just friends but if their playful behavior bothers you, it should be mentioned to her. You can't keep pushing this off to the side without resolving why you feel threatened. Because she always talks about him there may be something there that she does not want to admit. He may not be interested in her the way that she is with him. He may also be one of her closest friends but if she sees him more than you, it is time to be worried. Deal With Your Girlfriend's Male Friend is a VisiHow article that you should read for tips on how to figure out how to handle her male friend.

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My girlfriend keeps hugging her ex boyfriend when I'm not around?

Just wondering if she still likes him


Sometimes people have former romantic relationships that are now friendships. If she is seeing you and treats you like she should then they are probably just good friends and their relationship before was more platonic than romantic. Also if she is such good friends with him she probably did not love him enough to be hurt when they broke up. Damaged relationships that involve love rarely end up becoming a friendship.

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My girlfriend has a best-friend and I am worried?

He recently told her that they shouldn't be friends but she talked to him late at night on the phone and she kind of cut me out, they acted awkward at school and she tried to win him back cause he said he threw away their friendship.

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He feels pushed aside either because of your relationship or something else. Their awkwardness at school was caused by things they said to hurt each other more than anything happening romantically. If you suspect that he ended their friendship because he has feelings for her then you should confront her and ask if she wants to be with him instead of you.

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I'm having a girlfriend problem because she seems as if she's not interested in me, but I'm with her though?

Well I have been with my girlfriend for 3 weeks. Also every time I ask her if we can hang out in school, she tells me she would love too but her friend has no one else to hang out with. Also she hates being a third wheel. Every time I ask her can "can I call you" she says she can't or she is busy doing something. Sometimes I see her hang out with other guys and it seems like she doesn't care about me. I sometimes feel like I'm not even with her because we never hold hands or kiss, we only hang out outside the school, which makes me feel as if she is embarrassed of me. Sorry for typing this long.. I have tried: I have talked to her about it. I have. I think it was caused by: I think she is only with me just to have a boyfriend and nothing else

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She is probably not ready for a serious relationship and you are. It sounds like you are casually dating and if you keep pressuring her, she may back off from hanging out with you. Take things slowly and see if the relationship progresses. Find friends and hobbies to occupy your time so that you are not obsessing about her. Love is complicated when we are young because we are still learning how to handle our emotional feelings. Often the person we are interested in does not know how to show their interest in us or has a different idea of what the relationship should be.

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Is there something wrong if my boyfriend play fights with other girls?

I feel a bit betrayed when he play fights with anyone but me.. I have tried: I have tried to make him jealous by play fighting other guys.. I think it was caused by: He does not seem to get as jealous as me when he sees another guy have physical contact with me.

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It is a good sign that he does not get jealous because that shows that he has no intention of cheating when he play fights with other girls. Making him jealous by play fighting is not the way to handle the situation. Instead you should tell him that the behavior bothers you and ask that he stop. If it is just the way he acts then he may stop.

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She is always fighting with me about nonsense, what do I do?

I try to communicate the best way I can, when I am talking about personal feelings. I feel like it irritates her when I talk about my problems.. I have tried: Listening. I think it was caused by: Change

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