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I'm having a girlfriend problem because she seems as if she's not interested in me, but I'm with her though?
Well I have been with my girlfriend for 3 weeks. Also every time I ask her if we can hang out in school, she tells me she would love too, but her friend has no one else to hang out with. Also, she hates being a third wheel. Every time I ask her can "can I call you" she says she can't, or she is busy doing something. Sometimes I see her hang out with other guys and it seems like she doesn't care about me. I sometimes feel like I'm not even with her because we never hold hands or kiss, we only hang out outside the school, which makes me feel as if she is embarrassed by me. Sorry for typing this long.. I have tried: I have talked to her about it. I have. I think it was caused by: I think she is only with me just to have a boyfriend and nothing else.
She is probably not ready for a serious relationship, and you are. It sounds like you are casually dating and if you keep pressuring her, she may back off from hanging out with you. Take things slowly and see if the relationship progresses. Find friends and hobbies to occupy your time so that you are not obsessing about her. Love is complicated when we are young because we are still learning how to handle our emotional feelings. Often the person we are interested in does not know how to show their interest in us or has a different idea of what the relationship should be.
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