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My girlfriend is mad at me and I want to know how can I tell her the right words to make her forgive me?

I've been dating this woman for a year now. Her aunt is sick and she is helping her. I told her I will help with buying food and I didn't. She is really mad and said I was the worst boyfriend she ever had. I really do care about her and don't want to lose her. Please help me. Thank you.

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The first thing you should do is buy food for her sick aunt. After you've gotten the food, sit your girlfriend down and apologize to her. Explain what the reason behind not giving her food was; apologize for whatever caused you not to purchase the food. In addition, apologize to her aunt. This will show her that you care not only about her, but also about her family. Talk to her and explain that this will never happen again and that you're incredibly sorry. Tell her that you care about her, her family, and your relationship together. Give her a hug and, if your relationship is at this point, a kiss to reassure her that the relationship means everything to you and that you still want to be together. If she is still upset, leave her alone and tell her that you'll talk to her the next day. She may need to think about your apology and have time to accept it. Talk to her the next day, apologize again, and tell her how much you appreciate her in your life.

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Hi, how do I get my girlfriend to forgive me for pushing her?

My girl and I got in a big fight over the weekend while we were headed home from a party. We got home and I tried to apologize but she was not listening so I pushed her off the bed. She go up screaming at me. She told me to leave. I know I should never lay a hand on a woman, I feel horrible and she is having a hard time forgiving me.

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You violated the safety she felt with you. Even though to you the push was harmless, to her it was done in anger which means she can't trust you not to raise your hand to her in anger. Apologize to her without making excuses to her for your actions. Promise her that you will count to ten or leave the room if you get frustrated during an argument.

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How can my girlfriend forgive me for telling her words?

I spoke bad words about her in public , then from that day on she does not want to hear me, see me, nor talk to me.

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Shame in public is hard to swallow. Especially when a person we are supposed to trust is the one to shame us. You need to apologize by publicly humbling yourself. Ask her to meet you in a public place and get on your knees to beg for her forgiveness. Send flowers to her workplace. Post on social media that you were an complete fool for your behavior to her and list 10 things that make her amazing.

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How do I get my girlfriend to forgive me for talking to someone behind her back?

I went to her mom behind her back and a day later I told her what we talked about because her mom told her and we had talked in person (me and my girlfriend) and a day later she sends me a picture saying I don't want perfect I want honest,

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Explain to her that you care about her and thought that her mother was a safe person to speak about you with. Her mother may be giving a completely different version of the conversation that you had. You need to vow to only keep what happens with her private from now on. She feels that your actions were deceitful so you need to get the message across to her that you will not be discussing her again to other people other than general "my girlfriend" discussions with others.

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How can I make her love me deeply?

Whenever I want her forgiveness its difficult and I feel she doesn't show me she loves me much

Actions can take time to forgive. Asking for forgiveness does not mean that immediately she will be all loving towards you. You can't make someone love you more than they do already. We each express and feel love differently. Right now she may be going through the motions and you may be feeling the need for her to sit and hold your hand but she just can't do that yet. It does not mean that she loves you any less than she did before. Especially if she is still with you, give her time.

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I hurt my girlfriend and she is now angry at me, I want her to forgive me, what should I do?

She is angry at me, what should I do?

There is great advice on asking for forgiveness in the VisiHow article Get Your Girlfriend To Forgive on this page.

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My Girlfriend is angry with me just because I was cheating on her, so tell me what do I have to tell her so that she understands me?

My Girlfriend saw me cheating on her, so she said that she doesn't love me anymore

For many people there is no love without trust. You broke her trust in you and your relationship with her by cheating and she caught you red handed. Rebuilding trust takes time and you will have to prove to her that you realize that cheating on her was the stupidest thing you have ever done and you will not do it ever again. Cheating for is a deal breaker condition in a relationship for most people. Unfortunately you may do everything you can do win her back but she still walks away. If you truly love her, it is worth trying so that you and she can have closure.

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I want to come back in love with my girlfriend, we just separated for days now and she don't want to hear my name any more?

My girlfriend just separated with me, so I want us to come back but she is not accepting my request so I need your help

Address the issues of what made her leave in the first place. Can you change them to prove to her that you are willing to do all you can with actions and not just words? She may just need time to think away from you and if she asks for space you should honor that. Hearing your name or thinking about you may be painful for her depending on what cause the separation. You will have to wait this one out unfortunately. Do all you can to prove that the issues can be resolved through actions.

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Online dating problem, I was chatting with a woman along the line I fall in love with her, then all of a sudden she says that she is no longer interested in me but I found it very cumbersome to forget about her now, what will I do for her to begin thinking much about me?

I was chatting with a woman along the line I fall in love with her, then all of a sudden she says that she is no longer interested in me but I found it very cumbersome to forget about her now, what will I do for her to begin thinking much about me

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Getting over someone has no general time frame. Especially someone that you fell in love with through communication only. Make a grand gesture such as asking to make arrangements to meet her in person. Ask her what you did that made her stop communication abruptly or go back through your conversations to see where you may have offended her. You may have to just move on so be prepared for that. As much as you want her to come back to you, she has to make the choice to do so. All you can do is try to fix what went wrong and see if that is enough.

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My child's mother, I want her to know that I made the biggest mistake of my life by letting her leave but I thought if you love something you got to let it go?

I want her back, my child's mother. I want her to know that I made the biggest mistake of my life by letting her leave but I thought if you love something you got to let it go

Be honest and tell her you let her go and need her back to feel complete. Your child deserves to have both of you if you can work out your issues together. Hopefully the time that you have given her has made her also feel your absence. Opening up your heart to her will be the best move you can make. Take down any emotional walls and prove to her that you love her and want her in your life. Do not make any ultimatums to her, let her make the decision on her own.

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I got arrested and my girlfriend is sad cause I couldn't talk to her for a long time and she is mad at me. How do I get her to forgive me?

I got arrested and my girlfriend is sad cause I couldn't talk to her for a long time and she is mad at me. How do I get her to forgive me. I have tried: Saying sorry and sweet words. I think it was caused by: Me

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Your girlfriend may be one of those people that needs their boyfriend to be in their life every day in order to feel that they are in a relationship. You not only stopped communication, but had to stop because you were arrested. Depending on the offense, your arrest may be the final straw for your girlfriend. First you need to apologize to her for being arrested, even though your arrest had nothing to do with her. Secondly, you need to assure her that the only reason you could not communicate with her was because you were arrested and it was out of your control.

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I commented very bad on my girlfriend's best friend pic. Which I should not do. Now she blocked me on every social app through which we used to contact each other. We meet everyday in our college. I don't know what to do so that she'll forgive me?

My girlfriend and one of her friend are very close friends. I commented very bad on her pic. So my girlfriend got angry and she is not talking to me. Even she blocked me on everything. Now I don't know how to make it up with her.

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Friendships can sometimes be a super strong bond almost like a sibling. Right now your girlfriend is standing in solidarity with her friend. You need to set things right with her friend before you can even begin to ask your girlfriend for forgiveness.

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