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My boyfriend is the busy type and does not always have time?

My boyfriend is always busy to call or visit why?


He may really be busy and just not be considering how he's hurting your feelings. Tell him it makes you feel bad that he doesn't spend time with you. If he apologizes and makes an effort to be with you, then great! If not, perhaps he isn't right for you.

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My boyfriend is super stressed want something sweet I could say

My boyfriend and I have a long distant relationship and I was supposed to go home this weekend and see him but due to some unfortunate events I was not able to, I am going to go home and see him this coming weekend. It has been a month since I have seen him and he is frustrated about that (not at me). Also he is doing homework right now for this college class he is in and he is stressing out about it and I want to say something to him that could make him feel better but also to relieve some of the stress he is having!

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Sweet messages to busy boyfriend is a VisiHow article that has more than 100 message examples you can send your boyfriend. It is great that you are able to reschedule your time to visit him and that he is so understanding about it. This is a good foundation for a lasting relationship.

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How to apologize to my boyfriend?

We fought because I'm busy with my work


Managing time between work and a relationship can be challenging and often we offend our partner and they feel neglected because we had to choose work over them. Get Your Boyfriend to Forgive You is a VisiHow article that has steps you can take to obtain your boyfriend's forgiveness.

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To assuage the time obstacles, make a regular date night once a week that you devote all your attention to him. This may mean that some weeks you can only schedule breakfast but during those scheduled times have your cellphones switched to off and your distractions at a minimum so you can both have quality time with each other. In future situations where you can't devote time to him you can deflect to the scheduled time you have that week for each other so at least you both have something to look forward to.

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How should I surprise my boyfriend in our 6th anniversary?

Because I don't know how to solve that.

Plan a romantic dinner and create a slideshow on your computer or device to play during the meal of all of your time together documented in photos. You can reminisce together about the six years of history that you created together.

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What should I do, my boyfriend didn't trust me?

My boyfriend didn't trust me. I love him so much but he is full of pride

You can not make someone trust you but you can prove to them through your actions that you are trustworthy. He is dealing with insecurities and covering them up with his prideful outward appearance. Give him regular assurances that you can be trusted by not hiding anything from him and offer details of your daily activities before he feels the need to ask.

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I need something to cheer my boyfriend up and show him my support to what he is going through?

My boyfriend has a hard week at work. He is stressed cause his business is not doing well and probably he is shutting it down. Our relationship is new but as we both confessed we feel like we knew each other for years, that feeling seems strong.

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This is a great time to show that you will be with him through the good and bad times. Take the chance to possibly plan a new business that both of you can grow together. If he needs employment offer to help create cover letters and fill out job applications with him. You may not be able to offer him financial assistance but emotional support and encouragement are great ways to show that you are there for him. If you can let him move in with you for a time or pay his car payment while he gets back on his feet those are both good ways to show him financial support.

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Ideas on how to show appreciation to my boyfriend of 4 years?

My live -in boyfriend is working late tonight, I want to show him how much I love and appreciate his hard work. I also what him to relax and enjoy himself. I am also on a budget.. so I am thinking something I can do at home.

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Personal massage is a great way to show your appreciation and help him relax. You also can perform the massage for free. Here are some VisiHow articles about massage techniques:

Hello, help me for my sweet message for my boyfriend?

Hi, can you help me how to say sweet message for my boyfriend to make him smile and happy when he wakes up in the morning because I really want him always happy and smiling every time when he reads my sweet message for him. I want to keep his heart always mine and thinking of me everyday even when he is busy at work because my life is not complete without him. I wish I am the only woman in his life.

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Express your feelings to him. Simple I miss you or I love you messages can turn a person's day around and have them feeling wanted. On this page are other examples and articles that offer more messages you can send to your boyfriend.

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Searching a gentlemen boyfriend how?

Its difficult to find a serious relationship

A common hang up in searching for a serious relationship is that our expectations are too high. You may be missing out on the perfect person for you because of his appearance or financial situation. Take away all of your mental checklists about your perfect partner and give a guy more than two dates to get to know him better.

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There are millions of great guys out there and you have to broaden your expectations to find the perfect one for you that will treat you the way you want and deserve to be treated.

Do I need to be sweet to a man who's not yet ready for commitment?

Do I need to be sweet to a man who's not yet ready for commitment?

It is entirely up to you if you want to start a relationship with a guy that is not ready to commit even though you are. Things to weigh while you are making your decision are if you want to possibly waste time dating someone that might never commit and if you can handle the heartbreak of feeling rejected if he walks away. It is not easy to have a one sided relationship and there is no future with him unless he is willing to be in that future. You can not make someone want to commit.

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Does my husband have an affair with other girl?

My husband is working in other region. He doesn't have time for me nor to our child, he said he was just too busy. He didn't come to visit me, call me or just text me once a week. He just text me once a month for sending money. Sometimes he doesn't give money. He never visit 1 year and 3 months like he really doesn't care. And I hate him now, he is just so irresponsible parent and husband.

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There is a possibility that he may be cheating but there is definitely some issue going on with him. He is not seeking you out and, unfortunately, is also not reliably offering financial support for you and your child. It may be time for you to start a new life for you and your child with him not a part of that life. You have basically become a single parent already. Here are some VisiHow article to assist you further:

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Long distance relationships have a high failure rate. It may be time that you insist he find work locally or you move to his region and if he refuses then you need to end the relationship.

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I care for him but how can I express?

How can I express to my long distance friend but soon to be my boyfriend how much I really care for him. We don't say "I love you" yet to each other but how can I say that I really love him? He is spending his time from school and we have a lot of time differences and I think I couldn't be able to wait for him because its late on my time.

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You can write an email to him and send him text messages about how you like to talk with him and can't wait to spend more time with him. There are many ways to express love without saying the words. Compliments and gratitude for that person in your life are perfect for saying I love you without speaking the words aloud.

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My problem, he is not sweet all the time?

My problem, he is not sweet all the time

No one is sweet 24/7. We all have mood swings and process our feelings and emotions differently. When he is not sweet try to figure out what is causing his change in personality. Is it stress? Little things can cause a person to become frustrated so watch the environment when he seems angry and see if you can resolve some of those troubles for him.

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What can I do to listen?

In order for me to help him in that kind of way?

A person can talk to us yet we still not really hear what they are saying. When he is talking to you make sure that you understand the true meaning of his words. Look for spots in the conversation where he is expressing one thing but means another or is avoiding telling you everything. Assure him that you no matter what he says, you will pass no judgement but offer advice instead.

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I'm stuck in the friend-zoned again and again, what should I do?

I'm stuck in the friend-zoned again and again, what should I do?

Avoiding the friendzone can be done by making it clear from the beginning that you want to be in relationship with the other person possibly. Pay attention to signals when you first meet a person that you are interested in to make sure that you are not missing any possible signs that they want to date you. Do not change your personality because eventually you will meet the right person that love you for all the great qualities you possess.

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I'm a virgin, I'm 18 and 19 soon, I just got asked out. I've never had a boyfriend what do I do?

He tells me all the time that he loves me, and I love him too, but at the same time I'm scared because I've never done this before, I've never done anything before.. I have tried: He tried to kiss me but I got scared. I think it was caused by: I don't know

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Just because you love someone does not mean that you have to offer yourself physically to that person until you are ready. Age has no indication of when you should lose your virginity. It is scary to offer yourself up to someone intimately and if you are not ready and he truly loves you he will wait for the right time for the both of you.

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I need to tell him how much he meant to me?

Long distance relationship and he is studying in an academy and I'm freaking miss him.. I have tried: Well we tried email each other. I think it was caused by: Time

You sent him and email and if he his super busy it may take some time for a response. Continue to send him messages of support and love and do not make a checklist of when he responds but trust that he is reading them and you are supporting him even though you are miles apart.

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Why he is always mad at me? I have doubts about it because he is mad at me without any reason?

I'm very disappointed with my boyfriend, we've just met like almost 2 weeks and 4 days ago. I like him when I start talking to him, but when we're always meeting each other in the same place where I stayed and he is more sweet too but sometimes I caught it that he just wanted something from me. Like my money.

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If he is asking for money already in a two week relationship, he may not be interested in you for love. Do not loan him money and explain to him that you are just getting to know each other and you are not a personal ATM. This may be tough and he may walk away but if he does you can be confident that you dodged a scam artist.

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If you are always meeting in the same place, he may be in another relationship and is trying to hide it.

What would I say to him if he is tired?

He has a job and he do school too. I want to erase his tiredness through sweet words but I don't want to feel rejected cause I think people who are tired are hot tempered.

Send sweet messages and if he is cranky then do not take his mood to heart. I get cranky when I am overworked and tired so it is understandable that he may be overwhelmed at this time and does not know how to cope with all the demands plus you. Send him encouragement but do not expect a response so that you can avoid feeling rejected.

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How do I let my ex know I still like them and I'm excited to see them?

We have met up and I know the connection is still there.

You can learn about seeing if you still have a connection in the VisiHow article titled Win Back Your Ex. Be careful to not come on too strong and take the time to get to know him again. There was a reason that your previous relationship with him failed so reconsider those reasons and how to avoid them this time.

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