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My boyfriend is not sharing his problem?

My boyfriend is having a problem with his staff and at about work. He didn't really want to share with me. He didn't really want to chat with me and seems like he is too busy and avoiding me. Do I have to give him some space or do I have to ask him again?

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Give him space. He most likely does not want to mix work with pleasure. My husband will call me the minute he has an issue with work yet I, for instance, hold everything in that is work related because I feel the need to keep home and work separated because home is a sanctuary for me. You can ask him how you can help with regular daily life stresses. Do not pry information out of him yet offer generic emotional support and encouragement.

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Busy boyfriend lost spark in relationship?

He is working hard, struggling to build his own business in bikes restoration and customs. He has his own dreams and goals to be a billionaire. He said he'll be there by my side but no commitment as such. (Initially he was serious towards me but then because of my stupidity that one lie I told to him, he has no trust on me.) I really love him a lot. Please help me to work it out like before . He is a year older than me and we both are studying. He is doing masters in logistics and I'm studying bachelor's in management in different colleges. We don't meet often. I miss talking to him, I even told him about this but he gives cold replies every time. He also tells that I'm childish silly. Act like a stupid kid. And I need to grow up. How can I be supporting and a mature partner to him. Help me please. I'm too confused whether to let go or try hard keeping him. (I love him, and want to grow old with him only). I have tried: Talked to him open about this. But he defends himself saying I'm a stupid kid..I'll never understand him. Blah blah.. I think it was caused by: Every time I end up be wrongly communicated to him. He gets his tempers raised shouting scolding me to stop being a stupid kid and behaving childish and silly.

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Actually, his behavior is the childish one. If he can't trust you after one lie, this is not a life long relationship. You need to move on. He verbally demeans you and is pushing you away so do not force your way back in. Imagine sitting in rocking chairs at the age of 80 and him speaking to you as he does now. He will be speaking that way for the rest of your relationship because he does not respect you. Find someone who will treat you respectfully and love you even though you have faults because everyone has faults. You both go to different colleges, take this time to focus on your education and future.

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How deal with boyfriend busy schefule?

My boyfriend and I been together for one year and one month... we expecting our first baby this march....I went back philippines to give birth and we both agree on that way. My boyfriend is a lawyer and had manage business to deal with aside from that his 5 kids with her ex live in partner. His good financial provider to me but only problem is he is so busy with work and when remind him no time for me he said he need to work hard to provide good money to his children and me.. I have tried: Understand and support him even most of time I felt left behind. I think it was caused by: Financial stability

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Long distance relationships are hard enough without adding pregnancy into the mix. You are feeling ignored and he is feeling the pressure to provide for you, the new baby and his additional 5 children. You are trying to understand and to do that you will have to remind yourself that he shows love by providing for you. This is how my husband shows love as well. When I complain that we are not spending enough time together his usual response is that someone has to pay the mortgage. I learned a lot on how to manage our different love languages on the website 5 Love Languages.

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I'm very worried, I want my busy boyfriend to get in touch with me?

Hi, my boyfriend is doing a lot of work and even told me he loves his work. The moment he finds time for me we both live happy and he makes me feel so important but when I leave his premises, he doesn't call or text. I tried calling him several times but he never picks up. Then I sent him a message "Hi, what's up"? and replied "I'm busy, please try to understand". I truly love him. Please what should I do?

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Inviting a busy Boyfriend to a party?

I'm throwing a party on the 20th. I've invited everyone and seems like everyone is coming but him. His decision is hanging, but the main reason I'm throwing a party is because of him. I want to spend time with him because we have not yet taken our vacation since summer had started. How am I going to persuade him to come and attend the party without pressuring him?. I have tried: I told him about the party I'm throwing on the 20th. I personally invited him to come.

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I even asked him the 2nd time and the 3rd time around. I think it was caused by: His schedule. He has a gig on the 20th, I think. He's not sure what to respond.

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How to get my boyfriend to have deep conversations with me?

My boyfriend and I have been dating for 3 months but we are very close and moved things very fast - met his whole family and traveled with them and vice versa. He still hasn't told me he loves me and I was pressuring on that issue but have stopped because I saw that was driving him away. Now I'm playing the role of a more relaxed and chilled girlfriend but now he is always busy with work which he really is getting into and doesn't have time to talk. We are doing long distance until September and the hours aren't helping. How do I get him to make time for me and have our relationship and friendship grow into love?

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Ways to understand & communicate a busy boyfriend?

He has two days off but he only sends SMS for one time only. I don't know what he has been doing and I kind of hesitant asking him because I don't want him to have a perception of me that I'm too nosy. I have tried: I tried miscalling him during lunch hours but still of no avail. I think it was caused by: I don't have any idea

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