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My boyfriend is a long distance away from me in Canada and I am in Africa. What should I do?

He is just so busy that we cannot even text during the day and I met him online.

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If you know that your boyfriend is busy, it's best to let him begin any conversation that the two of you have together. This will prevent you from distracting him from his work, of course, but it will also prevent you from waking him up on accident, too, since Canada is a few timezones away from any country in Africa. The last thing you'd want to do is bother him while he's working or trying to sleep. Letting him start the conversation will let you know that he has time to talk and you won't have to worry about bothering him. However, since your boyfriend is so busy like you said, you will need to leave him alone when he asks to be left alone. Continuing to talk to him after he's told you that he's busy or he needs to sleep to get ready for the next busy day will upset him and very likely put a strain on the relationship you two share together. Long-distance relationships -- especially those in which the members of the relationship are in different timezones -- can be very stressful since you both want to talk to each other and have a relationship, but your jobs and time and location differences get in the way. Make sure you respect what he has to say, and make sure he respects what you have to say, and the long-distance relationship will work much better than if you bother each other all day and all night.

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How to identify whether he loves me truly?

He is not always chatting with me. He is not missing me

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Sweet messages to busy boyfriend is a VisiHow article that can give you several messages to send to him to ignite the fire in your relationship. Refresh your relationship is a VisiHow article on renewing all the passion in your relationship. It is easy to fall into a relationship stalemate where we go about our days loving the other person but not showing them anymore because it is assumed that we love each other. Send him messages three times a day and do not count how many he sends back. If after a few weeks you are not getting a response from him, he may be giving up on the relationship and you should have a final conversation with him about if the relationship can survive.

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He loves me or not? How long can I wait for him?

I have a long distance relationship, he is an engineer. This past few months, he was always busy at work, no time for messaging me, and when I chat with him, he always say "I'm at work, and he will call me later.." but he doesn't, maybe he doesn't love me.

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Get a Busy Boyfriend's Attention will help you to make him notice you again. He legitimately may be very busy right now but you should begin to make plans to see each other in person soon so that he can be reminded of what he has with you.

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It is tough to make long distance relationships work especially when one of them is busier than the other person. There can be feelings of neglect and resentment over time.

How can I bring long distance relationship?

His always busy their work and we see each other once a year.

How to make your bf obsessed with you in a long distance relationship is a VisiHow article about how to get his attention. Long distance can make getting attention challenging so you need to come up with more creative ways. Unfortunately, you only see him once a year so try to schedule romantic Skype dates so that you both can try to feel more connected. Make a Long Distance Relationship Work is another VisiHow article that has some great advice for those in long distance relationships.

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How can I make him happy, tell him that he means a lot to me?

he is a businessman and always in tensed and he never calls me, what shall I do to keep him happy

Send him sweet messages throughout the day. Plan dates around things that he is interested in like sporting events. He is stressed out so suggest going dancing or taking walks which will help him to relieve some of that stress. Combat Workplace Stress has tips that can help you assist him to relax and start to enjoy life.

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He was a little upset with me because I was angry with him yesterday?

Because he is ignoring my messages to me

There is a VisiHow article titled Get Your Boyfriend to Forgive You which has several suggestions for you to try. He is ignoring your messages so you may have to speak with him directly to apologize for your behavior yesterday.

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Is there what we call forever?

I don't believe it when I hear it from people around...

I will love you forever is a phrase that is widely used to show enormous love for someone else. The reality is that lengthy relationships are not always perfect and you both need to be willing to work out issues together. Compromise forever is perhaps a better term because for a relationship to last there needs to be common ground and it is not realistic that two people are always on common ground about opinions and decisions.

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It is about a Girl I met on Friday and I am starting to fall for her ever since then. Thank you?

We met on Friday and exchanged numbers, but ever since then I haven't seen her. Now my concern is our office is closed to each other but I guess she has not discovered my office and when I called her today she sounded like someone that doesn't know who is speaking to her also with all my test messages to her since Friday till now she hasn't responded. Should I test her again because she said she is busy right now in the office.. I have tried: I tried to send her a text and call her. I think it was caused by: I think it was of the number I used to call her because that was not the number I gave her

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Are you sure you spoke to the same girl that you meant on Friday and that girl did not give you a spoof number? You should go back to where you met her and see if you can speak to her in person. Do not call or text until you see her again because if you keep pressing the issue you may drive her away from you.

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I met the most amazing guy, love him too, but the only problem is that he found his ex girlfriend in bed with another man, now he's scared I would do the same, I just need to know how to re-assure him that I would not do the same to him? I love him, he doesn't speak too much or anything but I just need help. I'm not too good with expressing my emotions but I need someone to help?

I met the most amazing guy, love him too, but the only problem is that he found his ex girlfriend in bed with another man, now he's scared I would do the same, I just need to know how to re-assure him that I would not do the same to him? I love him, he doesn't speak too much or anything but I just need help. I'm not too good with expressing my emotions but I need someone to help

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Unfortunately, he needs to work on his insecurities but this VisiHow article titled Rebuild Trust in a Relationship can help you. You may have to give daily assurance to him that you are not going to cheat and that you are a different person from his ex. If you are willing, you should offer to allow him to put a spy app on your phone or give him daily accounts of your activities so that he can begin to relax and actually enjoy being in a relationship.

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Hi, how can I go about handling a man who is asking me to abort?

I recently met I man from UK in my country, he really liked me. We made love on the first date and after that made life 3 times. I found out that I am pregnant after taking P2 and was told its because I was ovulating on that day. He is now pretending to be his wife sending me messages to abort that he will not take responsibility for it. Kindly advice, I want to keep this child

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Deal with a Rebound Relationship if You Are Pregnant from the Rebound Relationship is a VisiHow article with several suggestions for you. It may actually be his wife that his responding to your messages and he may have lied to you about everything. Some men travel and make up a fictitious story so that they can basically get the only thing they want out of that women which is physical gratification.

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Although he claims that he will not take responsibility for the child, he can still be made responsible financially. The UK Government Child Maintenance Law has information on their website about how you can go about making him responsible financially. You can get a child maintenance/support order locally if you reside in one of the many REMO countries and the list is located on the link provided in this answer.

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I want to tell her that I will not be able to meet her till next month?

I want to tell her that I will not be able to meet her till next month so I need a sweet message that will make her happy and calm her down

While it may be a month until I see you again, you are in my dreams and thoughts every waking moment.

I want to show more and more love, caring, and affection, always want to make him happy?

He is always frustrated if I do any small wrong, always we are fighting each other. What to do for stopping the fight?. I have tried: Keep on telling sorry......... I think it was caused by: Its all over my mistakes.

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You both may not be compatible. Just because we love another person does not mean that we can live and plan a life and future with that person. Unconditional love is hard to achieve and if you feel that you are not making him happy perhaps it is time to end the relationship.

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Take time to think before you act and make a no complaint zone in your relationship. Try to spend three days without fighting and if you make it to those three days you can add an additional three days and so on. It will not be easy but hopefully this will set the right path for your relationship for many years to come.

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When will you visit India to meet me?

I am a Fan of Yours. I am in Calcutta. How can I work for you in Calcutta.

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