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Deal with your boyfriends female friend

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My boyfriend has a female friend (who is an ex-girlfriend) staying at his house next March?

My boyfriend has openly told me that he has a female friend staying with him, he has known her for over 25 years. They were girlfriend boyfriend 25 years ago but now only friends. It is hard for me to accept that she is staying at his house, but she lives a long way away and is coming to see him for a week. I told him would I meet her when she is down as I think I would like to get to know her and we have a few things in common. He said no I won't get to meet her as it would hurt her feelings! He also said that he would not want me to meet his ex's. However, I have met his immediate ex. We have been going out for over a year now and he stays with me every weekend. I feel it's seedy as he won't let me meet her. It is friction between us now and I'm finding it hard to cope with it. He says that he doesn't discuss his relationships with her, nor hers if she has any. I find that weird as well if she's just a friend. Any advice much obliged. The female friend is an ex of long ago and she is staying at his house and he will not allow me to meet her to become friends with her. I have tried: I have tried to talk to him about it, but he has a sharp quick temper and won't pursue communication about it. I think it was caused by: She is a friend and he values his friends. We have an open but non-committal relationship i.e. we don't see other people but we are not going to get engaged.

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