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My boyfriend has a busy schedule at work and he is failing to allocate time for me what should I do please help?

My boyfriend has a busy schedule at work and he is failing to allocate time for me what should I do please help?. I have tried: I have tried to communicate with him and ask why he just says he is busy?. I think it was caused by: Distance relationship and suspecting he is cheating

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My LDR boyfriend is too busy for me with work?

I have been with him for 3 years. He works at a pizza restaurant and apparently is very busy on Christmas so I understood, I sent him merry Christmas text and happy new year eves and stuff. So he replies.

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However, it has been 3 weeks since we actually texted. So I called him and I told him how I felt but he said he is too busy and literally don't even have time to do anything. How should I feel towards this?

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He is too busy with work, his family, friends?

It's an LDR. We have been in a relationship for 1 year. Known him for 5 years. He gets busy with work, tells me he missed me etc. Then comes his family and friends, he has to spend time on weekends with them too or special occasions like birthday party etc. He calls me for a minute or 2 and tells me again he missed me and loves me blah blah blah.

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I am trying to be understanding but I am also losing my patience now. I feel he just says and do's opposite things. If he misses me why isn't he talking to me! He wants to marry me also not like playing or something. Just too confusing to understand him. Totally drains me of my energy!

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I want to tell my friend that I like him but he is very busy with his work, he has no time to revert back to my messages?

How can I tell him that I like him. I have tried: Yes I have tried most of the time, he even said that he likes me but now I don't know what happened so that he is not replying to my messages. What happened. I think it was caused by: Maybe he is busy in his work, or maybe he doesn't want any relationship because he doesn't want to hurt me that is why he was not replying

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Is my boyfriend still interested in me when he texts me and calls me fewer times because he is busy with work and his family?

I and my boyfriend has known online and started to date for one and half year. Since the first date, he told me he often worked weekends and I thought it was OK to me. At the first stage of the relationship, he almost sent me a message to say Good Morning, and chat with me quite often. We sometimes often see almost every week, but because both of us are busy especially weekend, so we just meet each other twice a month even twice in one and half month. I know he was very busy daytime, so I just texted him at night and he almost replied me when I SMS him. However, since his leg was broken a half year ago, he has not sent the text of good morning to me as before anymore. I also came to his house to visit him during this time and met his parents who are living together with him there. Although now he is back to work, he still does not do that and just reply sometimes my SMS. He also does not call me, just rarely very rarely. Actually, I know he is busy with work and he has some problem with his house and brother now, so I do not SMS him regularly as before and just call him once or two times a week. But I am so confused and all the times wonder myself if he is still interested in me and this relationship. All of my friends tell me to stop this relationship and find another guy who loves me because he might not be interested and love me. I do not want to until I know he does not love me anymore, but I also do not want to waste my time with him if he is still like this. I do not know how to do now. I want to talk to him now but he is facing the problems that his brother who is seriously sick and he is conflicting with the builder on his house, I do not want to raise more pressure on him at the moment. What should I do now?

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Boyfriend of almost 5 years works every holiday, new years eve and works around the clock if he can?

I've been with a man for almost 5 years now. We reunited after 35 years. I was his first love. It's really very special but his work situation can become an issue. We both work full time. He is a waiter, and I am a general manager. He works on every holiday, new years eve, which is an issue for me and also takes his day off when I can not. Originally, I changed my days off to match his, but it seems as though now his day off is different. We don't go out very much. He is a person who likes to stay home when he has time, but truly it's not very romantic. Very seldom do we go anywhere. He is obsessed with money and not losing his job, and state "it is for us" but I don't see progress. I'm a very understanding woman, but I feel that I need more attention and time with the person I'm with. I'm financially independent but I feel after all this time, somethings got to give. Where are we going? I broke his heart originally, but we are in our mid 50's and have grown children on their own. He often states, "We should have stayed together back then and had a family" I'm not sure he will ever get over this and move on in a healthy way with where we are now. He came to me after all those years. We live together and have a decent life. I've always been in a position of management and have an MS degree. I feel he competes with me in some ways and ends up being somewhat abusive emotionally when I tell him what I think. Thoughts? It's different because we are mature and older. Understanding of the bills and finances together are first and foremost, but there needs to be a balance

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How to avoid being annoying to a super busy boyfriend?

He is a workaholic, loves making money, runs 4-5 businesses, smart computer programmer, basketball coach and has 2 kids and one with autism…. So, he is really busy and that's why I'm so attracted to him. He uses all the 24 hours to do something… we love each other very much, no doubt he loves me as much, and when we are together, we share such a great time…. But, recently I become a bit needy and can't get hold of him at all…he is also frustrated that he can't make time for me and gets angry when I ask him to meet and he has to say No…. Not sure how to handle a super busy boyfriend…

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