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Get Your Boyfriend to Forgive You

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My boyfriend caught me cheating what should I say to him?

He caught me cheating. Well obviously I'm just trying to make him jealous because he's so cute when he got jealous but he's really angry to me what should I say to him?

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You have to tell him the reason that you did that, and, as you know that it has been done with one goal in mind, you have to explain what you have expected from him. Anger may pass over time, but he must be talked into listening to your point of view and the version of what has happened. Also, a lot of people have very different boundaries of cheating: for some, it is even a friendly smile. You have to include local social norms and individual perception and have a long conversation about that. He can also pretend that he is angry, which will mean that he will listen to you more eagerly and, possibly, forgive you. You, however, must take his side as well and act accordingly. If you see that anger is overwhelming, you do not have to joke and be facetious.

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Do I really deserve forgiveness for what I have done?

I hurt him a number of times and every time he forgave me real easily. I just didn't value him ever. This time I am there with a change and really want us to make up. I contacted him once but he refused this time, for the first time. Also I admit that I could have put more efforts and there might be some change in the situation, but seeing him behave differently for the first time, I was really blank. Maybe this time he doesn't want anything to happen, or maybe he is fed up of forgiving me every time. If his feelings for me has not changed then I am literally ready to do anything. Should I wait, or should I try again or should I not do anything.

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How do I make things work for me and my boyfriend?

I have made several mistakes, making my boyfriend angry and doubting our relationship.. I have tried: I have explained my mistakes and apologized to him, he accepted but still very very angry.. I think it was caused by: I over reacted about someone he knows for a long time and we have talked about it before but I repeated the same thing again.

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My boyfriend wants to break up, I don't want to break up?

He logged in my Facebook account, and read my past SMS & he is angry about this. I want him back in relationship asap. I have tried: 2 days. I think it was caused by: My friendly & flirty nature

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This is a tough situation where just an apology from one side may only hurt the resolution of the problem. First of all, he violated your privacy and broke laws to spy on you. If you apologize to him, that will signal as a green light to his anger and unlawful and unethical behavior. Consider this than revising your relationship. You have the full right to be friendly and flirty within adequate limits defined by your own cultural and social background but keep in mind that if he did not see any feelings from you and saw flirt with others, then that might have been the reason for his decision to end the relationship. Besides, your SMS and Facebook messages might have predated your meeting your boyfriend too. To get out of the hard situation, you may need to get a relationship advice and even have a serious tete-a-tete conversation with your partner discussing calmly, calmness being the condition that has to be talked over beforehand, what you both like or dislike in behavior of each other. If the stalemate situation can be resolved with compromises and you expect a great future together, then you both will, most likely, forgive each other, and go on with being a couple.

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My boyfriend want to end it with me because I accidentally smoked when I was drunk?

My boyfriend want to break up with me because he doesn't want a wife that smokes. I accidentally smoked in front of him when I was drunk, he knows I was drunk and I accidentally was smoking.. I have tried: I tried to say sorry and ask for forgiveness, and he said he just wants us to stay friends. I think it was caused by: my smoking

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Your boyfriend was angry at you for a moment. If he really intended to marry you, then there should be nothing that stops him from doing that. If he is a nonsmoker, then he can be fully understood that he has no desire to deal with a casual smoker on a daily basis (which can be a real nightmare for us, nonsmokers); but he also ignored your being drunk, which may hint at his being not that strict. However, if he both smokes and drinks, then he might be just playing with you; and you should even consider whether you wish to stay friends. Your best solution is to distance yourself from him for some time and explain that you are set on giving up smoking and drinking for him forever, as the latter may someday lead to the former. If you are intent on having your boyfriend in your life forever, then you have to overcome your bad habits. In addition to that, make sure that he never drinks or smokes either (by his stating or promising that): the support should be mutual. If you are ready for this and explain everything to him earnestly, then he will, most likely, forgive you after a long period of time, wanting you back in his life, which is why you need to distance yourself for some time, give up drinking or smoking, if he did, and share his life with you.

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How can I get back my boyfriend whn he couhgt me cheating with another man?

He found some love text in my inbox which I was communicating with the other man.and he is so mad at me. I have tried: I have said sorry and have promised him to change and never do it again

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I lied to my boyfriend about having a Bachelor in law?

I told my boyfriend 2 years ago that I obtained my Bachelor in law and then he wanted me to apply for a Master program. Which of course I could not do, without having a bachelor degree. He found out the truth few days ago and sent me back to my home country for a while, said he needs a break and feels betrayed and disappointed. I have tried: I cried and explained to him that it was immature to lie to him, I apologized for everything caused by my lies. I think it was caused by: Myself, because there was no real need to lie to my boyfriend. I could have told him the truth since the beginning

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Will my boyfriend love the watch I bought as a forgiveness gift?

During May 2016 on our first night together since we met,we intended on spending the whole weekend but ended up leaving on Saturday morning. My boyfriend found flirt messages from another guy on my phone that morning and became very upset with me,hence I I have not seen him since May,will only be seeing him tomorrow night.. I have tried: Asking for forgiveness,even asked his mother and sister to talk to him for me. I think it was caused by: Me,as the messages were on my phone

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How do I proof to my boyfriend that I have change a his him I want to spend my life with?

I have cheated on him in the past hook with one his friends by kissing him but it was a mistake we was there talking then he kiss me was my fault entirely take money from other guy but this was 3 years ago when I was going in a ruff patch in the relationship cause it was kinda broken off so February of this year I told him all of that an became spiteful by going on social media an start flirting with other females an asking for pictures an I was so shock an hurt when I saw all of those cause now we have a baby together so when I saw them I pk an left now I want him bk because I want my child to grow with her dad as family an he said I must proof to him that I want him but I don't know ow. I have tried: Ntn. I think it was caused by: Me cheating an taking money from guys an the kiss with his friend

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I got really drunk and said some mean things that I would never say sober to my boyfriend. He is pretty angry about it. I don't want to lose him. What should I do?

I have been with my boyfriend for a year and few months now. Although we have our simple disagreements we never had any fights. On Saturday after a party at my house, we got into an argument that I don't quite recall why. After a few days of cold shoulders, he told me what I had said to him but I do not remember. The fact I said I don't remember made him feel very angry because he thought I was lying to get out of the situation with no blame. I honestly do not remember. I know we had an argument but I under estimated the impact because we made love and went to sleep and woke up together. The next day I knew something wasn't right but I was also dealing with a hangover headache. I don't want to lose my boyfriend, he is a really good guy though sometimes hard to access his emotions. I apologized last night so many times. I don't know what to do going forward. How can I make him understand how much I didn't mean what he tells me I said? What can I do not to lose him?. I have tried: Verbal apologies, texts and begging. I think it was caused by: I was drunk

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