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Marriage issue- extra marital affair?
I will complete 2 years of marriage in 3 days. My husband and I were together for 8 years before marriage. Suddenly things changed and he was involved in a serious relationship with his friend's wife for 1 year. They had also thought of moving ahead but did not. All parents interfered and they both decided to move ahead with their respective partners. Now he says he will change things with me and move positively. He says all love for me will come back with time. Please help. I have tried: We have talked and thought of giving it a chance.. I think it was caused by: My fighting over small issues and too demanding for love and attention
Your emotional demands for attention are no excuse for the affair that he had with another woman. He wants to take another chance at love and a relationship with you but you should both take things slowly. A marriage is always a work in progress and you will need to recover what you has as well as work on any current situations in the marriage. The VisiHow article titled Move Forward After Infidelity will give you information on how to overcome the infidelity.
It is completely up to you to decide if he deserves another chance. He will have to rebuild trust in your relationship and you will have to forgive him for the betrayal that he caused. Your family members are also aware of what happened and this can cause even more emotional stress and pressure. Follow your heart and make sure that if you or he decides that the marriage is not survivable, you will be able to sustain that hurt.
My guy wants to break up with me due to trust issues. What am I supposed to do?
After 4 days of dating I cheated on my guy by hooking up with someone else. I confessed it to him, he was hurt a lot but then I sorted things out and we were cool. Then many things happened between us. He caught me lying many times to him. I've been roaming with many guys which he doesn't like me doing that by lying to him. We've been through many worst things. I have completely broken his trust on me and he feels its hard to trust me back. He recently told me he wants to be alone and needs some time, he thinks I'm cheating on him again and says he wants to leave, but I don't want us to end. I want us to be happy again. What should I do to gain his trust back again and start our happy relation all over again
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