Make Your Girlfriend Miss You in a Long-Distance Relationship

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How to Make Your Girlfriend Miss You in a Long-Distance Relationship

One of the difficulties faced in long-distance relationships is not knowing if your girlfriend is missing you, or if she is too busy doing other things to even think about you. Here are some tips to help your girlfriend miss you no matter how far apart you are.

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    Don't call her for a while.
    Make her wonder what you are up to.
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    Act like you don't care as much as her about conversing via phone/internet. When you do talk, make inside jokes about things she hasn't been a part of. Be aloof and she will start to chase you and that will make her want to make more frequent contact with you.
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    Have a healthy social life.
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    Hang out with your friends, make new ones and do things that you enjoy. Post pictures of your fun on social media. Tell her how great of a time it was. She will start to miss you and wish that she could be a part of it.
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    Dedicate yourself to your work.
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    Keep busy. Put in extra hours at your job or do more work in your free time. She will see how dedicated you are to your work while still trying hard to make time to talk to her and it will make her miss you even more.
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    Change your appearance.
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    Work-out, grow a beard, dye your hair or make-over your wardrobe. Try changing up your look a bit and brag about it on social media. She will see how much attention you get and worry about others finding your new look attractive and she will miss seeing you in person that much more.
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    Pursue your own interests.
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    Take up something you have always wanted to try. This can be anything from learning how to play the guitar to joining a bowling league. Find something that you enjoy and derive fulfillment from and try it out for a while. It will not only keep you busy, it will also peak her curiosity. She will miss you even more when she hears how you are following your dreams independently.
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    Send her a hand-written love letter.
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    Write her a love letter or poetry. Be open, honest and sweet. Don't tell her about it and let her be surprised when she sees it. Remind her how much she means to you even though you are apart. She will not only miss you but she will be romanticized by your gesture.
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    Plan a trip to see her.
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    To make her miss you, sometimes you need to remind her of how great you two are together. Try and arrange a visit, even a short one, to visit her and have a romantic date before you have to go back home. This will not only jog her memory of how happy she is to be your girlfriend, she will be missing you even more when you leave.
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    Remember important dates.
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    Whether it's an anniversary, birthday, special occasion or upcoming appointment you should pay attention to the dates that matter to her and remind her on those occasions. Mark the dates on a calendar if it helps you remember but she miss you and be touched by your attentiveness.
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    Give something of yours to her.
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    This could be your favourite hoodie, a piece of jewellery or book as long as it's something significant to you. Give it to her while you're away and she will have something that reminds her of you - which will make her miss you.
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    Make her jealous.
    You can read more about that in our VisiHow article; Make Your Girlfriend Jealous in a Long-Distance Relationship
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Questions and Answers

OK, my girlfriend left when she got pregnant but we kept contact through phone calls, she got a miscarriage after 5 months, it was terrible for both of us, she kept silent for a while, lately she is attentive but I think I was too nice for her and its like she doesn't miss me anymore! Please help to make her miss me, thanks?

Help so that she misses me because we were like soulmates and just need a strategy to wow her back. Thanks

Find time to see her in person. You both experienced a loss in your relationship and will have to work on a renewing your mutual feelings. This will work better if you can spend some time with her face to face. At least she is trying to communicate with you. You will need to continue to be just as attentive, especially since this relationship is long distance. If you really want to wow her then start making serious plans for a future together. Give her something to look forward to and will help you grow closer as you plan.

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How to make my beloved woman respect more than before?

How to make my beloved woman respect more that ever before after our dispute

Since there was a dispute, be the bigger person and apologize to her. Respect is earned and if you took some away from yourself during your argument then you will begin to earn it back with an apology. Explain to her that you value her above everything else in your life and wish to move forward from the dispute. Get your girlfriend to forgive is a VisiHow article that explains more about the path towards forgiveness in a relationship. It sounds like you really do care about her so use that as a motivator.

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She love me but I don't know if she misses me I love her a lot a can't stay without her she my life I want to tell her how much I love her please can you help me?

She is life I miss her a lot I want that I love her so much she also love like I do I miss. I have tried: We have planned to meet but is far away we are not able to meet I want to meet her. I think it was caused by: Time

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You will not fully know the reality of this relationship until you meet in person. Since you have strong feelings for her then work around the obstacles preventing you from meeting in person. This might entail meeting half way in a country where neither of you have to get visas but it will be worth it in the end. If she balks at the idea of meeting you in person when you are planning everything then you should begin to see if you are being catfished.

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How to stay away from girlfriend's life happily?

Because I don't want to waste my life..I m just 22 now and I m in a that stage that I have to start my carrier and I think girlfriend is becoming an obstacle in my life but I don't want to hurt her but I want a happily break up with my girlfriend.I want to go away from my girlfriend life but happily.please tell me what to do.. I have tried: I did not call her or texted her although I never wanted to do this because I want to let her know that when she will get time for me but she never calls me first until I made her a call firstly.. I think it was caused by: I care for her too much n I am 24/7 time ready for her and free myself for helping her and giving her a happily life.but she never understands me n she always wants me as a helper n never lover.that is y I want to go away from her life but happy ending because I have done so many thing for her just to make her happy n those memories should be very remembered by her.

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You are young and just starting out your life as an adult. Explain to her that you need to focus on building your career and at this point and time a relationship will hinder that. No break up is ever really one that leaves both parties happy. Truth is necessary and you owe that to her instead of just ghosting her and walking away silently. If she cares as much about you then she will understand why you need to do this although she still may not be happy. Break up with your partner is a VisiHow article you should read to help you formulate how to tell her that you want to move on in your life without her.

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About my girlfriend I'm confused? because she has two Facebook accounts?

My girlfriend have two Facebook accounts one oh her name and one on her mom name in her name account she a boyfriend she always says her elder sister using her account and she talking to me from her mom account help me in this problem. I have tried: My girlfriend have two Facebook accounts one oh her name and one on her mom name in her name account she a boyfriend she always says her elder sister using her account and she talking to me from her mom account help me in this problem. I think it was caused by: Maybe she fooling me

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Stop the confusion and just end communication with her. The two Facebook accounts is definitely a red flag and then to add more she has a boyfriend on the secondary account. There is something going on and you should not invest more time in a relationship where there is large potential for you to get hurt. She could have ended her older sister using her account by logging out and changing the password to her social media account so that is not a valid excuse. Most likely she is just biding her time so that she can make a decision between you and her boyfriend.

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My girlfriend never calls me and never asked about me. she use her phone a lot. I do not feel that she misses me. I am sure she loves me but she never tells?

My girlfriend never calls me and never asked about me. she use her phone a lot. I do not feel that she misses me. I am sure she loves me but she never tells. I have tried: I tried not to see her that often I tried not to call her so often I bring her flowers every time I see her I grew my beard I dedicated so much hours at work. I think it was caused by: I think because of her family is so conservative. she spends so much time at home she reads a lot she is not good at phone conversations

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If she was raised in a conservative home then culturally it is emphasized that the male makes all communication efforts. She may seem hesitant on the phone because she does not really know how to communicate in a relationship yet. Give her the benefit of the doubt. A good way to discern why she might be so hesitant is to spend time with her family and observe her parents. How the speak to each other might give you some indication of why she seems so shy with you. If she has only learned how a relationship is supposed to be from her parents then you will begin to understand. Your girlfriend also may not open up until there is a bigger commitment in the relationship. Give that a consideration if you care about a future with her.

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How to know if my long distance girlfriend is not cheating on me?

I want to know if my girlfriend really loves me or not or maybe she's just bored that's why she chose to talk to me. I want to know how sincere she is even if we were miles and miles apart.. I think it was caused by: I think maybe sometimes I can't reply fast to her messages

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Your doubts are a natural part of a long distance relationship. It is tough to not over analyze a moment of silence when you can't just go over to their house and see what they are doing. She is probably not cheating on you but instead, getting frustrated with the miles that separate you both in the relationship. Long distance relationships usually do not survive longer than a year without a serious future plan to be physically in the same location long term.

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What can I do if she is with someone else?

About she fall in love with someone. I have tried: I want to make her miss me again!. I think it was caused by: She hangs out with other guys and I was jealous at it

Jealousy is a normal reaction. How you personally deal with those feelings determines how successful a relationship will be. Unfortunately, she has told you that she has feelings for someone else. This means that you should back out of the relationship and let her move on. It might just be a moment of loneliness on her part and if she truly loves you then she will realize her mistake.

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When ever she called we only converse for a while and than she hang up?

She only spent few minutes conversing with me. I have tried: Texting her. I think it was caused by: She is busy hanging around with her friends

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