Make Your Girlfriend Jealous in a Long-Distance Relationship

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Sometimes a guy wants to make his girlfriend jealous. Maybe for an ego boost or perhaps just to find out if she worries about losing him. Either way, this can be a little more difficult to do when you are in a long-distance relationship. These are some ways to make her jealous, but be careful, it's important to know when to draw the line.

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Over the Phone

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    Tell her you're getting another call and hang up
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    When you are talking to her on the phone, tell her you are receiving another call and abruptly end the conversation. She will wonder who is calling you. If she thinks you are getting calls from other girls late in the evening, she will be even more jealous.
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    Excuse yourself to respond to text messages
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    During your conversation, frequently excuse yourself momentarily to respond to text messages. She will wonder who has captured your attention and will get jealous that she isn't your first priority.
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    Talk about other girls you hang out with
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    After hanging out with your friends, talk at length about the girls who were there and what they're like. Mention the way they laugh or how much fun they are to hang out with. She will get jealous of you hanging out with other girls and having so much fun.
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    Talk about your ex
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    Even if you don't speak to your ex anymore, casually mention her in a conversation. You can simply say you randomly ran into each other somewhere or that you heard from her out of the blue. Even if you play it off as a weird coincidence, she will worry and get jealous that someone might be trying to get back into your life.
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    Notice things about other girls and mention it in conversation
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    Did one of your cute friends get a new haircut or adopt a puppy? Take note of details about other girls you are friends with and bring it up in conversation. She will get jealous of how attentive you are to other girls and wonder why details about them are important enough to mention.
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Via Text Message, WhatsApp or Skype

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    Don't respond to them right away or wait a couple of hours to answer their messages
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    This will make them think about you and wonder what you are up to. You can alternatively turn your phone off for a few hours, she won't know if your phone battery died or if you were busy having fun.
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    Keep conversations brief
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    Have a spontaneous night with the boys. Go to a bar or get together for a sports game. Tell her at the last minute and don't give many details. Be vague about where you're going, who will be there and when you will be home and while you're out, don't answer her calls. Then, when you message her back, tell her how great of a time you had.
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    Reschedule your Skype date
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    If you are used to talking at a certain time, plant a seed of curiosity in their mind and tell them something came up you have to set up your conversation for another time. This will leave her thinking about what could be more important.
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    Talk about a co-worker/classmate a lot or bring up names of people she doesn't know
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    Tell her how much fun they are to hang out with or that she just needs to meet them some day.
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Via Social Media/On Facebook

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    Post attractive photos of yourself
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    Post pictures of your new haircut, a new outfit or even a workout selfie. Make your profile picture an attractive photo of you by yourself being independent and having fun. Update your account frequently with flattering images that she knows other girls will like.
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    Tag your female friends in your statuses
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    Start tagging your female friends in your status updates. It could be a status about a party you were at or perhaps a throwback photo with old friends. Even if you think your single female friends would find something funny or relevant, tag them.
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    Frequently like the statuses of other females
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    Start liking things posted by girls on Facebook. Whether it's cute pictures or status updates, click like more frequently and if the other girls are mutual friends, she will eventually notice and get jealous.
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    Compliment other girls
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    It's more than likely you have attractive friends on Facebook who just love to take selfies. Start complimenting your attractive female friends in your comments. Your girlfriend will see this and get jealous, especially if you're not complimenting her photos just as often.
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    Add random female friends
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    Send friend requests to several other girls. When they add you and your girlfriend notices, she will not only get jealous but she won't know who requested who to become friends.
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    Post a status about how great your night was
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    You don't have to give any details. Just change your status to something that sounds like you just had a wonderful experience or went on a date. You can mention an amazing evening you just had or how much fun you had on the weekend. It could be about anything but it will make her wonder. Put ideas in her head. One example of this is posting that you watched a movie with a friend and would recommend the film. If it is a romantic movie, she will wonder who you went to see it with.
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    Post selfies with other girls
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    It doesn't matter if it's old photos or new ones, post images on Facebook of you and your female friends happy or having a good time. It will remind her that you are still desirable to members of the opposite sex.
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    Compliment other women or flirt a little
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    Gear your likes to females. This may be a celebrity or a woman she doesn't like. Whether they are your friends or your celebrity crush, following other girls on Facebook or liking and following their pages will surely make your girlfriend jealous. You can even post a comment on the page of one of her friends. If you're daring enough, you can even create a fake account of another female to make her jealous.
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    Share a status or image that encourages others to rate you romantically
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    Some which are currently popular range from rating a person's attractiveness from 1 " 10 to commenting with a number which represents if you would kiss them, date them or marry them. Your girlfriend is sure to get jealous when she starts reading the replies from other girls.
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    Take your time responding to her chat messages
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    You can tell her that you are juggling conversations and be vague about whom you're chatting with. But don't take too long or she will get impatient with you. Just long enough to make her jealous for not having your undivided attention.
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By Your Lifestyle

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    Do one of her favorite things with a group of your friends, then brag about how much fun it was
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    Post pictures that will make her wish she was one of the females with you in the photos.
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    Get in shape
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    Eat healthy, maybe join a gym and try and update your look. Also, do things on your own and she will see how independent you are and how great you look.
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    Do something you've always wanted to do
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    Go on an adventure, make memories and have a great time doing it. She will see how happy it makes you and wish she was a part of it. No doubt wondering what new friends you are making along the way.
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Questions and Answers

How do I get my long distance lover to love me more and to be jealous about me?

My girlfriend is too far away from me. I know she loves me, it's just that I want her to love me even more. We don't get in touch so often lately, and I'm just curious she might change her mind for another guy... I want her to get in touch with me so often.... I have tried: I called her and texted her so often but she probably refused to reply or something. I think it was caused by: I'm not really sure. I have no idea

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If she is avoiding you, then your best solution would be to travel to her immediately. Perhaps she is just busy or seeking out another relationship but the real reason long distance relationships fail is that it becomes too difficult and one person distances themselves out of frustration.

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You have tried texting and calling her but are not getting the same responses that you received in the past. If you can't go see her then perhaps distance yourself from contacting her. See if she will contact you within a week. If she does not then you know that she has moved on. Make Your Girlfriend Miss You in a Long-Distance Relationship is a VisiHow article that explains ways to make her miss you more.

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I want my girlfriend to crave for me like she used to do?

I feel like I am the only one trying hard to get her attention desperately which she used to do once upon a time. Ours is a 4-year-old relationship.

You are experiencing the comfortable stage of a relationship. This usually peaks at around 5 years. Most couples realize that they stopped "dating" each other and life has settled into a pattern. Think back to when you were romancing her in the beginning. Perhaps plan a surprise weekend away where there are no cell phones or distractions and just the two of you to focus on. Take her out on a date night to a new restaurant. Meet her at the door with flowers and open doors for her. Go for a walk and hold her hand. Write her a love letter. All of these are generally done at the beginning of a relationship so start the process all over again as if you had just met her for the first time.

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I have a girlfriend and she is not talking to me on the phone since 10 days now, and I want to make her jealous, please?

I have a girlfriend and she's not talking to me since ten days and I want to make her jealous, please. I have tried: Nothing. I think it was caused by: Ego problem

If she is not speaking to you then making her jealous will only make the situation worse. Instead, plead with her to work things out with you. Figure out if it is your ego that is prohibiting her from speaking to you and work on that. It is not easy to see ourselves for who we really are so some self-reflection will go miles with communication again.

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I want to make my girlfriend jealous and love me more than ever before?

I want to make my girlfriend jealous and love me more than ever before because she has so many boyfriends who are wealthier than me. I have tried: tried to talk to her time and again but no change. I think it was caused by: She is confused with bad character

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If she has many boyfriends then take yourself out of her roster. Then again you really should think about if you want to be with someone who is always looking for the next best date. Someone like that will never really settle down and you are setting yourself up for heartache. Do no be surprised though if you stop chasing her that she starts chasing you. Sometimes people like this have very low self-esteem and feed that anxiety with the attention of others. Just decide if you always want to be waiting for her to walk through the door telling you that she met someone else.

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How to make my girlfriend jealous, sometimes she takes my love for granted?

I just want her to know that other than her I have so many places I could go but it's that I chose to be with her

Start going to those places instead of hanging out with her. Do not do this all the time but start by once a week hanging out with your friends. Go carefully, though so that it does not backfire on you. Your love languages may be completely different. She may be showing you love and you are missing it because it is not how you show love. Some of the smallest gestures can be acts of love. Sometimes we focus on how many messages we receive instead of what a message says. Or how much time we spend together instead of how we spend time together. If she has your best interests in mind then she does care deeply about you.

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Hi, my girlfriend always thinking, I am forcing her to love me or thinking I am fighting her too much?

I found my girlfriend on Facebook, we never met in person. When I started to talk to her, within one month I proposed my love, but she did not believe nor accept my love and she told me without meeting in person, she doesn't create any feelings. She always replies me on every message but always considering I am fighting and forcing her to love, But I am not forcing, I told her I love her honestly. Nowadays she is not replying my messages properly, If I text her 10 message she is answering only last question. As well if I talk anything about her, then she is replying. 2 days ago I was a little upset, I told her 'you are not that much beauty and I told her I love only your character and good habits'. Now again she is upset, She is living in the USA, I am living in Dubai. I tried to apply for the USA visa but got refused, last month on valentine's day, I sent flowers gift, she accepted. How to talk to her further? How to make her fall in love with me? Really I love her a lot as well she is a very good girl, we both are south Indians. Right my situation, we both are always fighting

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Even though you both come from the South Indian heritage, you live in entirely different cultures. Adding to that, there are immigration issues. In the current political climate in the US, you can appeal for a new visa but that will also probably be denied. Your denial was most likely based on the fact that you did not show enough ties for returning to your home country. If you are initially from India but working in Dubai that also does not help you in the visa process because it flags you as a risk for not returning because you do not have enough "ties" in Dubai that would warrant you returning.

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One more thing to consider, women residing in the US do not need to look for love in other countries. While it is wonderful if they find someone from another country, there is always the suspicion in the back of their minds that you are only with them for immigration through marriage. You should also consider that the process time for a fiance visa to the US can be over a two year wait from India or Dubai. While you say that you love her, be sure that it is not the lure of living in America that is actually what you love.

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Now, she does not need a visa to visit you in UAE if she has a valid US Passport. Buy a plane ticket for her to come visit you if you are so intent on making her a part of your life.

Love a girl who resides in Washington DC but not ready to be in a relationship?

Well I've met a girl on Facebook and she had a boyfriend earlier but he cheated on her. Now I've proposed to her but she says she doesn't want to be in any relationship. I really love her as she's honest and sincere. What should I do in this situation? Give her more time or forget about her? Well, I've met a girl on Facebook but the problem is that her ex boyfriend cheated on her with her best friend and now she doesn't want to be in any relationship. I think it was caused by: Well I think that probably I was a bit too quick with her as she suffered from a breakup which made her feel sad and now she hates all men

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You only know her from social media. Have you ever spoken on the phone to her or video chatted with her? No offense, but women from countries like the US do not appreciate proposals over social media. We also always have our guard up thinking that you just want a Green Card to reside in the US.

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If she is not ready to be in a relationship, you need to respect that. Stop messaging her. In all reality, if she is not interested in you, then nothing you will do will change that.

How can I make my wife jealous, she doesn't pay attention to me?

My wife doesn't pay attention to me. She always busy with her friends. I want to make her pay attention to me

Ask her out on a formal date. As in a restaurant that has a nice atmosphere. If you have children, arrange for childcare without her having to. Think about things that you both liked to do when you were dating. Ask her to allow you to romance her again once a month by recreating one of those dates from when you were just getting to know each other. In the meantime, find something that you can both watch a few nights a week together such as a television series. Show interest in things she likes to do.

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