Know the Telltale Signs Your Spouse Is Cheating on You

Edited by Doug Collins, Eng

I thought my spouse would never cheat on me but I was wrong. There were lots of signs but I blew right past them and didn't find out for two years. I decided to document them here to help others and also my hope is that you will add signs that I have missed.

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    Increased interest in losing weight and exercise
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    New sexier underwear
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    Shaving / manicuring private areas
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    Odd remarks in the bedroom that seem out of place.
    Especially during sharing fantasies.
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    Unexplained fights that don't seem to about the actual issue being discussed.
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    An atypical unwillingness to forgive.
    Especially if she/he brings up old issues from years ago.
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    Your spouse has new friends that are single / divorced (male or female).
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    Your spouse keeps their phone close at all times.
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    Your spouse will not let you read his or her phone.
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    Your spouse seems to be placing an emphasis on activities she does you are not involved with.
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    Your spouse is giving you less priority in her life and decisions.
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    Your spouse says things like "I don't need you to be happy" or "I am doing this for myself"
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Any one of these things don't mean anything but if you see your spouse is doing several of these and it is out of character for him / her then consider taking a closer look. I hope you are wrong because the pain I went through was the worst I have ever experienced. I decided to work through the problem and that also was the more difficult path. However we have kids and in spite of this failure I still love my wife. I hope this list has helped you.

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