Know a Guy Is Into You

Edited by Maria Sharon Ubando, Anonymous, JMA, Eng and 3 others

Keystone2 illustration002.jpg

If a new man has entered your life and you find you are drawn to him, you may be wondering if he feels the same. Or maybe you notice that your male friend has suddenly changed and seems to be more protective and sweeter now.

Was this helpful? Yes | No | I need help

Some guys are not brave enough to directly admit how much they like a girl, but their actions will show their true feelings. Of course, sometimes girls can misinterpret a man's actions.

If your heart needs to know where he stands, then you may want to look over the following advice. You just might find that you are in for a surprise.


How to Tell if a Guy is Into You

  1. 1
    The Way He Stares.
    Keystone2 illustration001b.jpg
    Just by the way a guy watches you, you'd know that he is into you. The eye is one part of the body which we do not have control over. The pupils dilate when we feel a strong emotion like happiness or excitement. If you are comfortable enough, look at the guy's eyes and you'd know if your presence excites him.
    Was this step helpful? Yes | No | I need help

  2. 2
    He Glows When He is Around You.
    Sharry happyaroundyou.jpg
    More often than not, this aspect is overlooked by women. There is always this smile which is unconsciously drawn onto his lips. He feels happier when you are around, he feels excited when he sees you, and for guys, it is just pretty much obvious when they are happy. They just can't hide it, so let your senses work!
    Was this step helpful? Yes | No | I need help

  3. 3
    Enjoys Weekends With You.
    Sharry weekendwithher.jpg
    Instead of spending his weekend with old friends, workmates, schoolmates or family, he chooses to be with you. Weekend is the time when we take a break from our busy weekday routine; a special day that we all look forward to. And being a special day, he only wants it WITH YOU.
    Was this step helpful? Yes | No | I need help

  4. 4
    Loves to Give You a Touch.
    Sharry givesyoutouch.jpg
    Sometimes guys are just too overwhelmed when the girl they are into is around. As a manifestation of their strong feelings, they find themselves running their fingers on her cheeks, locking her around his arms, caressing her on the lips, ears or neck. Guys sometimes just can't control it and if you like the guy then you may want to give him a touch back.
    Was this step helpful? Yes | No | I need help

  5. 5
    His Friends Know You.
    Sharry talksaboutyou.jpg
    If a guy is into you, he loves to talk about you with his friends, so don't be surprised if his whole circle of friends all knows about you when you finally meet them.
    Was this step helpful? Yes | No | I need help

  6. 6
    He's Got a Nickname For You.
    Does he enjoy calling you cute names? He calls you tart today, then the next day calls you cupcake? Unlike women, men have hard time showing their real emotions and one way to show it is by giving their girl a nickname which often is associated with how they feel toward her.
    Sharry 1.jpg
    Was this step helpful? Yes | No | I need help

  7. 7
    He Notices All Changes, Even Small Ones, in You.
    You will know if a guy is really interested in you when he notices even the smallest new things or changes in you. It could be a nice new clip you are wearing, or a new scent.
    Was this step helpful? Yes | No | I need help

  8. 8
    He Loves to Give You Praise.
    Praise from a guy who is into you is far different from the generic complements you get from the others. He may say look gorgeous in that green dress or that your new new haircut is stunning. Anyway, you will feel if it is real or not with the way he tells it to you and how his eyes adore you while he says it.
    Was this step helpful? Yes | No | I need help

  9. 9
    He Comes up With Excuses to Call or See You.
    When a guy is into a girl, he makes a lot of excuses just to get close to her. He discreetly tries to find out things about you, or maybe asks questions that he already obviously knows the answer to.
    Was this step helpful? Yes | No | I need help

Men are known for having a hard time admitting how and what they feel. Sometimes, a guy may like a girl so much, but never want to admit it. Many men have a fear of rejection. Each man is different, but often the things that make them fall for a woman can be similar. What are some of those things?

Was this helpful? Yes | No | I need help

Things that Make a Man Fall In love with a Woman

Sharry 2.jpg
  1. 1
    Most men say that they easily fall for a woman who shares the same interests.
    Was this step helpful? Yes | No | I need help

  2. 2
    Physical Appearance.
    It would be a lie to say that men do not care about how a woman looks. This doesn't mean you have to be perfect. There are other things that can make a man fall head over heels for a woman, like a fantastic smile or a very impressive personality, or maybe he likes that she loves kids, respect elders and can appreciate simple things that he does.
    Was this step helpful? Yes | No | I need help

  3. 3
    The Brains.
    A lot of guys are drawn into ladies who have big brains - ones with whom they can talk with about almost anything under the sun.
    Was this step helpful? Yes | No | I need help

  4. 4
    Confidence and Independence.
    Men are attracted to women who exude confidence but still remain feminine. They don't want clingy women. This makes a woman sexy to most guys.
    Was this step helpful? Yes | No | I need help

  5. 5
    A Happy Woman.
    Any man would not want to love a woman who is not happy with herself or who does not love herself. Also, you can only truly love someone else when you love yourself.
    Was this step helpful? Yes | No | I need help


It would be so easy to fall for a guy who does all those things for you.


VisiHow welcomes all comments. If you do not want to be anonymous, register or log in. It is free.

Maria sharon
Premier Author
56 Articles Started
1,510 Article Edits
30,420 Points
Maria sharon is a premier author with VisiHow. Maria sharon has achieved the level of "Lieutenant" with 30,420 points. Maria sharon has started 56 articles (including this one) and has also made 1,510 article edits. 648,000 people have read Maria sharon's article contributions.
Maria sharon's Message Board
Maria sharon: Hi, my name is Maria sharon.
Maria sharon: Can I help you with your problem about "Know a Guy Is Into You"?

Article Info

Categories : Relationships

Recent edits by: Monika, Lynn, Eng

Share this Article:

Thanks to all authors for creating a page that has been read 2,093 times.

Do you have a question not answered in this article?
Click here to ask one of the writers of this article

Thank Our Volunteer Authors.

Would you like to give back to the community by fixing a spelling mistake? Yes | No