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Is my friends with benefits turning into more?

I went abroad and ended up hooking up with a guy friend that's in the same program as myself, and the program is relatively small and we are a tight knit group of close friends. When we got back we actually became close friends to kind of prove to the others that there was no awkwardness from the hook up. One night my roommate went missing and he came over, because it was a close friend of his and we ended up hooking up again. While in bed he admitted that he is taking a girl out to dinner, which was also in the program, but it was nothing. (We used to be friends but a crazy night led to everyone disowning her.) We agreed that the hookups had to stop. Two weeks later we end up doing it again and it becomes a weekly to biweekly thing. We are forced to spend much of our time together due to program activities but outside of that we would still study together and text all day. One hour hookups turn into us spending the night and talking about our past relationships. He is not an emotional guy and started crying when opening up to me. Then he asked if I liked him I ended up stuttering and before I could answer he told me it was not cool for me too. Then he seemed more affectionate, by wanting to cuddle for longer and not really wanting for me to leave. Now that abroad is over we haven't really talked but I really want to and don't want to seem desperate. At the same time I don't want to completely expose myself, because I have to spend two more years in the program with him and he is within my close friend group. What should I do?. I have tried: I have tried to be more affectionate like going to get medicine when he is sick and holding hands while cuddling. I even make a couple of the first moves when it comes to planning a meet up to study.. I think it was caused by: I think him being in my friend group stops me from just telling him how I feel. I also thinks he is a really good person and do not want to mess up the friendship. What also complicates things is that in the two weeks we didn't mess around, he basically dated the girl that I used to be closed to, and didn't tell me, but that did happen when we were strictly physical and things got more emotional.

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What is true fact about us and what's the solution towards our friendship or relationship?

According to your article Indications that your best friend is falling for you indicates me that he's falling for me, but he's having a girlfriend right now. I was having a boyfriend before, we sometimes talked to each other about our own relationship. Unfortunately his girlfriend now is my childhood hater that is why I can't be happy about his relationship. That girl doesn't like our strong friendship, but our friendship is much more their anniversary. He keeps me as a friend by having secret rendezvous. We talk for hours days and nights. Always complete each other. The thing I don't like most is that our friendship is like a silent RS and I don't understand why he can't let go. Actually I can't let go my one and only reason to be happy. What's on our mind and I don't have any idea for our future. But I don't like this situation. What should I do and I want to know can we be in relationship in future.

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