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Questions and Answers
Is it weird to ask a guy if he has a girlfriend over text?
I have a friend and I like him but I don't know if he has a girlfriend or not. How do I ask without seeming weird over text?. I have tried: Nothing. I think it was caused by: Nothing
When people are talking over text it can be misinterpreted. Over text, you can't hear the other person's vocal inflections or determine if they are smiling. This would be best to do in person so that you can quickly switch the topic to another if it becomes awkward. If you have to do this over text then just simply ask him if he is seeing anyone at the moment. Another option is to invite him out with friends and suggest he bring his girlfriend also if he is seeing anyone.
I haven't talked to one of my guy friends in a while and I don't know how to ask if he has a girlfriend through text?
I don't know him in real life but I really don't know how to ask him through text without feeling weird about it. I have tried: Nothing. I think it was caused by: Not talking to him in a while
Just outright ask him. You could open the conversation by asking him what he likes to do in his free time. Keep in mind that you have never met him in person so really you have no clue who you are speaking to. Also because you have not met him, he could be lying if he says he does not have a girlfriend. Suggest talking over Skype on a video call and then ask him. One clue that he could be lying is if he can't video call you or does it at odd hours. Be very cautious when meeting someone online because you never can really know if they are for real until you meet them in person. Also, when meeting someone from online it is advised to have another friend around even if you do not engage with them, they can be watching for any distress.
Categories : Relationships
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