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I am in a two year marriage. My mate has always had his phone and I mine. Recently I had an accident (broke my phone) so I asked to use his to make a few calls. He abruptly shoved his phone into his back pocket and said, (no). Caught off guard I was shocked. He never let me even make a call to my parents . Mean with excuses now we are fighting everyday. He must be hiding something, please help I already gave a commitment and my heart at stake?
Married and scared new husband cheating on phone
Forget the cheating and let's focus on the fact that he would not allow you to call your parents. This is a significant control tactic of isolation in relationships. He could just not want to let you use his phone because he thinks you irresponsibly broke yours however, you still should be allowed to use his phone to call your parents or others to notify them that your cell is broken.
You could download a spy app onto his phone but perhaps be more worried about how he is trying to isolate you. One tactic you could use is to go stay with your parents for a visit and inform your husband that you have no means of communication currently and since he won't let you call his parents, you will not be calling him from your parents. See what his response is after a few days and it sounds like you both could use some time apart anyway.
More questions and answers on this topic can be found here: I believe I have a cheater on my hands. I would like to be able to see his texts, pics, location, etc. without him knowing. Also, if he checks for spyware, I do not want him to be able to see it. I know the 4 digit code and can access his phone when he is
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