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Detect if your girlfriend likes another guy

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If my girlfriend doesn't want me to be friends on Facebook with this guy she works with, should I be concerned?

Because I feel like she said she is talking about him to me and telling me she is befriending him on Facebook but she says I'm with you and I love you. I have tried: I tried to change the subject but his name still pops up in our conversations. I think it was caused by: My girlfriend works with him and has the same similarities he does, that's what she said to me

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On one hand it is understandable that because he is a co worker she does not want you to friend him because she can't control the content in your posts that may embarrass her at work. On the other hand, she discusses him regularly with you and feels the need to reassure you each time that she loves you. This is a red flag because she feels the need to verbally reassure you. Usually, when someone talks about someone else and tags the conversation with "but I love you" it is their conscience speaking that phrase.

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It is quite possible that they are work friends and even though she enjoys spending time with him there is nothing happening. You should ask her to meet this guy and maybe possibly invite him and his girlfriend or wife to dinner. This will tell you if this guy has someone already and also if your girlfriend refuses then you will know that it is highly suspicious and she is probably hiding something.

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Is my girlfriend losing interest in me and starting to like another guy?

My girlfriend and I hang out with a group of friends and recently, shes started to talk a lot more to one of my male friends. He puts on a persona that he is very nonchalant and doesn't care much about anything, however my girlfriend has confessed to me before that he talks to her a lot about his personal thoughts. I didn't take much notice in it before because my girlfriend is a really nice person in general and I thought it was good that my male friend is finally opening up to someone. But now all they do is text each other and I feel like shes starting to lose interest in me. I have confronted her about this and she said has no feelings for him and they are just friends but I'm not sure anymore. I don't know if its just my insecurities and if I should just wait it out or do something about it. What should I do?

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