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I wrote an apology letter to my girlfriend. How can I ask her if she forgives me?

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The first step toward being able to reconcile your differences is to recognize your shortcomings and have the courage to forgive yourself. If you are not able to muster doing so, it would be unrealistic to expect forgiveness from your girlfriend, or any other person for that matter. Very few men are able to express themselves freely in written or spoken word, in contrast to women who know no inhibitions when it comes to expressing themselves. Society has molded men to behave this way, which is precisely why writing your girlfriend an apology letter is indeed impressive. Taking that huge step of writing her a letter, despite vast modern means of communication, makes your effort of reaching out to your girlfriend very sincere. Furthermore, writing that traditional handwritten letter makes it very personal and romantic as well.

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  • After sending the apology letter, the next, and the most painstaking, step would be the waiting game. You must allow her ample time and space to think things through. It doesn't really matter how soon she responds, or what her reaction will be. The most important thing is that you are able to tell her you are sorry and make her understand where you are coming from. Give her all the time she needs. She will respond when she is ready.
  • If you believe that you have waited considerably long enough for her to reach out to you, but you are not getting anything as of yet, then you may courteously leave her a message or call her to say, "Hi!". If she answers your call and responds favorably in your conversation over the phone, then you can take your cue from there.
  • Invite her out for a cup of coffee or perhaps dinner to catch up and be able to patch things up together. Nothing beats personal or face-to-face conversations, as you get to see each other's reactions and be able to interact effectively.
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It does not matter who wronged who first - the most important thing is that you both are willing to make compromises and apologize without crushing each other's egos. The first step seems to be always the hardest, but if you do it for someone really dear to your heart, then the juice might be worth the squeeze.

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Impressive apology letter for girlfriend?

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It is not the letter that will be important in terms of format but instead what you are expressing in the letter. Include in the letter how you feel about your mistake, how you know it hurt her, what you are going to do to make it right and how you are going to never make this mistake again.

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Apology letter to make my girlfriend smile?

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You can tell her that you miss her a lot and that you regret whatever you've done. You can also tell her that you are really sorry for being insensitive like that and that you will find ways for it not to happen again. You must also recognize how your actions had affected her and that you know you have hurt her and she does not deserve it.

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Overall, also, it is important to show that you are trying hard to become better and that you will not repeat the same mistakes again. This is usually enough to make women really happy.

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Hey, So there is a girl I like, I was suppose to take her out on a the first Friday of June but on that day, My ex- girlfriend called and said she needed me, for an emergency, therefore, I just never took the girl I liked out on a catch up and apologized to her until now. what should I write and do?

I was suppose to take the girl I like out on the first Friday of June but on that day, My ex- girlfriend called and said she needed me, for an emergency that I can not reject, therefore, I just never took the girl I liked out on a catch up and never apologized to her until now. what should I write and do? I feel so bad and sad.. . Should I confess my love for her? What should I do, I feel like a jerk.

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