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Get Your Boyfriend Forgive and Love Again After You Cheated on Him

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I cheated on my husband and he was angry for about 5 weeks and then gradually started doing things which made me feel like we were going to work on this, he even slept in the bed with me two nights in a row. But then he didn't get a promotion and he is angry again like he just found out. I'm in physical pain over this I don't want to lose him?

I cheated on my husband and he was angry for about 5 weeks and then gradually started doing things which made me feel like we were going to work on this, he even slept in the bed with me two nights in a row. But then he didn't get a promotion and he is angry again like he just found out. I'm in physical pain over this I don't want to lose him. I have tried: Asking for counseling, giving him his space, saying I will tell him my where about, deactivate all social media, I started one on one counseling. I think it was caused by: We had issues that I asked him for help on. I feel that he was pushing me away. He didn't want to spend time with me and he constantly played computer games

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I cheated on my husband. How can I reassure him that I only want the best for him and I want to live with him for the rest of our lives?

I was in a long distance relationship with my husband for 4 years. During that time, I also maintained an extra marital relationship. Now I finally moved to live with my husband and continued to communicate with my lover. My husband found out and I have ended the affair. He is very angry. He has been making efforts to talk and continue our marriage. But yesterday, I deleted the picture of my ex-lover from my husband's phone and he found out. It has brought back all the anger and he says he believes my intention is to one day leave him for my ex-lover.. I have tried: I keep telling him I'm sorry and I have cut all links and deleted all communication channels to my ex. I tell my husband that I appreciate everything he does for me. I make extra efforts in my actions to show him I love him.. I think it was caused by: Sincerely, today, I can't logically explain why I cheated. I had made a commitment to my husband. But maybe the fights pushed me to give into the affair. I just gave into temptations and the adventure. I was unable to control myself and I lacked the will power to stand by and respect my commitment to my husband.

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I miss him, he knows I've cheated, doesn't want anything to do with me?

He knows I cheated on him multiple times, yet he was too blindly in love with me to see the truth... I have tried: Talking, confessing, giving him time.. I think it was caused by: My cheating, our arguments, not being trust worthy

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He has moved on and wishes not to be hurt again by you. Unfortunately even though you have apologized what you did was the last nail in the coffin for your relationship. You need to evaluate why you cheated and move on. Over time you will begin to heal and so will he and maybe you will have another chance with him but do not expect it. Here are some VisiHow articles that recommend ways to deal with a relationship break up:

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Accused my boyfriend of cheating. Yesterday my boyfriend came to pick me up just to take me to work,then on our way his phone rang and it was written lufuno.when I arrived at work I texted him and asked him who called and he said lufuno and then I said to him it was written love though I was just testing him so he is mad at me and I don't know what to do, please help?

Accused my boyfriend of cheating. Yesterday my boyfriend came to pick me up just to take me to work,then on our way his phone rang and it was written lufuno.when I arrived at work I texted him and asked him who called and he said lufuno and then I said to him it was written love though I was just testing him so he is mad at me and I don't know what to do, please help. I have tried: I apologized. I think it was caused by: The call I thought it was written love

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Did he get jealous when I talked to his friend or what happened?

I was talking to him and his friend got in the picture and I said Hi, and he got mad I went to ask why he got mad and all he said was doesn't matter he is not the kind of guy he gets mad at something that doesn't matter, he even said so himself then I told him to tell me and he said no it doesn't matter then I said it does matter and he went to me not you.

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He has major security/trust issues to react the way that he did when you greeted his friend. If he is getting angry and then pushes that anger aside with responses like it does not matter, all he is doing is shelving that anger until one day it all comes out in the open again. He needs to get coping skills on how to deal with anger and distrust. Perhaps this friend has taken someone he was interested in or he had a girlfriend that cheated. Either way, you will have to show that you can be trusted by him. Earning trust is not easy and it can be frustrating if you did nothing to lose trust in the first place but if you really like him then take the time to show him that you are not going anywhere,

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How can I make my boyfriend happy again?

I am in a long distance relationship and my boyfriend and I had a problem, he danced with a girl in a club and posted the video on Instagram, I approached him but he didn't care about what I felt, so I thought he was cheating on me. We broke up for three weeks and within those three weeks I had sex with another guy. When my boyfriend came back and asked for forgiveness for what he did because he didn't sleep with the girl he danced with in the club, I had to tell him what I did, which I did. So he approached the guy I had sex with and they had a big argument. But he told me that he still loves me and the situation will just make our love stronger. But things has really changed, he does not talk to me that much anymore, sometime I'm scared to talk to him because I have to watch what I say because he is always getting anger. What can I do I really love him and want to make things right, I am feeling I shouldn't have told him what I did, But now that I did, things have really changed between us. What can I do. I have tried: Talking to him and asking him how he feels just trying to make things right. I think it was caused by: I think not trusting him was the mistake I made because if I had trusted him I would not have made that mistake of sleeping with someone else

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