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Get Your Boyfriend Forgive and Love Again After You Cheated on Him

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I miss him, he knows I've cheated, doesn't want anything to do with me?

He knows I cheated on him multiple times, yet he was too blindly in love with me to see the truth... I have tried: Talking, confessing, giving him time.. I think it was caused by: My cheating, our arguments, not being trust worthy

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He has moved on and wishes not to be hurt again by you. Unfortunately even though you have apologized what you did was the last nail in the coffin for your relationship. You need to evaluate why you cheated and move on. Over time you will begin to heal and so will he and maybe you will have another chance with him but do not expect it. Here are some VisiHow articles that recommend ways to deal with a relationship break up:

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I'm mad at my boyfriend but I still love him. What do I do?

I am too nervous to share my reasons so I can't tell you.. I have tried: Nothing. I think it was caused by: I liked him but I didn't know if he liked me. I think I asked him too many times.

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Because you have not provided much on why you are mad, this answer is provided using general guidelines. When you asked him so many times if you liked him it was a sign to him that you are both not compatible in how you express love. Often it is easy to get insecure in a relationship and sometimes a person does not verbally say I love you but shows their love in other ways. You may have been misreading his actions. If you want to get back in a good place with him then text him three ways that he has shown you love. Do this daily and see if the situation changes.

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How can my boyfriend move past that I cheated on him?

I have cheated on my boyfriend and he had recently found out. How can I get my boyfriend trust back and move forward with our relationship?. I have tried: I have cut off all contact with the person I have cheated on him with. I asked for forgiveness, be honest with myself and my partner. I think it was caused by: Lonely, less communication, doing and not thinking about the other person feeling.

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When a boyfriend who is against cheating finds out that his soulmate has cheated on him, it is impossible to win the trust back. He will always suspect something and will follow you. He will always be with a heavy heart. He will remind you of that every time you quarrel next time. If you are ready to live through this, then you should stay with him, behave as you have done before your cheating, and wait until his feelings change for the better. If you act differently, he will abuse that situation not in the favor of moving past the fact. If you are lucky, then you may have the type of a boyfriend who will only act as if he is frustrated only to resume your relationship in a week or two as if nothing has happened.

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Did he get jealous when I talked to his friend or what happened?

I was talking to him and his friend got in the picture and I said Hi, and he got mad I went to ask why he got mad and all he said was doesn't matter he is not the kind of guy he gets mad at something that doesn't matter, he even said so himself then I told him to tell me and he said no it doesn't matter then I said it does matter and he went to me not you.

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He has major security/trust issues to react the way that he did when you greeted his friend. If he is getting angry and then pushes that anger aside with responses like it does not matter, all he is doing is shelving that anger until one day it all comes out in the open again. He needs to get coping skills on how to deal with anger and distrust. Perhaps this friend has taken someone he was interested in or he had a girlfriend that cheated. Either way, you will have to show that you can be trusted by him. Earning trust is not easy and it can be frustrating if you did nothing to lose trust in the first place but if you really like him then take the time to show him that you are not going anywhere,

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I cheated on my boyfriend with his friends so how do I fix this mess?

My boyfriend's friends always tell me that my boyfriend doesn't love me so then they make me kiss them flirt with them, then they go and tell him what I did, then he gets upset with me, one day his friends told me that he said its over but he can't tell me that face to face

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You have described one messed up situation between your boyfriend and his friends. A good friend does not try to entice their friend's girlfriend. If you want to stay with your boyfriend then you need to have a conversation with him about how his friends were pressuring you to do these things. Probably the best thing to do would be to walk away because what you were in was not a healthy environment.

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How do I know my boyfriend doesn't want to work on the relationship?

Okay so I cheated and he confronted me about it, the relationship was only over the phone and it was only once. but I am scared he is holding his feelings from me and I don't want him to become distant from me. I didn't lie I told him it was only once, but how do I know he doesn't want to work on my fails. I feel like a horrible person.. I have tried: I told him the truth I apologized and I am giving him time. I think it was caused by: I think he doesn't trust me, and I think he might be thinking about what I have done. he hasn't asked me any questions about it.

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Offer to put a spy app on your phone that he can monitor so he can begin to trust you again. It will take time for him to get over this betrayal but you should do everything you can to ensure him you won't make the same mistake. Signs Your Boyfriend Wants to Break Up with You is a VisiHow article that mentions what to look for if he is going to break up with you. Try to deflect any discussion on what you have done yet assure him you can be trusted.

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How to get back my boyfriend after a breakup and how to make him understand?

Hi , I have activated my Facebook and used that without my boyfriend knowledge for quite some time. Recently he get to know that he claims that I am cheating on him by chatting with other guys and he said I activated my Facebook and doing things at his back. He says I am a cheater and broke up with me..he has burned all my things. Its going to be 2 weeks but he is still not accepting my sorry and never replied my messages at all. I want him back in my life. What I should do now? We are in a long distance relationship.. Please help me. I have tried: Messaging him and saying sorry.. I think it was caused by: He think that I am cheating him

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If you did not cheat on him and he overreacted you should send him one last message asking that he continue the relationship. Activating Facebook is not horrid but if he thinks you are cheating you can go into your Facebook Settings and there will be an option on the first page to download your Facebook data. It will be emailed to your account that you used to create your Facebook. This contains all of the data including and deleted messages but it will prove to him that you did nothing wrong.

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I cheated on my boyfriend. I want to be with him and earn his trust back. What do I do?

I thought I was in the happiest place ever with this guy at university. Whose family live in a different country. After a couple of months together he ended things out of the blue and I didn't see him for a month. I had slept with two other people after very drunken nights out. One of which killed him when I told him. He came back and asked if we could build some form of relationship again. I was diagnosed with depression and anxiety, started medication and counseling. He stood by me through it all, however he said he couldn't be my boyfriend. We tried working on things, when we had decided to call it a day I went to an ex partner. We then tried working on things again, but trust was always an issue. I lost a few friends, and changed my lifestyle. However when I felt alone and felt like I couldn't go to him I went back to the ex, the last time being 6 weeks ago. I only told him the truth last night. The relationship has been a constant battle, of me earning trust and trying to know that he isn't going anywhere and loves me and want's to be with me. We made things official on 14/02/16 it lasted two days with this news hitting him. However our relationship for the last month has been completely different, he let me in, he seemed happy. I'm upset at the pain I have caused him because of my mistakes. And I want it to be how it's been recently. I don't know what to do, the man I've spent the last few weeks with and got to know over the last year is the man I see myself being with for a very long time. But I feel this is one hurdle too big and we can't get over It.. I have tried: I have told him everything about being with my ex partner. When it happened. And explaining why, even though this hurt him very much obviously.. I think it was caused by: I have always had emotional and support and trust issues since being a child. At times I would push my boyfriend away and run to my ex because he was separated and distracted me and was good with words in a way and I would sleep with him. However it was more for his benefit than mine. I gained no pleasure from the sex. But his presence was appreciated.

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You have stated that you are in counseling. Your therapist would say that your behavior is self destructive. Sometimes when everything we ever had ends up in a disaster we will ruin good things without even realizes it as a protective measure. Stay away from the ex. He may provide you with emotional support but obviously, that is not a permanent relationship that you want to be in. You have done many back and forth swings in your relationship and it is time to make a permanent choice to stay with your current boyfriend and when issues arise resolve them together. It will take some time to earn his trust but if you are patient and understanding things may work out in the end.

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I cheated on my boyfriend and I want to make it up for him, would buying him a gift help?

I'm Egyptian. My boyfriend consider me cheated on him by smoking drugs twice and going out with one of his best friends, nothing physical happened except hugging twice or more and kisses on his cheek. When this happened, me and my boyfriend were apart, his friend told him and he tried to break us apart even more and he told him that he deserves someone better than me! I really love my boyfriend and I want to earn his forgiveness and trust again. I can't live without him and I used to lie to him cause I talk to other guys or going out with them but nothing physical.. What should I do, I want him to fall in love with me and know that I'm a good person. I want to be a better person without destroying myself or him. I have tried: I tried to apologize and asked him for forgiveness but he refuses to talk about it and he talked only once after we talked again and he said that its breaking his heart and he'll never trust my words again and he'll never tell me about his real feeling or open his heart to me and sometimes he gets real angry suddenly by remembering what happened and it breaks my heart. I think it was caused by: I think that I was acting childish and I thought that he doesn't love me enough to earn my love but after he decided to stay with me even after I broke his heart I wanted him more and also his friend who tried to break us apart and by the way he can't stop talking to that friend cause they used to be really close

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How can I make my boyfriend happy again?

I am in a long distance relationship and my boyfriend and I had a problem, he danced with a girl in a club and posted the video on Instagram, I approached him but he didn't care about what I felt, so I thought he was cheating on me. We broke up for three weeks and within those three weeks I had sex with another guy. When my boyfriend came back and asked for forgiveness for what he did because he didn't sleep with the girl he danced with in the club, I had to tell him what I did, which I did. So he approached the guy I had sex with and they had a big argument. But he told me that he still loves me and the situation will just make our love stronger. But things has really changed, he does not talk to me that much anymore, sometime I'm scared to talk to him because I have to watch what I say because he is always getting anger. What can I do I really love him and want to make things right, I am feeling I shouldn't have told him what I did, But now that I did, things have really changed between us. What can I do. I have tried: Talking to him and asking him how he feels just trying to make things right. I think it was caused by: I think not trusting him was the mistake I made because if I had trusted him I would not have made that mistake of sleeping with someone else

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I cheated on my husband. How can I reassure him that I only want the best for him and I want to live with him for the rest of our lives?

I was in a long distance relationship with my husband for 4 years. During that time, I also maintained an extra marital relationship. Now I finally moved to live with my husband and continued to communicate with my lover. My husband found out and I have ended the affair. He is very angry. He has been making efforts to talk and continue our marriage. But yesterday, I deleted the picture of my ex-lover from my husband's phone and he found out. It has brought back all the anger and he says he believes my intention is to one day leave him for my ex-lover.. I have tried: I keep telling him I'm sorry and I have cut all links and deleted all communication channels to my ex. I tell my husband that I appreciate everything he does for me. I make extra efforts in my actions to show him I love him.. I think it was caused by: Sincerely, today, I can't logically explain why I cheated. I had made a commitment to my husband. But maybe the fights pushed me to give into the affair. I just gave into temptations and the adventure. I was unable to control myself and I lacked the will power to stand by and respect my commitment to my husband.

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I cheated on my husband and he was angry for about 5 weeks and then gradually started doing things which made me feel like we were going to work on this, he even slept in the bed with me two nights in a row. But then he didn't get a promotion and he is angry again like he just found out. I'm in physical pain over this I don't want to lose him?

I cheated on my husband and he was angry for about 5 weeks and then gradually started doing things which made me feel like we were going to work on this, he even slept in the bed with me two nights in a row. But then he didn't get a promotion and he is angry again like he just found out. I'm in physical pain over this I don't want to lose him. I have tried: Asking for counseling, giving him his space, saying I will tell him my where about, deactivate all social media, I started one on one counseling. I think it was caused by: We had issues that I asked him for help on. I feel that he was pushing me away. He didn't want to spend time with me and he constantly played computer games

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Accused my boyfriend of cheating. Yesterday my boyfriend came to pick me up just to take me to work,then on our way his phone rang and it was written lufuno.when I arrived at work I texted him and asked him who called and he said lufuno and then I said to him it was written love though I was just testing him so he is mad at me and I don't know what to do, please help?

Accused my boyfriend of cheating. Yesterday my boyfriend came to pick me up just to take me to work,then on our way his phone rang and it was written lufuno.when I arrived at work I texted him and asked him who called and he said lufuno and then I said to him it was written love though I was just testing him so he is mad at me and I don't know what to do, please help. I have tried: I apologized. I think it was caused by: The call I thought it was written love

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