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1 Questions and Answers
- 1.1 Why does he stare at me, but then deny it when I confront him?
- 1.2 Hi, does my manager like me, how do I know?
- 1.3 I almost clicked off. I think it was successful, what are your thoughts?
- 1.4 If a guy looks at your lips for more than 5 seconds while you're talking and he faces you with direct eye contact, what does this mean?
- 1.5 Is it from physical or emotional attraction?
- 1.6 He's always like I don't know but jittering(his legs) in class?
- 1.7 What does it mean if a guy asks you if you're nervous around him? He never asked that kind of question before?
- 1.8 Does he like me or am I just the rebound? What does sorta seeing each other mean?
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Questions and Answers
Why does he stare at me, but then deny it when I confront him?
There's this boy in my class ( we're both 12) and he would always stare at me from across the room. I look at him, and sometimes he looks away, but most of the time he just keeps on staring for minutes with a dreamy look in his eyes. this has been going on for over a month now, so I went to go confront him about it, but he kept denying it and kept saying, "what? hang on which classroom?" like as if he didn't have a clue (which I knew he did!) and kept changing the subject. He likes to make eye contact with me A LOT, and can easily spot me in a crowded room. Its driving me insane please help!. I have tried: I've tried flirting with him, by teasing him sometimes, and I think he might notice but I'm not sure.. I think it was caused by: I have no idea. one day I was having my hair braided, so it could have been my hair that made him stare at me every single day from then on.
At the age of 12, a boy is not really thinking about whether he likes a girl romantically or not. He legitimately could not remember staring at you while daydreaming, also. If you are interested in him, suggest that you and his friends all hang out together. Big group social interaction would be fine but you are too young to begin thinking about a serious relationship. Even if a boy appears to be interested, they are not at the same emotional level of a 12 year old girl. At best, you can both be friends.
Hi, does my manager like me, how do I know?
He is my manger, we talk a lot but I don't know if he likes me?
Because he is your manager, you should not read too much into this. Unless you are willing to give up your job, there is no point in entertaining the possibility of a relationship. Because he is your manager the interactions could just be that he is trying to be nice and get to know you. Don't read too much into your conversations and be cautious of what personal details you share with him because at the end of your conversations he is still your superior.
I almost clicked off. I think it was successful, what are your thoughts?
Hi! I had my first date with a gentleman who I thought was very kind and I believe has a gentle spirit, which is great. He smiled a lot as we ate lunch, seemed composed yet still a little nervous or it could have been excitement, I'm not sure. He made it known at the end of the date that he thought I was a quality woman and he looked forward to meeting again soon. After reading your article, his eyes are very blue and as I think back, I believe his pupils were large.
Real gentlemen practice being courteous and kind yet composed. They strive not show their affection openly until they see any signs from the lady, which is polite towards the partner. It may mean that he waits for your turn or step now, and to show that you are interested, you have to invite him for another lunch or walk. If he brings flowers or another sign of affection, then it may be the right person for you. Being nervous when talking to new people is quite a wide-spread occurrence: the voice may shake, the words may be mixed up, and the actions might be a bit awkward. That means that the person at least endeavours to be at his best around it. Unfortunately, large pupils may be a natural state; and you have to watch them change, taking in account the change in lighting, to determine whether they dilate or converge.
If a guy looks at your lips for more than 5 seconds while you're talking and he faces you with direct eye contact, what does this mean?
Body faces directly to each other and he focuses during the conversation and looks at your lips every 5 seconds
It means that he finds you interesting and/or attractive. Try to smile more the next time you speak with him.
Is it from physical or emotional attraction?
I notice (and feel) him getting more serious around me and I see his pupils dilate when he first sees me. Is this enough information to determine whether this is a physical or an emotional reaction?
When a guy barely knows you, there is no emotional love reaction. It is completely physical. Most people do not feel beyond a physical connection until several verbal interactions with a person. Immediate emotional reactions are disgust, anger, empathy. But all of those are also based on outward appearance/actions of a person.
He's always like I don't know but jittering(his legs) in class?
It's too complicated to explain over social media like THIS but haha anyways he talks to me a lot and matches a lot of the stuff here and I don't know how do I get him to like me, or how like in detail can I tell if he likes me as a friend or more?
If he matches most of the signs in this article, then he already likes you. Instead of waiting for him to ask you out, take up the action and ask him out if you want to get to know him. If you are nervous to ask him out on a date directly, then suggest that he accompany you and both of your friends to an event.
What does it mean if a guy asks you if you're nervous around him? He never asked that kind of question before?
I was in a room with a guy I see only every few months. It's for a standing appointment. There was another person in the room too this time. He asked if I was nervous. He's never asked me anything like that before. We always have friendly conversations and easy going. After we end our meeting,he always walks close behind me and he'll repeat something he already said. He also touched my arm this time when doing something he normally does without ever touching my arm. He put my arm on his arm and that's when he asked was I nervous. Sometimes he'll act like he's totally interested in me, then acts like he's not. This can happen during the course of our meeting. He always goes out of his way to help me.. I have tried: I want to ask him why did he ask me that, but don't know if I should. I do want to know.
Is he a peer or in an authoritative position in regards to you? He may feel responsible for you but not in a romantic way. If him touching you makes you feel uncomfortable then tell him to politely keep his boundaries. You should not bring up his past behavior though unless it happens again.
Does he like me or am I just the rebound? What does sorta seeing each other mean?
So he told me that he liked me, but it is hard to know because he could be just using me as a rebound. He kissed me and then told me that it was misleading that he wasn't fully over his ex-girlfriend, but he liked me. That we could see where it would go. This was over a month and a half ago.. We work together. He likes to touch the back of my neck, because he knows I don't like it. He smokes and he knows I don't like the smell of smoke so he made a promise to himself never to smoke in front of me. He always asks me if I can handle some of the things that need to be put on the shelves or if I want him to do it. . He comes over sometimes even though he knows my mother doesn't like him. When he is over he wants to sit really close, he will put his head on my lap, hold my hand. . I started giving him the loser sign and he would give everyone the finger, but now he gives everyone the loser sign instead. He likes to stand really close. He will try to pick me up because he also knows that I don't like to be picked up.. Now he gives me hugs and still kisses me. . Last time he came over, he didn't get a very good hug so next time we were on break together he came and gave me a hug from behind saying that since he didn't get one last time, he gets one now.. He also told one of our co-workers that we were sorta seeing each other What does that mean?. Do you think he actually likes me or am I the rebound?? He told me that he liked me, but he still liked his ex-girlfriend when he confessed to liking me. My mother doesn't like him, yet he still comes around. He also told our co-worker that we are sorta seeing each other. I think he is pulling away.
He smokes and drinks. I go to church. Never lite a cigarette or had a drink of alcohol. I have tried: We haven't really talked about it. I flirted, told him that I like him. stood closed, cuddled. now I'm going to pull back a little. I think it was caused by: Him and his ex were together for a long time. I'm very shy/socially awkward. Never had a boyfriend. My mother doesn't like him
When he says that you are "sorta in a relationship" he is saying that he is interested in you but taking it slow. You should be grateful of this in that he is not rushing into something with you. This also means that he sees you as something special and not just a quick fling.
I would caution though that your mother is not fond of him and you should take that into consideration. You appear to be naive when it comes to relationships. Your mother is trying to protect you from getting emotionally hurt. Take it slow with this guy and do not make any major life changing decisions such as deciding to become a party girl so he likes you even more. Do not ever change yourself for someone else. Is he polite to your mother when he visits? Or is it more of a rebellion appearance each time? These are some things to watch out for because they will tell you of his true intentions. Make sure that you are just not a game/distraction for the moment and that he is seriously interested in you.
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