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Get Your Girlfriend Forgive and Love Again After You Cheated on Her

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I love my ex-girlfriend with whom I recently have broken up?

This is the second time I hurt her by cheating on her, and I really love her, I just can't throw 3 years away as if it were nothing. I've been trying to talk to her and tell her that I am going to change and show her change rather than just say things that I am going to do, and she just doesn't believe that I am trying to change because she has heard all of it before. She is right, but I'm not ready to say goodbye: I want her and miss her so much that it's leading me to taking my anger out on walls and crying my eyes out. I need help, please.

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First, you have to make sure that your girlfriend still loves you, which is really hard to do considering your current position. Only in this situation it is best to determine the hope for her loving you by eliminating the signs of the opposite feelings, which can be done by using our article on telling if your spouse, or girlfriend, hates you. If you see no or very little signs from the article, then it is worth to endeavour to repair your relationship. Write an apology letter to her. Show, both to yourself and your former girlfriend, that you are doing your best in getting her heart back and start singing and devoting songs to her. You can write poetry and bring flowers or a plush toy to her door. Change yourself with creativity, and she will notice it. After that, a ring or a necklace with a heart will symbolize your feeling to her. Give a lot of time to repair the feelings. Please remember that you also have to learn to make any decisions cool-headed and not in anger: impulsive and hot-headed decisions will only worsen the situation. You may also need to get relationship advice or, in the worst case, which we hope will never happen, get over your broken heart.

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I have lost the love of my life?

We broke up five months ago and I just suddenly feel so bitter and there is a big temptation to get revenge, holding back hardly not to say bad things she thinks I am a monster probably but I am not and I cared for her and will care about her forever but this misunderstanding is killing me. I have tried: I was staying away and not communicating. I think it was caused by: I was insisting on being in a relationship and she said she didn't want one

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