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I like a girl but I am afraid if she has a boyfriend?

I have a big crush on a girl in my class, but I wanted to know if she has a boyfriend? The actual problem is I am very shy and I don't know what to say to her and how to talk to her? Earlier I had a good relation with her as a friend at many times she herself approached me to say hi although I wasn't looking at her but I don't take that as a sign that she likes me though. Later a few things happened that now she doesn't really talk to me. Now I have the following two questions:

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1) Does she have a boyfriend? 2) How can I improve my impression and get her to like me and ask her to be my girlfriend? (Note: she is a kind of a cool girl and me a kind of a nerd)

You took too long to ask her out. If you are connected socially to anyone that she is, arrange a group outing and invite her along. If she accepts then you can begin to create a good connection with her again. If she has a boyfriend this would probably be the time she may ask if he can come along to the outing. You said she is a popular girl so most likely if she had a boyfriend it would be widely known with others in the school.

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To improve her impression of you, talk to her more and although it may make you uncomfortable you will be able to gain an open dialogue with her again. Ask Someone for a Date is a VisiHow article that has great advice for making the first move.

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See more questions like this: I have an ex who's now a friend already. We have been separated for almost 2 weeks now. When I ask if she has a new boyfriend she does not reply via SMS. What could that mean?

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This girl has a boyfriend, but she seems like she likes me?

This girl has a boyfriend, I think the boyfriend is in the army at the moment. She seems she likes me a bit and also she hardly knows me as well, and I gave her my number and she was really cool with it, and she gave me her Facebook name to find her easily, etc.

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You are in the friendzone. Do not make a move on her other than friendship unless she makes a move first. The boyfriend in the Army may not be a solid relationship but you should not try to push a romantic relationship with her. She gave you social media contacts which is a girl's way of saying we can communicate from a distance for now.

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I want to ask a girl out, she had just recently joined my workplace?

There is this girl, she is just recently joined my workplace. I just saw her once and I kind of liked her. I'm confident and I showed her around, had a little bit chat. But I don't know if she has a boyfriend or not. As for me I never had a girlfriend, and my life is boring. So I want to a head start to my life, and she is white and I'm a Desi guy. What do you suggest?

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Workplace romances often end very badly and one of the people in the relationship ends up leaving the job or being asked to leave. You seem to have developed a friendly acquaintance with her so ask her out with other co-workers a few times before you ask her out for a date. Ease her into getting to know you by talking to her during break times at work or finding reasons to stop by her desk for work. Know if Your Female Friend Is Falling for You has some signs that you can look for while you are talking to her and trying to develop a deeper workplace friendship.

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What do I do if I like this girl and she has a boyfriend and considers me as her brother?

I like this girl a lot and she has a boyfriend but considers me as a little brother

You really do not have a good chance right now to get out of the friendzone. She has a boyfriend and has you in the corner as a friend. There are other girls out there so start dating and maybe she will get jealous and maybe you will find that you like the person you are dating more romantically then her.

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Trying to read the signals if she has a boyfriend?

A woman at work always says hi when she sees me. She's mentioned a partner 2 weeks ago but not since. I ask her what she is doing at the weekend and she says nothing planned. Trying to see if she is single.

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She mentioned that she was in a relationship so she probably is still with that person. Just because she is cordial to you with greetings and has nothing to do that weekend does not mean that she is not in a relationship. Ask her how she met her partner and how long they have been together the next time you can ease it into a conversation. If you need to you can say that you are trying to figure out how to find a great person to date and want her female input. This way it seems less like you are interrogating her about personal matters while at work.

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My girlfriend has a boyfriend but then also she sees me?

Is she interested in me?

If she is dating you casually she is still interested in you but not ready yet to make a commitment. If things are good between you and she has told you that she is dating others you can keep dating her this way or ask her to make things exclusive between the two of you.

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Can I tell my work colleague that I like her though she has a boyfriend?

Hi, I've been working in this place for a year, and one of my work colleagues who has a boyfriend, keeps showing interest, gazing, laughing on my silly jokes, blushing when I give her a compliment, and other subconscious messages. I felt this weird kind of attraction when I first saw her, and I really feel there is a mutual attraction, and I don't know whether I can ask her out, or let her know that I like her

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During one of the times that you are flirty with her simply drop a line about how perfect you both are for each other and that you would date her if she was not in a relationship. This may have her back off from you and then you will know that she likes you but is keeping her current relationship. It will put a seed in her mind though that you are interested in her more than just friends. Tell by a Woman's Body Language if She Likes You can help you determine if she really likes you.

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What are you going to say to a girl that you asked if she has a boyfriend and she never answers?

I asked a girl online if she has a boyfriend and she's not answering me

She is not ready to talk about personal stuff with you or let you know if she is available. If you are on any of her social media accounts there may be clues that she is dating someone. A dead giveaway is a pic of her and another guy kissing but regardless of those signs she is not ready to answer you. Drop the subject and continue talking with her casually.

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Does she has a boyfriend? I am really confused she seems to be secretive?

I was courting a girl. She was in the Philippines and I was in the US. We started to have messages here and there and then suddenly she was not as active to respond to my messages. I went back home after like 5 months to see her in person. I noticed a pendant but it was given by her best friend which is a guy also, on her Facebook there is a stuff toy that says I love you and was also given by him. When I talked to her about it, it was her best friend which is that guy that I saw in the party, she told me that she is not happy with me, but what was those times of messages and all that sudden change. I felt that I wasted a lot. Help me

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Long distance relationships rarely workout unless someone relocates within a year. You did go see her and yet nothing has happened since that visit. If you really want her in your life, fly back to the Philippines with a ring and US Visa Application for Fiance forms. Her unhappiness is probably more about loneliness than your actual relationship.

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I proposed to a girl on Facebook, she replied 'I have a boyfriend', what can I do to forget her? please help?

When a girl reply she has a boyfriend

For starters, girls do not want to be proposed to over social media, a phone call, or a text message. Ever. She told you she has a boyfriend and move on. Obviously, you were wrong about her interest in you. Start dating someone in person instead of chatting up girls online.

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I talked to a girl that I like today, but I only told her that I'm interested in joining her organization because I wanted to get her number, what should I do now?

What should I do now, I talked to a girl that I like today, but I only told her that I am interested in joining her organization because I wanted to get her number

You began a fantastic way to get to know her. Joining her organization will give you more access to her and you will be able to create a better acquaintance with her. She gave you her number so call her up and ask her to meet you for coffee or something else casual so that she can tell you more about the organization.

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Why does a girl with boyfriend go to lunches with me. When she was single, I got an opening but acted late?

Asked her out but she was silent. Was she really interested or just used me

She did not use you but you are right you waited too late to express interest in her. Now she is seeing someone else so you should respect that. Tell her that you understand she is dating someone else but that you would like another chance if they break up because she should understand that you are interested in her as more than friends.

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How do people know if someone has a boyfriend?

I have a daughter who has been acting weird lately. I have tried: I have tried finding out. I think it was caused by: Don't know

If she has a smartphone, put a spy app on that phone. There are many reputable apps to choose from and you can read more about it in this VisiHow article Spy On Your Boyfriend, Girlfriend or Children's Text Messages and Emails from a Cellphone. It is time to have a conversation with her about dating and remind her that she can tell you anything will no consequences. Keep an open dialogue with her. It will not be easy but at least, you can get her to start opening up. Sexual consequences such as STDs and pregnancy should also be mentioned in this conversation that you have with her.

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Someone said my crush was taken but she acts differently around me?

I have a crush on her and I feel like she could be the one, but then recently someone told me she got a boyfriend but its weird because she acts flirty around me

You need to make a move and ask her out. She may have a boyfriend but only because you never initiated anything other than casual friendship with her. If you think she is the one, do not wait too long to ask her out or she will be deeply involved in that other relationship and it will be too late for you.

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Do you think she likes me?

I love a girl. I look at her everyday. She knows I am looking at her, she also looks at me. Do you think she has a boyfriend, and she likes me? Please help me. How to get her?

Stop looking and talk to her. She is giving you at least one signal that she has an interest in you. You do not have to outright ask her if she is dating someone but as you have small conversations with her you will get to know more about her and what her interest really is towards you.

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Did she have someone else already?

I've been a friend to her almost 10 years online (not so close relationship). Never met her once and then suddenly we met for the 1st time. After a few load of messaging, I just want to know her closely, but I'm afraid she already have someone else. Judging from media status. She already clashed with her EX-boyfriend long time ago. What should I do?. I have tried: Asked her if she gets married, invite me... then she said :nobody wants her

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Be honest with her. Respond that you know someone who would love to have her as his girlfriend and that person is you! It can't hurt to show your intentions toward her because she may feel the same. Even if she doesn't at least you will know that you did not miss an opportunity to connect with her into a relationship. Do not wait too long after the initial meeting to suggest you meet again but this time for a date. Because you have known her for so long online, go through her social media and try to design a date that you know she will be interested in. This will show her that you pay attention to what she says and want to make her happy.

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I've been chatting with my crush for a couple of months now. How do I find out if she has a boyfriend?

I feel it would be a bit awkward to ask her on social media. I feel it would be more decent to ask about her relationship status face to face someday. I don't know if I could directly ask her best friend or other friends. I would like act like an alpha male by the way. I've tried to arrange a meeting twice but failed. The first time I invited her, she told me that she was at Church and had no time. I text her every now and then and got polite replies all the time. But, the way she had no time to meet me made me somehow believe that she has a boyfriend. I'm not sure. I have tried: Trying to set up a date twice using my fake Facebook account before but not succeeded. But, I've shared genuine information about me with that fake account. Now, I've changed my mind, have started chatting with her using my original Facebook account and I'm planning to meet her in real. She is happy that I've started.chatting with my real Facebook account. I think it was caused by: Using my fake Facebook account at the first and chatting with her must have caused the problem. I was not serious about her first so I use my fake account. Now, I started liking her and begun using my genuine account.

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